Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

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Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them.

Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

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299 episodes

LOVE FEST! Charity Lawson & Dotun Olubeko Are A Dreamy Double Date - Ep 299

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by a couple whose love story they are very familiar with, as Charity's season was hotly recapped here at Dear Shandy! The world fell in love with Charity & Dotun's relationship, and Shandy is thrilled to have them join for what can truly be described as a double date! Today Charity and Dotun give the juiciest, most satisfying and SPECIFIC answers about their first impressions, common misconceptions, beliefs that have changed, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a hilariously exhausting Newlyweds Game, exhausting because too much fun was being had! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! More Charity: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/charitylawson TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@charity.lawson More Dotun: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dotunolubeko TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@dotunolubeko Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Charity & Dotun! 4:20 - Is Shandy Together? 5:23 - First Impressions 20:20 - How They Complement Each Other 23:10 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 31:50 - Early Hurdle 35:59 - How They Fight 42:25 - Most Common Misconception 49:49 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 55:33 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:53 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 21m
Mar 28
Bachelor Recap: Finale | A Historic Bachelorette Crowning And The Twist That Never Was - Ep 298

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Finale Kick Off 3:07 - Joey’s Family 10:31 - Daisy’s Final Date 17:52 - Kelsey’s Final Date 22:15 - Proposal Day 24:51 - Daisy & Kelsey 28:18 - The Breakup 35:27 - The Proposal 37:14 - After The Final Rose 42:07 - Bachelorette 51:10 - Andy’s A-Game 52:12 - Shandy Word Watch 53:32 - Night One Predictions 54:58 - Special Introduction If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

59m
Mar 27
LOVE FEST! Gerry Turner & Theresa Nist Share Their Post-Golden Wedding Glow - Ep 297

It's GOLDEN Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by none other than the Golden Bachelor himself, Gerry Turner, and his blushing bride, Theresa Nist! The world stopped to watch these two fall in love late last year, then again when they tied the knot on live television in January, and Shandy is beyond thrilled to host this exclusive post-wedding interview! (Psst: turns out Theresa is a Shandy!!!) Today Gerry and Theresa describe how they complement each other, their love languages, what their early hurdle has been (spoiler alert: it's ongoing!), and of course, how they fight! Finally, a delightful Newlyweds Game revealing many fun tidbits about this beautiful couple! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! More Gerry: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/goldengerryturner/ More Theresa: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theresa_nist/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Gerry & Theresa! 2:34 - First Impressions  6:32 - Three Adjectives 8:13 - How They Complement Each Other 13:00 - Gerry Becoming Golden Bachelor 15:29 - Love Languages 16:46 - Early Hurdle 22:24 - How They Fight 25:27 - Common Misconceptions 28:01 - Beliefs That Have Changed 30:29 - Love Advice 32:17 - The Newlyweds Game 44:14 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

51m
Mar 21
Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Pack Your Hammer & Your Olive Branch - Ep 296

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 10, aka Women Tell All! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:30 - Women Tell All Kick Off 4:17 - The Hashing Out Of Drama 12:11 - Lexi Hot Seat 12:55 - Jenn Hot Seat 16:39 - Maria Hot Seat 24:23 - Tulum/Last Week’s “Cliffhanger” 29:59 - Rose Ceremony 31:17 - Rachel Hot Seat 35:32 - Joey Hot Seat 36:16 - Bloopers 39:32 - Previews 40:05 - Shandy Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

46m
Mar 19
Love Is Blind Recap: Reunion | Like Sands Through The Hourglass - Ep 295

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the Reunion! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping + Surprise For Andy 1:33 - Overall Thoughts 6:13 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 7:56 - Amy & Johnny 9:25 - Jeramey, Sarah Ann & Laura 19:11 - Trevor 25:04 - AD & Clay 31:52 - Highlights 36:36 - Jessica & Jimmy 40:05 - Megan Fox 43:31 - Chelsea 45:39 - Brittany & Kenneth 48:26 - Matthew 50:13 - Chelsea & Kwame 50:56 - The End If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

58m
Mar 15
Bachelor Recap: Ep 9 | Seeking The Fantasy in Fantasy Suites - Ep 294

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 9, aka Fantasy Suites! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 35%! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:58 - Episode 9 Kick Off 2:31 - Rachel 8:38 - Kelsey 15:13 - Daisy 23:56 - Cliffhanger 30:39 - Andy’s A-Game 32:00 - Shandy Word Watch 35:20 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

42m
Mar 12
Love Is Blind Recap: Ep 12 | One Wedding & A Funeral (The Finale) - Ep 293

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the finale, episode 12! Thanks to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:42 - Chelsea & Jimmy 16:53 - Bachelorette Party 18:24 - AD & Clay 42:55 - Amy & Johnny 47:07 - Ending Moments & Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

54m
Mar 07
Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Joey's Coming For Dinner (aka Hometowns) - Ep 292

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 8, aka Hometowns! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:13 - Kelsey’s Hometown 14:20 - Rachel’s Hometown 28:14 - Daisy’s Hometown 36:20 - Maria’s Hometown 48:34 - Rose Ceremony 52:53 - Andy’s A-Game 53:19 - Shandy Word Watch 55:00 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 0m
Mar 05
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-11 | Chelsea, Jimmy & The Impending Zombie Apocalypse - Ep 291

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the third Netflix release, episodes 10 and 11! Thanks to our sponsor... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:59 - Amy & Johnny 6:22 - AD & Clay 17:30 - Laura & Jeramey 24:50 - Sarah Anne 33:01 - Chelsea & Jimmy 53:43 - Jessica 57:46 - Trevor 59:33 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 8m
Feb 29
Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | And Down The Hometown Stretch They Come - Ep 290

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://furanostudio.etsy.com and use code SHANDY20 for 20% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/DEARSHANDY50 and use code DEARSHANDY50 to get 50% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:39 - Episode 7 Kick Off 4:00 - Daisy’s 1-On-1 8:19 - Evening 12:02 - The Final Group Date 15:06 - Evening 24:30 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-1 26:33 - Evening 31:59 - Rose Ceremony 33:56 - Andy’s A-Game 35:46 - Shandy Word Watch 38:51 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

48m
Feb 27
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | The Good, The Bad & The Clingy - Ep 289

By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 6! Today we're breaking down the second Netflix release, episodes 7-9! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:32 - Amy & Johnny 6:56 - Brittany & Kenneth 22:28 - AD & Clay 35:55 - Chelsea & Jimmy 48:59 - Jessica 51:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy, Cont’d 54:08 - Laura & Jeramey 1:05:48 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 10m
Feb 23
Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Voulez Vous Faire Poutine Avec Moi - Ep 288

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down this week's back-to-back episodes, episodes 4 & 5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDYFREE for 40% off plus a free welcome bundle! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/DEARSHANDY and use code DEARSHANDY for 50% off! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:46 - Episode 6 Kick Off 4:56 - Group Date 9:46 - Evening 24:19 - Kelsey T’s 1-On-1 27:21 - Evening 29:37 - Maria’s 1-On-1 32:55 - Evening 34:34 - Lexi 36:54 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 43:50 - Rose Ceremony 47:45 - Andy’s A-Game 49:27 - Shandy Word Watch 52:22 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

59m
Feb 20
*PART 2 * Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | Jimmy Gets Out-Foxed - Ep 287

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 2 of 2! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 0:59 - Chelsea & Jimmy 11:14 - Jessica & Jimmy 15:33 - Chelsea & Trevor 18:15 - Post-Fight & Breakups 22:49 - Chelsea & Jimmy, cont’d  27:58 - Beach Party 33:01 - After The Party 37:14 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

42m
Feb 19
*PART 1* Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | May The Pods Have Mercy - Ep 286

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first release of season 6, meaning episodes 1-6. Because there is so much to cover, we're dividing this recap into two parts. This is part 1 of 2! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:00 - Matthew 4:36 - Amy & Johnny 8:30 - Brittany & Kenneth 19:33 - AD & Clay 34:02 - Sarah Ann & Jeramey 40:21 - Laura & Jeramey If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

48m
Feb 19
LOVE FEST! Brayden Bowers & Christina Mandrell On The Competition To Serve - Ep 285

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Bachelor Nation's latest power couple, Brayden Bowers and Christina Mandrell! These happen to be two "villains" Shandy never believed were villains in the first place, and it was so fun to finally hang out IRT to hear behind-the-scenes tidbits and learn about their relationship dynamic! Today Brayden and Christina share their thoughts on true "contentment", how they overcame their early hurdles, and of course, how they fight! We're also treated to an exclusive Brayden-and-Andy freestyle rap and beatbox performance! Finally, a hilariously chaotic Newlyweds Game you do NOT want to miss! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! More Christina: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/christinamandrell More Brayden: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/braydenbowersofficial TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@braydenbowersofficial Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Brayden & Christina! 3:01 - Did Being “Villains” Help Bond Them? 6:27 - The Beginning 9:02 - Brayden’s Near-Death Experience & Subsequent Realizations 16:31 - Contentment & Brayden On His Season 22:12 - How They Complement Each Other 26:35 - How They Fight 37:29 - How Brayden Is So Zen 42:04 - Early Hurdle 49:46 - Common Misconceptions About Their Relationship 52:23 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed Since Finding Each Other 54:51 - The Newlyweds Game 1:12:21 - Brayden Freestyles While Andy Beatboxes!!!!!!!!!!!! 1:16:18 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 24m
Feb 15
Bachelor Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Tag, You're Villain - Ep 284

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down this week's back-to-back episodes, episodes 4 & 5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:15 - Episode 4 Kick Off 3:29 - Lexi’s 1-On-1 17:12 - Evening 8:58 - Group Date 11:27 - Evening 16:04 - The Next Day/2-On-1 Date 26:07 - Evening 29:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 36:15 - Episode 5 Kick Off 37:03 - Rose Ceremony 39:58 - Kelsey A’s 1-On-1 41:36 - Evening 43:56 - Group Date 49:10 - Evening 51:16 - Rachel’s 1-On-1 52:10 - Evening 53:36 - The Next Day 53:45 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:02:23 - Rose Ceremony 1:02:56 - Andy’s A-Game 1:03:51 - Shandy Word Watch 1:06:20 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 12m
Feb 14
Tap Into Your Intuition With Natalie Miles - Ep 283

For our first Hot Topic episode of 2024, we wanted to shake things up a bit! We often bring on therapists to discuss matters of the mind, but since so many of us struggle with overthinking and analysis paralysis, Sharleen felt it was time for a different conversation. What if we weren't haunted by the choices not chosen, the pros and cons lists, the indecision that keeps us from feeling truly confident in our decisions? What if, instead of attempting to "logic" our way through life, we listened to—gasp!—our *intuition*? Our guest today is Natalie Miles, acclaimed channel, psychic medium, writer and author of the best selling book “You Are Intuitive. Trust Your Truth. Take Back Your Power.” But whether or not you believe in psychic abilities, this conversation is still for you. Natalie is not here to change your beliefs, but rather to help you tap into your OWN intuitive gifts, the "higher power energy" inside you that is there to guide you towards your truest self and most fulfilled life. Today, with Natalie's help, we discuss intuition vs instinct, intuition vs hopes/goals, and how to distinguish between intuition and anxious thoughts. She gives us tips on getting out of our head and into our body, explains why Google isn't your friend, and inspires you to notice the part of yourself so many of us have lost touch with. That's right, Shandies, today we're going a bit woo-woo (or as Andy puts it, wee-woo), and we hope you're as inspired by this conversation as we were! More Natalie Miles: - The Book, "You Are Intuitive": https://youareintuitive.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamnataliemiles - "Things That Die" Podcast: https://natalie-miles.com/things-that-die - Natalie's upcoming series, "Everyday Intuition" begins Feb 18: https://natalie-miles.com/everyday-intuition (use code SHANDY11 for 11% off) Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Natalie Miles! 4:21 - What Is ∞, this “Higher Power” intuitive energy? 6:30 - Is Everyone Intuitive? 7:33 - Intuition Vs Instinct & Andy On The Woo-Woo Scale 15:29 - How Did Natalie Find Conviction And Come To Trust In Her Own Intuitive Gifts? 20:57 - Are There People With Bad Intuition? 21:53 - How To Distinguish Between Intuition And Anxious Thoughts 29:13 - Where’s The Line Between Trusting Our Intuition And Being “Realistic”? 33:00 - Where’s The Line Between Our Intuition And Our Hopes And Goals? 36:34 - Getting Out Of The Head And Into The Body 39:18 - Googling 43:17 - Dreams 46:00 - Bravery 49:03 - Noticing And Believing 52:14 - Death And Endings 54:20 - Mourning The “Death” Of Paths Not Chosen 56:33 - What Natalie Wants You To Take Away From This Conversation 58:01 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 11m
Feb 08
Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | To Bully Or Not To Bully - Ep 282

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:43 - Episode 3 Kick Off 5:18 - Group Date #1 10:10 - Evening 20:05 - The Next Day 22:17 - Jenn’s 1-On-1 23:42 - Evening 26:58 - Group Date #2 28:23 - Evening 31:20 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 37:47 - The Next Day/The Pool Party 52:12 - Preview 52:18 - Credits 53:03 - Andy’s A-Game 54:22 - Shandy Word Watch 57:08 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 2m
Feb 06
Q&A! Unrequited Generosity, The Gossip Mill, And Once Ick, Always Ick? - Ep 281

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What are Shandy's thoughts on giving it another go with an ex who used to give you The Ick—Is it "Once Ick, Always Ick"? If your generosity with friends feels under appreciated, is it worth bringing up? And if your bestie plans an elaborate Bachelorette party getaway, as a bridesmaid, does not wanting to go make you the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box and 2 free wellness shots per box while subscription is active! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: I’m Interested In Trying Again With My Newly Single Ex-Turned-Friend Who Used To Give Me The Ick—Shandy’s Advice? 11:08 - Q2: How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Coworker And Her Gossip Mill? 23:36 - Q3: I Was Generous With My Friends But Was Shown Little Appreciation—Who’s The A-Hole Here? 38:04 - Q4: AITA For Not Wanting To Attend An Entire 8-Day Bachelorette Getaway? 46:04 - Q5: I’m Furious My Mother-In-Law Is Backing Out Of A Very Costly Agreement—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 3m
Feb 01
Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | 30 Is The New 60 - Ep 280

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://magicspoon.com/SHANDY to grab a variety pack and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save five dollars off your order! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:02 - Episode 2 Kick Off 3:56 - Group Date #1 13:09 - Evening 19:49 - Daisy’s 1-On-1 22:08 - Evening 24:20 - Group Date #2 27:17 - Evening 32:15 - The Next Day 34:02 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 45:14 - Rose Ceremony 45:51 - Andy’s A-Game 46:50 - Shandy Word Watch 49:03 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

55m
Jan 30
Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable - Ep 279

It's Caller Day! Today we're joined by lovely caller Lauren. She's found herself in a longterm, on-and-off yet surprisingly comfortable FWB situation with a "friend". It's time for this to end.... or is it? Is there actually any harm in enjoying the comforts of familiarity? Listen on for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Lauren! 20:14 - The Question 22:10 - Shandy Sleuthing 41:13 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

50m
Jan 25
Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Everything's A Game And It's Joey's Serve - Ep 278

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:09 - Joey 4:06 - Premiere Kick Off 5:57 - Night One 7:40 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 13:19 - Joey’s Toast 15:38 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 32:42 - Lea & Her “Special Card” 37:27 - Notable 1-On-1 Time, Cont’d 40:17 - First Impression Rose 41:22 - Rose Ceremony 42:29 - Andy’s A-Game 43:38 - Shandy Word Watch 45:05 - Shandy’s Predictions 49:19 - Shandy’s Wild Cards If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

56m
Jan 23
Q&A! Anxiety Talking On The Phone, The Middle Name, & If Shandy's Changed Their Tune On A 3-Year-Old Take - Ep 277

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! In Episode 10, Shandy told a caller not to put "doesn't drink" in her dating profile—3 years and a sober social movement later, have they changed their tune? If your mother-in-law calls just to chat on the phone too often for comfort, how to ease phone-talking anxiety or to lessen the pressure without hurting anyone's feelings? And what if your husband wants to give your baby daughter a middle name you hate? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:27 - Q1: You Once Told A Shandy Not To Put “Doesn’t Drink” In Their Dating Profile—3 Years Later, Do You Still Feel This Way? 8:51 - Q2: My Mother-In-Law Calls Too Often And It Gives Me Anxiety—Help! 27:14 - Q3: My Friend Is Now Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She’s Ended Up With Him—Help! 38:04 - Q4: My Husband Wants To Honor His Grandmother Using Our Daughter’s Middle Name But I Don’t Like The Name—Help! 49:19 - Q5: My Husband Won’t Watch Rom-Coms With Me! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 3m
Jan 18
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 3! - Ep 276

Happy 2024, Shandies!!! We're back from our vacation and so excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... today is our 3rd installment of UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:07 - Episode 42: Caller Maya - https://youtu.be/gwJyzdS8NgM?si=pS0LVXjKgqE091IT 7:40 - Episode 154: Q6, from S - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A?si=NFZjCWlELmF_TU5u 12:00 - Episode 170: Q5, from Scared of Falling: https://youtu.be/7kVFN__wbAU?si=-uthJ85Sod6YgX64 14:41 - Episode 183: Caller Rosemary - https://youtu.be/pJdsPIfB3es?si=miKOsexlois7Oet4 20:28 - Episode 193: Caller 2, Siobhan - https://youtu.be/4DPlS4HCDLc?si=Qfgi7lzIZCdDeq-7 25:23 - Episode 197: Q3, from Pickle - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho?si=rwsAq2x_UwIWh6zX 35:47 - Episode 218: Q7 from C - https://youtu.be/W0GWXzZwU0c?si=uZ0NTC7aXui3vNmU 39:55 - Episode 239: Q2 from K - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 43:47 - Episode 239: Q4 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 46:57 - Episode 239: Q5 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 51:56 - Episode 263: Q3 from N - https://youtu.be/Ofw1rNoMDiw?si=EjX_gcIlbYVpLaWo 55:15 - Episode 270: Q4 from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/ga4wgRlzIjE?si=WatAdVjOraPqTWaO 1:02:20 - Not An Update But A Shandy Letter The referenced article written by the Shandy from the final letter: https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973 If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 13m
Jan 11
2023 IN REVIEW! 🎊 Your Favorites of 2023 Questions + Our Fave Q&As Of The Year! - Ep 275

It's our last episode of 2023 and today's all about reflecting on past year! We're blending 2 ideas today: keeping with tradition in highlighting our Best Q&As of the year, as well as answering YOUR questions about our personal favorites/bests of 2023. After this, we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 11! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another fantastic year of kinship and laughs. We wish you the happiest holiday season and will see you soon! XOXO Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order! 0:00 - Introduction 1:31 - Favorite Book of 2023 3:56 - Favorite Escape Room of 2023 4:52 - Favorite Animal Interaction of 2023 7:07 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 270, Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car 18:20 - Favorite Socks of 2023 18:51 - Favorite Beauty Finds of 2023 20:54 - Favorite City Visited in 2023 21:18 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help! 37:03 - Favorite Restaurant of 2023 39:33 - Favorite Way We Grew As People in 2023 42:31 - Favorite Outfit of 2023 43:04 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 206, Q7: The Ethics Of Tickling 52:41 - Favorite Green Thumb Tip of 2023 54:10 - Favorite Video Game of 2023 54:23 - Favorite Ad Jingle of 2023 56:32 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 245, Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts? 1:10:20 - Favorite Movie of 2023 1:12:23 - Favorite Deep Conversation of 2023 1:14:55 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q5: I’ve Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help! 1:28:04 - Favorite Moment of Self-Insight of 2023 1:33:21 - Favorite Song We Performed in 2023 1:34:21 - Thank You Shandies! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 40m
Dec 21, 2023
Q&A! Andy's Advice To Guys On Approaching Women IRL, Phone Addiction & House Key Etiquette - Ep 274

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it acceptable for your best friend to give her boyfriend a key to your shared apartment? For guys wanting to approach women outside the apps, but don't know where to start, Andy gives his 101 tips. Are we all addicted to our phones, and what's an otherwise happily married couple to do when screen time routinely becomes fight time? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Q1: My Roommate Gave Her Boyfriend A Key To Our Shared Apartment—Am I The Asshole For Being Upset? 11:05 - Q2: My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected? 24:25 - Q3: Shandy’s Advice To Men On How To Approach Women IRL 42:39 - Q4: Our Marriage Is Good But Our Phone Addiction Isn’t—Any Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 5m
Dec 14, 2023
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | It's Always About The F***ing Ring - Ep 273

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down the grand finale! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY at checkout to save 20%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:45 - Finale Kick Off 5:17 - Kat & John Henry’s Date 11:40 - Back On The Beach 12:57 - Eliza & Aaron B’s Date 14:45 - Back On The Bach 26:24 - The Next Day 28:35 - Kenny & Mari 29:24 - Wedding 32:28 - Rave Wedding Reception 41:16 - The Next Day 41:29 - “Take Time & Think” 43:19 - The Couples Make Or Break 50:21 - Overnights 55:04 - Proposal Day 59:35 - Where Are They Now Montage 1:03:02 - Credits 1:05:00 - Andy’s A-Game 1:06:02 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 11m
Dec 08, 2023
Golden Bachelor Recap: Finale | The Good, The Bad & The Gerry - Ep 272

Shandy is back with Golden Bachelor recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand FINALE! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.marinelayer.com/SHANDY15 to get 15% off your entire order! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:05 - Finale Kick Off 1:32 - Theresa Meets Gerry’s Family 2:34 - Evening 3:35 - Leslie Meets Gerry’s Family 10:35 - Evening 25:40 - Live: Leslie 33:05 - Back In Costa Rica  36:06 - Proposal 37:34 - Shandy’s Bet 40:16 - After The Final Rose 42:05 - Joey 44:32 - Special Announcement 47:50 - Overall Thoughts 50:23 - Shandy Word Watch 52:08 - Reviewing Night One Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 1m
Dec 04, 2023
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Relationships Crumble & The Dogs Come Sniffing - Ep 271

Shandy is back with Bachelor in Paradise, Season 9 recaps. Today we're breaking down episode 9! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.StoryWorth.com/DEARSHANDY today and save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com/DEARSHANDY to get 25% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:37 - Episode 9 Kick Off/Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 34:55 - Rose Ceremony 40:59 - Credits 42:22 - Andy’s A-Game 45:00 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

51m
Dec 01, 2023
Q&A! Pre-Date Sleuthing, An F Sans The Buddy, & Red Wine Lucy - Ep 270

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found to your date? If you're dating someone "perfect", what does it mean when you keep thinking about your ex? And if someone who routinely got in car accidents asked to borrow your new car, what would you say? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://hellofresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for free breakfast for life! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: My Pre-Date Googling Revealed Something About My Date—Should I Bring It Up With Him? 12:33 - Q2: My Grandmother Has Passed But Wanted Me To Have Her Wedding Ring—How Do I Bring This Up With Family? 24:23 - Q3: My Boyfriend Is Perfect But I Keep Thinking About My Ex—Help! 39:50 - Q4: We’ve Gone From Friends To Dating To Friends Again—Shandy’s Take? 56:30 - Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car 1:06:55 - Announcements If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 11m
Nov 29, 2023