Comparing Yourself to the Other Woman – Why You Do it & How to Stop

Comparing yourself to the other woman, while normal and healthy in ways, can also become obsessive. Instead of being led down a path of hate, revenge, and bitterness, here’s how to understand what you are doing, why you are doing it, and learn to make a healthy, more accurate comparison between you and your level of integrity and self-respect and her, and her level of integrity and self-respect.

Top take-a-ways:

• How comparing yourself to the other woman can give you a sense of power, control, and certainty over the future.


• Why your cheating partner never actually compared you to the affair partner, and why you shouldn’t either.


• The power of buckling down, making the comparison, and choosing to either cut her down or building yourself up

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