Authentically Kinky (formerly known as What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want)

Dating Kinky, Inc.

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NOW IN IT'S FOURTH SEASON WITH OVER 200 EPISODES! A Podcast about authenticity and the wonderful humans in our kinky world.

Presented by Dating Kinky and Powered by Clips4Sale

A fun and frank discussion about how people connect with each other and to their own authentic selves,. While many of our guests come from the sex positive and non traditional relationship world, the program is about the humans behind the character and the stories of how people find their authentic selves through an atmosphere of expectations, exaggerations, and challenges. The show is the Official Podcast of Fetishcon. Please subscribe at your favorite podcast outlet and thanks for taking the journey with us!

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212 episodes

Madalynn Raye: A Raye of Awesomeness

She is the fetish model that may be among the kindest we know. Meet one who understands the sensation of nylon and lycra, the Award Nominated Madalynn Raye, whose charm will capture you in so many ways.

56m
Mar 26
Jessie Sage: Writer, Podcaster, and new to the Ropes

It's a return visit from Jessie Sage, sex columnist of Pittsburgh City Paper and the host of the When We're Not Hustling Podcast. She tells about her shibari experience and what it's like having her Mom on their podcast to talk about their relationship.

1h 9m
Mar 19
Mistress Ultra Violet: The Owner of the Atlanta Dungeon

It's a visit with the owner of the Atlanta Dungeon, Mistress UltraViolet, whose expertise and perspective on the industry is insightful. From her beginnings through her latest ventures in Sissy School and Kink-Ed Atlanta, she is creating wonderful experiences in the ATL and beyond.

51m
Mar 12
Mistress Baton : Outed into Authenticity

Mistress Baton shares her journey from South African TV and Film star to Dominatrix in this incredible story of authenticity. Also available as a video podcast at https://youtu.be/s1WQUKOKrlc.

1h 3m
Mar 05
JJ - The Secrets of SexieShow

BONUS EPISODE: We visit with the host of Sexie Show, JJ to talk about this fun podcast as well as his history in Kink.

55m
Mar 01
Randy Moore: The Return of the One and Only

Fetish Model Icon Randy Moore joins HiThereCatsuit for a wonderful conversation about her return to the industry.

1h 1m
Feb 27
KittyQuinzell and Zoey Ziptie - The UK's Fetish Dynamic Duo!

The energetic and fun Kitty Quinzell and Zoey Ziptie join the show to talk about drools and zipties!

1h 6m
Feb 19
Mistress Riley - The Muse of Minnesota

In the premiere episode of the new era, HiThereCatsuit visits the Minnesota Dungeon of Mistress Riley for an interview that left the host in a bit of a dreamland.

57m
Feb 13
Preview Episode: Vicky Devika - The Goddess Within

Vicky Devika joins us in this preview episode to discuss being a Goddess and her study on the science of kink.

55m
Jan 30
Susan Wright - The Voice of Kink and Fetish Advocacy

As the spokeperson for the NCSF - The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, Susan Wright has seen the changes happen to create safe places within the world of Kink and Fetish. She joins HiThereCatsuit for a discussion on Explicit Prior Permission, which is the next evolution of the term Consent, as well as mental health issues in the classification of kinksters. You can join in the movement at ncsfreedom.org.

1h 0m
Jan 23
Chicago Mistress Simone - The Matriarch of Chicago

She is the matriarch of Chicago and the "Joyful Brutalist" We welcome back the legendary Chicago Mistress Simone to the program. She is simply called "The Mama!" Queen Pain giver, Kink Educator, Domme Mentor, Session creator - She visits with HiThereCatsuit on the final show of 2023 before the big changeover! #authenticallykinky

1h 10m
Dec 26, 2023
200 - Mistress Stephanie Locke - Mistress, Mischief, Warmth and Love

She is the original OG Mistress. She has been dominant for six decades. From owning her own S&M club at age 20 to mentoring hundreds of Mistresses, From being an advisor to a President's daughter to being Hollywood's muse for over 30 years. She was one of the original contributors to the legendary Harmony Communications magazine, "Bondage Life." She simply defined the word 'fetishist," and remains an icon in the profession. For our 200th episode, we are proud to have Mistress Stephanie Locke as our guest. And stay tuned through the end of the show for a major announcement about the future of the podcast! An unforgettable episode!

1h 26m
Dec 19, 2023
Lew Rubens - The Pioneer of Predicament

Lew Rubens began his career at a late age, but once he discovered that he could become the authentically kinky person he was, a muse entered his life. While she passed, he continued his work and now, in present day, is considered one of the pioneers of predicament bondage. We talk about his journey and how his love of the art keeps him creating every day. He joins HiThereCatsuit for an intimate interview.

1h 16m
Dec 12, 2023
The Assignment of Skylar West and Jim Weathers

Skylar West and Jim Weathers have been working together to create amazing content for Jim’s well known Bondage Cafe Site. Now Skylar has teamed with Jim in the development of a long form movie which brings together stunning visuals, fantastic scenarios, and beautiful fashion. The Result is the Assignment, where one woman’s acceptance of a housesitting job becomes a trip into a fantasy world of intrigue, tension and dreams. They talk to HiThereCatsuit about this amazing project and the creative ideas that went into it. You can see The Assignment at jimweathers.com.

1h 58m
Dec 04, 2023
Autumn Bodell: On the Fetish Road

Autumn Bodell has been traveling the roads of the United States in an almost constant tour. In the accommodations of her travel trailer, this amazing model has created moments for people of our community through her amazing content. Her more than 13 years of experience includes television, movies, pay per view, internet and magazines including Hustler as well as radio, as a party hostess and in dance clubs. We had a chance meeting at Fetish Con that brought us together as friends, and as you will hear, is as genuine as they come.

1h 17m
Nov 28, 2023
Adah Vonn: Building Community through the Backlash

Miss Adah Vonn has been a professional domme in the Hudson Valley and has built her Less Dead Studio to be home for her beautiful one on one meetings but a hub for the community as well. You would think the gift to the community would be enough, but as we will find out, some feel that some pros are somehow not welcome within the lifestyle. We talk about this and other important issues in this compelling episode.

1h 11m
Nov 21, 2023
Kaytlin Bailey: The Voice of the Oldest Profession

Kaytlin Bailey is a sex worker and comedian who is the host of the Oldest Profession Podcast and uses history as her greatest weapon to advocate for sex workers around the world. She joins @HiThereCatsuit for a conversation on the history of the Oldest Profession, Bettie Page, Sylvester Stallone and more.

1h 2m
Nov 14, 2023
Dr. Aly - Repairing Ruptures in Relationships

Dr. Alison Ash, founder of @turnon.love joins us for the third time on our show to discuss how to navigate conflict and repair ruptures in relationships. It's an informative discussion with @HiThereCatsuit.

1h 6m
Nov 07, 2023
Nyxon - When one name is enough

She is an internationally traveled fetish model who has been published in multiple adult books & magazines including Penthouse's July/August 2015 issue. The Pittsburgh native first started doing bondage videos in 2008, but quickly accumulated quite a bit of experience in multiple genres, making her one of the top performers in the industry. She is Nyxon and she joins HiThereCatsuit on her favorite holiday for a great look back at her career and a look ahead at her rejoining the ProDomme community.

1h 12m
Oct 31, 2023
Venus: The Voice of Cuckolding

She is Venus, host of the Venus Cuckoldress Podcast and we talk about not only cuckolding and compersion, but some very important topics about making a difference in our sex positive community.

1h 2m
Oct 24, 2023
Isabelle Miller - The Influencer

She may be identified as an influencer, but Isabelle Miller's influence goes way beyond brands. She is an advocate for mental health issues, body positivity awareness, and content creation. Her thick skinned approach has allowed her to be a positive voice for the industry. He joins HiThereCatsuit on the program presented by Dating Kinky with special thanks to Kinkster Merch on Etsy. Also available as a captioned YouTube episode https://youtu.be/yrxdrrNcO58

59m
Oct 17, 2023
Ivy Davenport - Super Sizing Fetish

She has brought fetish to a new level with her body positivity and ability to create memorable moments with her size and energy. Ivy Davenport is one of the top fetish models in the country for her work in dominance and feedism and pushes the critics aside to be her authentic and beautiful self. This episode is also available with Captions on YouTube at youtube.com/@whatwomenwantpodcast

55m
Oct 10, 2023
Cali Logan: "I didn't even know it was fetish!"

She didn't know she was doing fetish modeling until someone told her it was fetish, and ever since Cali Logan has been a superstar in the business. For over 22 years, from Playboy to the internet, she has brought fetish to life! She talks to HiThereCatsuit about life in front of the camera, being a mom and nurse, and safety in the industry. Our show is presented by Dating Kinky with thanks to Kinkster Merch on Etsy All the ways to connect are available at: linktr.ee/whatwomenwantpodcast Support the Show: bit.ly/ThanksCatsuit

54m
Oct 03, 2023
Nicholas Tanek and Your Kinky Friends

As host of Your Kinky Friends and author of books about kink and life, Nicholas Tanek has said that the world of kink has saved his life. As you hear this interview, you will see how his connections in kink have done just that and how his podcast has helped him bring to light the beauty of this community.

1h 2m
Sep 26, 2023
Denzil: The CEO of Clips4Sale on the 20th Anniversary of C4S

SPECIAL EDITION! It may be the most interesting show we have had as we get a look at the fetish content industry from the inside when Denzil, the CEO of Clips4Sale joins Hitherecatsuit for an exclusive interview on the day of the platform's 20th Anniversary.

1h 3m
Sep 20, 2023
Mistress Alexandra Balance: From Athens to the Emerald City

She put together one of the most beautiful gatherings of Dommes with her Femdom Gala in Athens, and now she comes to the United States with her passion and her #TempleofDommes and has landed in the Emerald City. Meet the extraordinary @alexandra.balance.official on the first show of our fourth season. Our show is presented by Dating Kinky with thanks to Kinkster Merch on Etsy

57m
Sep 19, 2023
Enchantress Sahrye and Calisa Bliss: The interview from Fetish Con

Calisa Bliss was a guest on our Fetish Con episode in 2022, and charmed us with her story of starting out in the industry. Now, she is a force in Damsel related content and with the veteran switch and content producer Enchantress Sahrye, they frequently get mistaken for each other. Now, from Fetish Con, they bring their powerful story to us in this interview taped in St. Petersburg, Florida. You can see a video version of this on our youtube channel at youtube.com/@whatwomenwantpodcast.

1h 7m
Sep 12, 2023
Pinksters and Coralyn Jewel

TODAY ON A SPECIAL FRIDAY SPECIAL EDITION OF THE SHOW! We talk about the new adult social media platform called Pinxsters with Coralyn Jewel, whose presence in the adult industry from content creator to lifestyle club owner to podcaster gives her a unique perspective on what it's like to survive in that realm. You can visit Pinxsters at Pinxsters.com and sign up for a free account.

40m
Sep 08, 2023
Queen Ana Blue - The Empowerment of Kink

Queen Ana Blue hails from the midwest but her power is far and wide as one of the Dommes of destinction at Sanctuary LAX. She previews her visits to Dark Odysses and DomCon NOLA and shares her journey from a deeply religious background to a place she calls home in this conversation with HiThereCatsuit. Our podcast is presented by Dating Kinky with special thanks to KinksterMerch on Etsy.

1h 6m
Sep 05, 2023
Holland of Chicago: The transformation of Thought

She creates content that makes you think of who you are and what you dream to be. She is Holland of Chicago, who has been producing content that stretches the boundaries of sexuality and promotes change in your authentic selves that your fears may have left behind. It is a powerful interview with HiThereCatsuit that even makes them take a second look at themselves.

57m
Aug 29, 2023