Wicked Ways Studio Podcast

Wicked Fellow

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Welcome to “Wicked Wednesdays” a weekly podcast about my experience as an amateur porn actor and producer. I’ll be sharing my insights into the process of making porn, how we got started and lots of candid talk about sex and and relationships with an emphasis on BDSM, Kink and Polyamorous relationships. Obviously this will not be a kid safe podcast, so discretion is advised.

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77 episodes

Wicked Wednesdays No 64 “How Will A.I. Effect the Adult Entertainment Industry?"

This week I dive in the question of how Artificial Intelligence will affect the adult entertainment industry. Will powerful A.I. tools make porn safer for all of us?, will computer generated porn take over and displace human performers? What does the near future hold for all of us?” Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

36m
Jul 14, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 63 “BDSM Breakups”

This week: BDSM breakups. How do Kink and BDSM breakups differ from your normal vanilla break up? What can Doms do to help provide relationship aftercare, what happens when a sub wants to break up with their Dom? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

32m
May 19, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 62 “Surviving Breakups”

This week: Surviving breakups. I talk a lot about how to have successful healthy relationships on this podcast but sometimes things just don’t work out. I talk about how to get through the end of a relationship and hopefully come out the other side with your friendship intact. I also answer some listener questions about my relationship with leather, other men, and why I haven’t released any adult content in a while. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

41m
Mar 30, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 61 “Non Toxic Masculinity Pt 3 With Race Bannon”

This week: part two of my interview with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. With trans and gay rights being a hot topic in the news we talk about why and how these social issues have become a political battle ground. We also talk about how some groups actively recruit disenfranchised and isolated men. Find out more about Race Bannon here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

32m
Feb 22, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 60 “Non Toxic Masculinity Pt 2 With Race Bannon”

In the weeks episode I have a conversation with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. What does it mean to be “a real man”? Who gets to decide what a man should be and how they should act? Join us for part one of this conversation in my ongoing series about non toxic masculinity. Find out more about Race Bannon here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

28m
Feb 19, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 59 “The Ethics of Porn Pt 3: Does Mainstream Porn Lead to CSAM”

“In the weeks episode I tackle the very difficult subject of whether or not I believe mainstream porn can lead people down a path to CSAM, especially porn that has an “Age Play” element. This a very sensitive subject for many and I do want to warn anyone listening that I do discus the exploitation of children in the episode. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

33m
Feb 12, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 58 “Age Verification”

In this weeks episode I talk about age verification, how do we make certain that kids aren't watching porn. Can we have reliable age verification? What age is OK for porn? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

20m
Feb 11, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 57 “The Ethics of Porn Pt 1”

Is rough porn, or pornography in general, unethical? Does watching rough pornography cause people to commit crimes or become abusive? Are content creators responsible for the actions of their viewers? In this first part of a new series I give my thoughts on these questions sent in by a listener. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

24m
Jan 21, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 56 “Incels and Sex Workers”

Would legalizing sex work resolve the Incel problem? Should “Real Men” bother with consent or just do what they want? On this weeks episode I talk about these issues and more. Thanks to our new Patrons: Saavik, Miss D, and MJ your support is so important to the this podcast. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

32m
Jan 14, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 55 “Consent”

In our first episode of the new year I wanted to get back to some Kinky fundamentals and with Consent being of foundational importance to any relationship I wanted to take a deep dive and talk about this very important issue. What is consent? How do you give it, how to receive consent, how is consent withdrawn? What is a violation of consent? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

38m
Jan 04, 2023
Wicked Wednesdays No 54 “When Does Kink Become Unhealthy”

In this weeks episode I talk about Kink and mental health, specifically when does kink go from being a healthy and fulfilling part of your life to becoming something that causes you distress and and real harm. A very good article about the fight to de-stigmatize Kink and BDSM can be found here https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/01/bdsm-versus-the-dsm/384138/ Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

31m
Dec 09, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 53 “Interview with Race Bannon Pt 2”

In this weeks episode we continue our conversation with author and activist Race Bannon, we talk about the more fluid role of domination and submission in the gay kink scene in contrast with the more rigid roles in the straight scene. You can find more info about Race here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

31m
Nov 18, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 52“Kinky Threesomes Pt 2 and Kinky Dating Red Flags”

This week we have the second part of my conversation with Katja about playing with multiple people in a three way plus situation, negotiating Power exchange with more than one person and I also answer a listener’s question about some Kinky Dating red flags. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

46m
Nov 12, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 51 “Interview with Race Bannon Pt. 1”

This week we have our season 3 premier and we are happy to bring you an interview with author and activist Race Bannon. Katja and I had a wonderful interview with Race and in this first part of the interview we talked about his origins in the Kink and Leather community, changes he’s seen in those scenes, and some differences and commonalities between the gay and straight kink communities. Links for Race Bannon here https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

33m
Nov 04, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 50 “BDSM and the Law No 2”

In this weeks episode we are joined by MeanStreakMileWide for a conversation about how the Kink world intersects with the Legal world. We talk about how consent works in a legal setting, contracts between Doms and subs, how important societal changes effect our lifestyle and more. While we are talking about the law in this episode, remember that this is for education and entertainment purposes only, it is not legal advice and does not establish an attorney client relationship. If you are in a kinky legal situation or any kind of legal situation, its important to consult with a lawyer licensed to practice in your jurisdiction. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

59m
Oct 27, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 49 "Kinky Threesomes and Moresomes"

In this weeks episode Katja and I talk about our experience playing with multiple people in Kink environments, both intimately and non intimate settings. We also have some great news about our upcoming season of Wicked Wednesdays Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

28m
Oct 20, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 48 “How do I know if I’m a submissive?”

In this weeks epidote I answer a listers question about how to know if they are submissive as well as how I know when I’m talking to someone who is submissive or dominant. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

34m
Sep 15, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 47 “Threesomes Pt 2”

In this episode I answer some great questions about collars from our last episode and give more tips and advice for healthy happy three way sex. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

29m
Sep 02, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 46 “Collars”

In this episode I answer a listeners question about collars, what they mean in the BDSM and Kink scene above and beyond a piece of play equipment. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

28m
Aug 25, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 45 “Threesomes Pt 1”

In this weeks episode I talk about threesomes, how to have safe healthy sexual relationships with more than one person. In this first episode I address the importance of communication and consent when you first approach the idea of introducing another person to your relationship. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

32m
Aug 11, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 44 “How I got Started in BDSM and Porn

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I answer a couple of questions and concerns from last week and talk about how I got started in Kink and Porn Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

40m
Jul 21, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 42 Non Toxic Masculinity: How to deal with stress “Like a Man”

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I talk about dealing with stress in healthy ways, specifically about combating intrusive thoughts and anxiety that all of us deal with. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

52m
Jul 13, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 42 “Poly do's and don'ts”

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I give some advice on what to do and what not to do in Poly relationships as well as answer some questions from our last poly episode. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

38m
Jun 29, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 41 “How to be a Dom without being an Asshole”

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I give some advice about how to be a Dominant person without alienating everyone around you, both in and outside of BDSM and Kink relationships. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

34m
Jun 15, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 40 "How Overturning Roe v Wade Can Effect the Kink Community”

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I ask Katja to put on her constitutional scholar hat and help us understand how overturning Roe v Wade is not just undermining reproductive rights but how it might very well have dire consequences for the Kink and LGBTQ+ community. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

1h 9m
May 12, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 39 “Trust”

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I want to talk about Trust, earning it, keeping it, dealing with trust issues from past bad relationships and finding the courage to trust again. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

39m
May 04, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 38 "Mind the (Age) Gap"

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I address a listeners question about whether it’s an issue or not to have a significant age gap in a BDSM relationship or in relationships in general. I talk quite a bit about my own experience in being both the younger and older person in a long term relationship. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

35m
Apr 14, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 37 “"Kink and Family Pt 2"

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week Katja joins me for an in depth conversation about Kink and family, How and when to talk to kids about sex and Kink, why its so hard to speak candidly with family about intimate matters and how to balance a BDSM relationship with a family relationship. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

52m
Apr 06, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 36 “"Kink and Family"

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I discuss about when and if to talk to your family about kink, especially in relation to kids. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

30m
Mar 31, 2022
Wicked Wednesdays No 35 “"Katja Answers Your Questions"

Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com

1h 4m
Mar 23, 2022