Dear Girlchild

Auder Jabulani

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A perspective based podcast hosted by Auder Jabulani, which focuses on reaching out to the Girlchild, creating awareness on what the Boychild actually stands for and how they can both improve every aspect of their interaction.


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36 episodes

Dear Girlchild || Stop The Trend

We've all been in situation where we've been hurt or we've hurt someone. This then leads to an endless spiral of self disregard or a disregard to people in general. We become the one thing we feared at one point in time. Toxic! I am not too sure how we can fix this but today's episode is a start. For full episode consider joining the growing Patreon community: patreon.com/deargirlchild Get in contact with me on Instagram: dear_girlchild Twitter: DearGirlchild Facebook: deargirlchild01 Email: contact.jabulani@gmail.com I hope you enjoy the episode!

8m
Mar 10, 2022
Dear Girlchild || Relationship Trauma

Dear Girlchild, wassup!!! Look at us being consistent! Another week and yes, another episode, and this one is a tear-jerker! I have to concede that this one is also a long episode and I sure hope you will enjoy it . Please Note: The "free version" of this will be available on all platform but I would highly suggest clicking on this link instead: https://www.patreon.com/deargirlchild/ Please enjoy and be sure to share with Everyone! Get in contact with me on; Instagram: @dear_girlchild Twitter: @DearGirlchild E-mail: contact.jabulani@gmail.com

7m
Mar 03, 2022
Dear Girlchild || Yes, I Missed You

Dear Girlchild is back!! Rebranded, Re-energized, Motivated and of course HAPPY! For the people who read this description, y'all are the real OG's. I just wanted you to know that I dearly missed being a part of your Thursday evenings and I was so eager to come back as soon as I had the whole situation figured out! Of course there's more detail in the episode! Also, this is the LAST free episode :( Enough chit-chat, I hope you enjoy this one and remember you can always reach out and contact me on: Instagram: dear_girlchild Email: contact.jabulani@gmail.com Twitter: @DearGirlchild Or you can send voice messages here on anchor! Your favorite boychild! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

9m
Feb 24, 2022
Dear Girlchild || Validation

Have you ever had a dream or vision in mind that you wanted to actualize but you end up doubting yourself and to make it even worse, you end up asking people what they think and they end up discouraging you a whole lot? Well, this week we look at ways we can overcome this struggle and just doing it, you know Nike style. Make sure you like, share and follow the podcast on Instagram @dear_girlchild and of course on Facebook @dear_girlchild1 Check out our merch store at audermerch.com Podcast Host @lordt_auder --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

9m
Sep 16, 2021
Dear Girlchild || 2020 The Story: Part 2

Howdy listener! another week, another episode and this week we bring to a close the story of how we got to where we are at health wise. Aptly named 2020 The story, we know how hard the year 2020 was for all of us with a pandemic ruining most of the plans and sending the entire planet into crisis. I am pretty sure you have your own story to tell about this particular year and how you coped with it. Here today, is the end of my story with hospital and I hope it does encourage you to keep going and to not give up or give in. You can always reach out to me on Instagram @dear_girlchild and on Facebook @dear_girchild1  Check out our exclusive merch line @ audermerch.com and follow our page @ 11th_auder on Instagram. Podcast Host @lordt_auder --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

8m
Sep 09, 2021
Dear Girlchild || 2020 The Story: Part 1

This episode, a personal one for me, is about the story of how I got to where I am in terms of my health. For the last two years, I have struggled with my mobility and its been quite the ride for me and today I opted to share this story with you. I do not have much to say about it here but I hope you enjoy the episode and you can always share, like and subscribe to the podcast on all streaming platforms. You can reach out to me on Instagram @dear_girlchild Always remember you can shop on our merch store at audermerch.com Podcast Host: Auderflugel Jabulani @lordt_auder --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

8m
Sep 02, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Of Chasing dreams and Comebacks

After unceremoniously taking a leave of absence, we are back again trying to pick up from where we left off but this time with a different twist. I rarely describe or speak about myself and the struggles I have in this life, but this time round, I intend to try something new, let you in on a couple of secrets here and there and be sure to look out for a surprise somewhere in the middle of the episode. As a podcast host, most times its all about the content you plan on giving to your audience and how they will receive it. Maybe this time as Dear Girl-child we can try take this a different route. This one is specially dedicated to the people who listened to the podcast even in my absence. I also happen to have launched my own clothing line 11th Auder, check it out on audermerch.com , you can also follow the Instagram page @11th_auder Follow me on Instagram @dear_girlchild  Leave a like, comment and subscribe! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

6m
Aug 26, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Find Consistency

Consistency, the one thing we expect from all people we are invested in. We often ask people to be consistent toward us but the real question is are we consistent towards them? This is a classic example of asking of ourseleves what we ask of others. Get your cup of tea and listen in. Follow us on Instagram @dear_girchild Leave us a voice message on anchor. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

7m
Jun 03, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Finding that Forgiveness

Quick question, how many times have you had a situation where you've felt so bad about yourself? Maybe its over a couple of decisions or life choices? Well, I have been there and so many times I have found it so hard to forgive myself. I've beaten myself up numerous times and its had a ripple effect on the choices I have made after. Maybe we can help each other find the time and place to forgive ourselves? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

8m
May 27, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Come Alive

Most times, we are so concerned with blaming ourselves for the pain, we go through in all forms of relationships. We end up so busy closing ourselves off from the simplicity of life. We forget to live! I forget to live! Would you join me to come alive? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

9m
May 13, 2021
Dear Girlchild ||How My Heart Was Broken

Have you ever been in situation where you are in an active pursuit of somebody who has their interest vested elsewhere? It is utter PAIN I can tell you that for sure! The experience though shapes us to who we become. I share my story of how my heart broke. Also the title to this episode is perfect click bait! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

10m
May 06, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Final Q&A

For the last episode in the month of April, we have our last Q&A session from one of our listeners. I fondly enjoy answering questions and interacting at this level. I hope one day we can actually have a physical session with people, also, thank you so much for listening to all the episodes back to back when I don't upload. Danke schon!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

17m
Apr 29, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Thursday Q&A

The second part of Q & A is here and I am so glad that you have come back and even more people are reaching out to give their questions!!! So much fun!!   --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

11m
Apr 15, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Q&A Thursday

I recently realized that I have been asking you to contact me, yet I have never actually taken note of them! Today I have finally caught up with them and I have done a short Q&A to answer your questions. I hope you enjoy this, hopefully more of the same is to come. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

16m
Apr 08, 2021
Dear Girlchild || Your Voice

Men, we failed, that's it nothing else. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

8m
Mar 25, 2021
Dear Girlchild || What Guys Really Want

Dear Girlchild has come such along way, making each other better one date at a time, that's all we could ever ask for! This week we look into what guys really want! Are you ready for it? Listen in. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

11m
Mar 18, 2021
Dear Girlchild || What Guys Want

Happy International women's day, I am three days late to this one but why not celebrate them all times? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

9m
Mar 11, 2021
Dear Girlchild || What Girls Want

Happy new month, the last time March was around, she whipped up a storm!!!! Well, she's back and let's hope this time she will be a bit kind. Meanwhile, we have a new episode for us to listen to. Ever curious to what girls want? Listen in!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

9m
Mar 04, 2021
Dear Girlchild || The One In 2021

And I actually don't have a description for this one but I know how much I did miss being part of this! I just.......... ugh! ........Listen in!!!  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

7m
Feb 25, 2021
The Next Step || When The Stars Align

The year is rapidly coming to an end and what better way than to chill back and listen to the episode before we start our festivities. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

7m
Dec 24, 2020
The Next Step || In The Name Of Love

My heart goes out to you for the many instances and situations you've had to endure all in the name of love. This is our apology and as much as it doesn't do much, I hope it can allows us to start our healing process. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

9m
Dec 17, 2020
The Next Step || Just Trustworthy.

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24m
Dec 10, 2020
The Next Step || Ghosted

Imagine falling for someone then they ghost you all of a sudden!!! That thing is just PAIN! I have always tried to understand why such things happen and today I have come with one of the possible reasons why. Shout out to the Description readers. Please leave a voice message of whatever you feel like saying!! For now listen in and share as widely as you can . Road to 6000 listens!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

15m
Dec 03, 2020
The Next Step || A Perfect Balance

I am having so much fun writing and producing this podcast. Over the last four months I have been getting both positive and negative feedback from my listeners and that is okay, today I want to give a massive shout out, to you who takes time reading this descriptions time and time again. You are the MVP!!!  Shall we listen in? Also remember sharing is caring. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

10m
Nov 26, 2020
The Next Step || Here To Stay

You did not think I would just leave you like that!! I made a commitment to stay here with you through it all and I will see that through. Also if you listen to this episode we will pass our own unique milestone, Are you ready for date nghts?? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

4m
Nov 19, 2020
The Journey // Trick or Treat

Love is such a compelling thing to withhold. It’s the only feeling that can have you feeling on top of the world while at the same time it can bring you down on your knees in a split second. This feeling albeit amazing has the word WORK intertwined with it. How hard can you work for love? Do tune in! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

15m
Oct 29, 2020
The Journey // Of Castles And Streets

Sometimes we aren’t heartbroken because we’ve fallen for the wrong person or such things but it’s because we think we are with someone who’s clearly not with us😄 A promise of A Castle and the lifestyle of a queen but you end up on The Streets begging for Mercy. Of castles and Streets --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

13m
Oct 22, 2020
The Journey // Worth The Wait

Have you ever felt the need to be someone’s person but you end up being rejected big time and you feel like a clown for even thinking about it? I know I have, listen in and find some nuggets in here😄 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

11m
Oct 15, 2020
The Journey // In The Silence

Have you ever felt like the only thing shielding you from the madness is that door to your room? I thought that it would be such an trying time to ask for your help. There is no Help in the Silence.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

11m
Oct 08, 2020
The Journey // Beneath The Mask

We can move ahead if we keep holding on to he masks we have become so used to! I am letting go of my mask will you? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/dear-girlchild/message

10m
Oct 01, 2020