On this episode of the World Game-Changers podcast, Paul is joined by guest-host Lyn Smith to talk about how the pair consciously uncoupled, going from lovers to very close friends, and to prove that there is life after separation.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- We’re separated, we’re parting, & we’re conscious of that, but the uncoupling takes it to another dimension. Not only are we separating in what the outside world might deem a romantic/couple scenario, but we’re also separating all the emotions that go along with that. It’s a different kettle of fish than untangling your bank accounts. I’ve found it “interesting” how that’s worked for me.
- Love is the ultimate energy & it can be expressed in many different ways. We can have love for our family, friends, even our car or other possessions, we have a different kind of love for our pets, our partners, with give it a name and a box to live in. Love really is the energy that radiates from within us and we then choose how to direct that love.
- Strip out the label 'romantic', because we’re not a couple any more, but my love for you has actually increased because there’s no expectation that we’ll be sharing a bed or whatever else, as a couple. It’s given me an opportunity to look inward at love in a general sense, and specifically where you’re concerned, and ask what it really means.
- Self-observation is that key: To ask yourself, why are we doing this? Is it a relatively superficial, ego-driven lovers’ tiff, or is it an understanding from consciousness that we’ve come to a different place in our lives as individuals & we’re maybe no longer aligned in a way that we thought we were initially. To have that understanding helps to create a route map, an exit, to help navigate through all the stormy emotions that prevail which can magnify & prolong the confusion & hurt.
BEST MOMENTS
‘This feels really strange, but in a really beautiful way'.
‘Unconscious separation causes chaos, because you’re then trapped in all the emotions'.
‘We’d helped each other grow so much that we grew apart'.
‘I don’t think anybody who’s been in the love of an intimate relationship can come out totally without any hurt feeling, unless you’re a robot. But you can certainly navigate it to where there will be a bit of pain here & there, but you can let that go pretty quickly & easily'.
VALUABLE RESOURCES
ABOUT THE GUEST
Lyn Smith is a world-renowned & respected Relationship Transformation Expert & author of the #1 best-selling book, 'The Cupid's Bow Technique'.
She shares her skills with women who have experienced some degree of hurt/ trauma/heartbreak at the hands of men, who don’t currently have healthy fulfilling relationships to understand themselves (& men) & attract or create healthy lasting love, passion, intimacy & fulfilment in their personal relationships going forward.
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ABOUT THE HOST
Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy & fulfilling life.
From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink & constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate & destructive violence.
Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches & mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:
Developing World Game-Changers…
He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice & ultimately, make a real difference.
This has been built on a long & distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring. He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities & good causes around the world; positively impacting & inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.
Through this World Game-Changers podcast & books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.
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