Focus on Marriage Podcast

Focus on the Family

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If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

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Submitting Your Money to God

What does it practically look like to trust God with your money? Bob and Linda Lotich join Jim Daly to discuss a phrase that helps them manage their money - Assets Under Management. Also, John and Greg address the need to practice financial stewardship in your marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast. http://focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast. Or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.   Receive the book Simple Money, Rich Life for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-03-05?refcd=2044204   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/g1PdH   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/finding-financial-freedom-together-as-a-couple-digital-download/?refcd=2044204   Coping With Financial Crisis and Maintaining Your Marriage https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/coping-with-financial-crisis-and-maintaining-your-marriage/   Money Tips from God https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/coping-with-financial-crisis-and-maintaining-your-marriage/    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

11m
Apr 02, 2024
Pornography Hurts True Intimacy

Sadly, many marriages today have at least one spouse who's struggling with pornography. Jim Daly speaks with Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about the great damage porn can do to a marriage. Then, John and Greg discuss some practical steps a person can take towards wholeness if he or she is struggling with pornography.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book the Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-03-26?refcd=2031704   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/sKsl8   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2031704   Responding to Your Husband's Secret: Porn https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/responding-to-your-husbands-secret-porn/   No Porn Marriage Podcast https://www.focusonthefamily.com/shows/no-porn-marriage/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

12m
Mar 28, 2024
When Spouses Have Differing Sexual Desires

Sex is a wonderful gift for marriage, and yet, it can also be complicated. John and Greg address how physical intimacy is a top issue many couples fight over. You'll also hear Jim Daly talk with Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about how couples can work through scenarios where one spouse wants sex more than the other. Finally, Erin Smalley will offer a helpful perspective on how to ask your spouse for sex.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book the Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-03-26?refcd=2030103   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/vzHaaz   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2030103   Article: The Best Ways to Deal with Mismatched Libidos in Marriage https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/the-best-way-to-deal-with-mismatched-libidos-in-your-marriage/   Article: What is Intimacy? https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/what-is-intimacy/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

10m
Mar 26, 2024
Remembering the Story of How You Met

It's wonderful to reflect on how you and your spouse fell in love. John asks the Smalley's to share their fun love story. Then, you'll hear Jim Daly talk to Matt and Lisa Jacobson about how their first meeting didn't go so well, and why God still used it anyway.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the two book bundle Loving Your Husband/Wife Well for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-03-21?refcd=2027303   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/pJuQJ   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/learning-to-love-your-spouse-well-digital-download/?refcd=2027303   Improve Your Marriage Through Thankfulness https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/improve-your-marriage-through-thankfulness/   The Story of Us https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/the-story-of-us/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

9m
Mar 21, 2024
Marriage and Children with Special Needs

For couples that have a child with special needs, the challenges are very real. John, Erin and Greg address what it's been like for each of their marriages to raise a child who has special needs. Plus, Jim Daly talks with Lisa Jacobson about how she and her husband Matt kept their marriage strong, even during some challenges with their daughter.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-28?refcd=2026401   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/Wm5W8   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/creating-a-marriage-full-of-love-and-laughter-digital-download/?refcd=2026401   Managing Marriage and Children with Special Needs https://www.focusonthefamily.com/pro-life/managing-marriage-and-children-with-special-needs/   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/ms1Lm   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

9m
Mar 19, 2024
Repeat Back Your Spouse’s Interests

  Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-02-15?refcd=2023605   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/k3Kcm   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-waffles-and-spaghetti-can-build-a-stronger-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2023605   Learn how You're Feeling with the Feelings Wheel https://sf.fotf.com/EiE6vq   Why are Men Like Waffles? Why are Women Like Spaghetti? https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/why-are-men-like-waffles-why-are-women-like-spaghetti/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

11m
Mar 14, 2024
Communication Mistakes Spouses Make

How do you and your spouse work through your different communication styles? Jim Daly is joined by marriage experts, Bill and Pam Farrel, and they'll share common mistakes men and women make in communicating. Plus, John and the Smalley's give some tips to help you avoid miscommunications in your marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-02-15?refcd=2023905   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/9FYVP   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-waffles-and-spaghetti-can-build-a-stronger-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2023905   Understanding the Differences Between You and Your Spouse https://sf.fotf.com/LiXQH   Why are Men Like Waffles? Why are Women Like Spaghetti? https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/why-are-men-like-waffles-why-are-women-like-spaghetti/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

13m
Mar 12, 2024
Getting on the Same Page Financially

The discussions you have about money early in your marriage help set the tone for your financial habits as a couple. Jim Daly speaks with Linda and Bob Lotich about some of the conversations they had about money when they were a young couple. Plus, John talks with the Smalley's about some money rules they've implemented in their marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Simple Money, Rich Life for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-03-05?refcd=2024105   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/oTdbEG   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/finding-financial-freedom-together-as-a-couple-digital-download/?refcd=2024105   Communicating About Debt https://sf.fotf.com/5TWcg   3 Steps to Stop Bankruptcy From Bankrupting Your Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/0Ze2t   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

12m
Mar 07, 2024
Being Honest About Your Financial History

What were some of your financial habits going into marriage? Jim Daly talks to Bob and Linda Lotich, who get very honest about how they handled money before walking the aisle. Also, John, Greg and Erin bring up why it's important for you and your future spouse to talk about your money habits before getting married.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Simple Money, Rich Life for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-03-05?refcd=2023501   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/KRHUM   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/finding-financial-freedom-together-as-a-couple-digital-download/?refcd=2023501   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/vytot   3 Steps to Stop Bankruptcy From Bankrupting Your Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/1PWLs   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

12m
Mar 05, 2024
How Often Should We be Intimate?

It's common for married couples to ask, "how often should we be physically intimate?" While there's no rule, Jim Daly speaks to Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn on why many couples struggle to agree on frequency. You'll also hear John and the Smalley's offer encouragement to couples who are struggling to enjoy sex.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-05?refcd=2014401   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/s6gk7D   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2014401   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/MczmHu   The Best Ways to Deal with Mismatched Libidos in Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/5Dza2q   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

12m
Feb 29, 2024
Three Types of Sexual Desire

How do you deal with a situation where you and your spouse have differing desires regarding sex? Jim Daly talks with Dr. Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn about three kinds of sexual desire that most couples deal with. Also, John and the Smalley's discuss what couples can do if one or both spouses are resistant to sexual intimacy.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-05?refcd=2013704   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment-2013704   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2013704   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/vytot   The Best Ways to Deal with Mismatched Libidos in Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/5Dza2q   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

9m
Feb 27, 2024
When Your Childhood Impacts Your Marriage

Undealt with pain from your childhood can sometimes come up unexpectedly in the ways you treat your spouse. John, Erin and Greg will encourage you to deal with wounds from your childhood. You'll also hear Jim Daly talk with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about the need for getting difficult things out in the open.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-28?refcd=2009912   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment-2009912   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/are-you-ready-to-remarry-digital-download?refcd=2009907   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-2009912   Coping with Alienation, Anger, and Anxiety in Marriage https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/coping-with-alienation-anger-and-anxiety-in-marriage/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

12m
Feb 22, 2024
Connecting Well in the Evening

When you've had a long day, it's easy to pull out your phone and not talk with your spouse. John and Greg emphasize why it's important to be disciplined with your screen-time in marriage. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with Lisa Jacobson about how she learned to stop watching shows with her husband every evening. Also, Phylicia Masonheimer shares about a time that praying with her husband before bed helped her marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-28?refcd=2009911   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/jrcv9   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/creating-a-marriage-full-of-love-and-laughter-digital-download/?refcd=2009911   Three Ways to Nurture the Marriage You Want https://sf.fotf.com/voCsr   Phubbing, Social Media and Your Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/IxNPM   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

11m
Feb 20, 2024
Respecting Your Spouse’s Brain Wiring

One of the biggest factors in how husbands and wives communicate is the unique ways each of your brains are wired. Bill and Pam Farrel join Jim Daly to address the different ways God designed men and women's brains. Plus, John, Greg and Erin share why your understanding what your mate needs can help you be a better communicator.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-02-15?refcd=2009908   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/fSgbG   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-waffles-and-spaghetti-can-build-a-stronger-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2009908   Understanding the Differences Between You and Your Spouse https://sf.fotf.com/HbXbE   Why are Men Like Waffles? Why are Women Like Spaghetti? https://sf.fotf.com/Rma3j   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

9m
Feb 15, 2024
The Ways Men and Women Process Information

Do you ever get frustrated by the different ways and your spouse communicate? Jim Daly talks with marriage experts, Bill and Pam Farrel about the differences in how men and women talk. You'll also hear John and the Smalley's share why it's best to show appreciation to your mate, even in spite of your differences.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2024-02-15?refcd=2010402   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/FSTwz   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-waffles-and-spaghetti-can-build-a-stronger-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=2010402   Understanding the Differences Between You and Your Spouse https://sf.fotf.com/HbXbE   Why are Men Like Waffles? Why are Women Like Spaghetti? https://sf.fotf.com/Rma3j   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

12m
Feb 13, 2024
Don’t Hide from the Pain

How do you handle painful memories? While it's not fun to think about them, we encourage you to not hide from them either. Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal encourage blended families to work through painful situations from the past. Plus, John and the Smalley's encourage you to give yourself grace, even when you get something wrong today.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Preparing to Blend for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-10-17?refcd=2009907   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/mXj5p   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/are-you-ready-to-remarry-digital-download?refcd=2009907   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/UBjX5   Hope Restored https://sf.fotf.com/g6ogV   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

13m
Feb 08, 2024
The Ripples of Grief for Blended Families

Sadness and pain happen in every family. How do you pick up the pieces, even when you can't shake painful memories? Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal address some of the ways sadness and grief impact blended families. Also, John and the Smalley's explain how practicing vulnerability can help heal past wounds.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Preparing to Blend for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-10-17?refcd=2010302   Hope Restored https://sf.fotf.com/hoperestored-2010302   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/are-you-ready-to-remarry-digital-download?refcd=2010302   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-2010302   How Remarriage Affects Kids https://sf.fotf.com/how-remarriage-affects-kid   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

9m
Feb 06, 2024
If Your Spouse Doesn’t Receive Positive Affirmations

Have you tried to be encouraging to your spouse, but he or she wasn't receptive to it? Jim Daly talks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about some healthy perspectives on if your spouse isn't receiving your kind words. Plus, John and the Smalley's discuss how positive affirmations can help a couple build trust and have more enjoyable intimacy.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-05?refcd=1998805   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/yjDUM   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1998805   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/ny2DKQ   Honest Affirmation Can Make Your Marriage Great https://sf.fotf.com/FcBvN   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

7m
Feb 01, 2024
Owning Your Responsibility to Feel Good

Being affirmed by your spouse is great, but do you need it to survive? John, Erin and Greg explain why affirming your spouse is healthy, and discuss the difference between a need and a strong desire. You'll also hear from Jim Daly and Dr. Michael Sytsma on why feeling good about yourself is your decision, and should not be dependent on what your spouse says.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-05?refcd=1998704   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/CKFz0   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1998704   Discovering Mutual Pleasure in Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/discovering-mutual-pleasure   Honest Affirmation Can Make Your Marriage Great https://sf.fotf.com/honest-affirmation-can-make-your-marriage-great   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

11m
Jan 30, 2024
Maintaining Joy When Your Plate is Full

What your marriage is in a busy season, how can you make time for fun and laughter? Jim Daly speaks to Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about how they've learned to be joyful during busy seasons. John also talks with Greg and Erin about how they maintain joy, even with a taxing schedule.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-28?refcd=1997006   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/focus-on-marriage-assessment   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/creating-a-marriage-full-of-love-and-laughter-digital-download/?refcd=1997006   A Laugh Between Us https://sf.fotf.com/xyj2y   What Is Intimacy? https://sf.fotf.com/what-is-intimacy--   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

10m
Jan 25, 2024
When Your Husband Doesn’t Initiate Romance

What can you do if you desire romance, but your spouse isn't the romantic type? Jim Daly talks with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about a concept they call, "biblical flirtation." Plus, John and the Smalley's share about why it's good for men to be romantic toward their wives.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-28?refcd=1996803   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment-1996803   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/creating-a-marriage-full-of-love-and-laughter-digital-download/?refcd=1996803   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork.com-1996803   A Guy’s Guide to Romance https://sf.fotf.com/a-guys-guide-to-romance   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

11m
Jan 23, 2024
Openness That Leads to Healing

Pretending like you've got it all together is not good for your your marriage. John and Greg address why it's not okay to act like your relationship is perfect, especially when there are issues going on. Also, Jim Daly talks with Pastor Rick Bulman about how he and his wife Tiffany don't hide from their broken past, and ways they've seen God heal their marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Mended for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-10-26?refcd=1994101   Hope Restored https://sf.fotf.com/1994101   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/overcoming-the-betrayal-of-an-affair-digital-download/?refcd=1994101   Recovering From an Affair https://sf.fotf.com/q5YwMh   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-1994101   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

9m
Jan 18, 2024
A Wedding for Blended Couples

For couples facing remarriage, what's the way to do a wedding right? John and the Smalley's share how they've seen God restore people, even after an unwanted divorce. Also, Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal talk about ways kids can be involved in a blended family wedding.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Preparing to Blend for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-10-17?refcd=1780203   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment-1780203   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/are-you-ready-to-remarry-digital-download?refcd=1780203   How Remarriage Affects Kids https://sf.fotf.com/how-remarriage-affects-kids-   Remarriage Doesn’t Wipe Away Memories and Old Habits https://sf.fotf.com/remarriage-doesnt-wipe-away-memories-and-old-habits--   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

10m
Jan 16, 2024
When You and Your Spouse Don’t Agree on Discipline

How do you and your spouse find agreement on ways to discipline your kids? John, Erin and Greg address how this is a common tension point for couples, and why having kids can help you be a better spouse. Also, Dr. Ron Deal and Jim Daly discuss what healthy discipline can look like for blended families.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Preparing to Blend for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-10-17?refcd=1991212   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/focus-on-marriage-assessment-1991212   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/are-you-ready-to-remarry-digital-download?refcd=1991212   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-1991212   Discipline Is Worth the Effort https://sf.fotf.com/discipline-is-worth-the-effort   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

14m
Jan 11, 2024
Blended Couples and Their Finances

Money is one of the top areas of conflict for married couples. If you're facing financial problems, John, Erin and Greg will explain why you can still have hope. They'll also address whether or not a prenuptial agreement is a good idea. Plus, Jim Daly and Dr. Ron Deal discuss how blended families can deal with financial issues.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Preparing to Blend for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-10-17?refcd=1990716   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment1990716   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/are-you-ready-to-remarry-digital-download?refcd=1990716   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-1990716   Making a Financial Plan Matters to Your Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/making-a-financial-plan-matters-to-your-marriage-   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

14m
Jan 09, 2024
Focusing on the Best for a Better Sex Life

You long to feel emotionally safe in marriage. When you feel that safety, it can positively impact your sexual relationship. Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma talk with Jim Daly about the need to focus on good things in your marriage, even outside of the bedroom. Plus, John and the Smalley's talk about how you can help your mate overcome his or her insecurities.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-05?refcd=1991013   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment-1991411   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1991411   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-1991411   5 Things Experts Wish You Knew About Healthy Sex in Marriage https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/5-things-experts-wish-you-knew-about-healthy-sex-in-marriage/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

12m
Jan 04, 2024
Are We the Only Ones Struggling with Sex?

The truth is, many couples face challenges regarding physical intimacy. John, Greg, and Erin share why a satisfying sex life takes time and doesn't happen overnight. You'll also hear from Jim Daly, who talks to Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr. Michael Sytsma about common misconceptions many couples have about sex.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Secrets of Sex & Marriage for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-05?refcd=1991013   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment-1991013   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/answering-questions-about-sex-in-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1991013   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-1991013   5 Things Experts Wish You Knew About Healthy Sex in Marriage https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/5-things-experts-wish-you-knew-about-healthy-sex-in-marriage/   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

13m
Jan 02, 2024
Taking the Chance to Flirt

It can be easy to neglect romance when life gets busy. John talks with the Smalley's about how they've learned to be playful and flirtatious. Also, Jim Daly speaks with Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer about a concept they call, "biblical flirtation," that you can apply to your relationship.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book The Flirtation Experiment for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-12-28?refcd=1981901   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/couples-assessment-1981901   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/creating-a-marriage-full-of-love-and-laughter-digital-download/?refcd=1981901   Flirt Your Way to a Better Marriage https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/flirt-your-way-to-a-better-marriage/   Conversation Starters for Date Nights https://sf.fotf.com/conversation-starters-for-date-nights-12-28   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

11m
Dec 28, 2023
Stop Criticizing and Start Planning

Have you ever been critical of your spouse and you didn't realize how your words hurt his or her feelings? Dr. Randy Schroeder talks to Jim Daly about how couples can recognize if they're criticizing their mate too much. Plus, John and the Smalley's address why planning things together, instead of complaining, can go a long way in your marriage.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Simple Habits for Marital Happiness for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-07-11?refcd=1981304   Focus on Marriage Assessment https://sf.fotf.com/focus-on-marriage-assessment-1981304   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/forming-new-habits-for-your-marriage-digital-download/?refcd=1981304   The Reactive Cycle https://sf.fotf.com/the-reactive-cycle-1981304   6 Tools for Healthy Communication in Marriage https://sf.fotf.com/6-tools-for-healthy-communication-in-marriage-   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

10m
Dec 26, 2023
Can God Heal the Betrayal?

Adultery does great damage to a marriage, and it's strongly warned about in the Bible. Pastor Rick and Tiffany Bulman discuss what happened after her affair with a friend came to light. Also, John and the Smalley's share about what you can do, if you're wondering if you'll ever trust your mate again.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the book Mended for your donation of any amount! https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2023-10-26?refcd=1979205   Hope Restored https://sf.fotf.com/hoperestored-1979205   Listen Anytime https://store.focusonthefamily.com/overcoming-the-betrayal-of-an-affair-digital-download/?refcd=1979205   Contact our Counseling Department https://sf.fotf.com/christiancounselorsnetwork-1979205   Recovering From an Affair https://sf.fotf.com/-recovering-from-an-affair   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. https://focusonthefamily.com/podcastsurvey/

11m
Dec 21, 2023