How C*m

Remy Kassimir

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Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its 5th season How C*m has helped thousands of Cumpanions have their first O's, hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!

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201 episodes

45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco)

It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* --  with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned.  *Married people can still play, duh   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Ben at @BennyDNYC Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /show/episodes/view/show/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

1h 13m
Mar 31
44 The Hot-Wife Life (John Legendary)

Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood ‘hotwife’ lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more.   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow John at @MrLegendaryXXX Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /show/episodes/view/show/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

1h 1m
Mar 31
43 Hating Perimenopause + Loving P***y (Jade Catta-Preta)

Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is all parts educational, hilarious, and horny!   CW: SA  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Jade at @jadecattapreta Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /show/episodes/view/show/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

1h 28m
Mar 31
42 Intuitive F*cking (Lauren Hope Krass + Rachel B)

A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and so much more. It is a relatable, heart warming, hilarious and important conversation. Enjoy! CW: Disordered eating and sexual assault  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Rachel at @Racheebe and Lauren at @LaurenHopeKrass Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /show/episodes/view/show/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

1h 13m
Mar 17
40 Relationship Do's and Don'ts (Therapy Jeff)

Today's guest is the very funny, very handsome, and extremely anti-camping licensed professional counselor, Jeff Guenther. You may now him best from his insanely popular advise account, TherapyJeff on TikTok and Instagram -- and we're so lucky to have him here today! We're talking relationship do’s and don’ts, for people currently in relationships, people who are trying to get into relationships, and people who have no interest in relationships at all! From love bombing; how to recognize it, and how to stop yourself from doing it, to farting in front of a partner, to learning healthy relationships when they weren't modeled for you, to supporting partners with mental health issues/ body issues, to being monogamish, and several compatibility tests that we have learned from the New York Times and Married At First Sight: Australia -- this episode has it all.  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Jeff @TherapyJeff Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /show/episodes/view/show/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

1h 19m
Feb 26
39 Chatting About Our Down Unders from Down Under (Abbie Chatfield)

Remy is in beautiful Australia chatting with stunning entrepreneur, media personality, television host, podcast legend and sex goddess Abbie Chatfield! They discuss love on reality shows, dating in the public eye, sex in the public eye, whether Abbie thinks she is bisexual or a lesbian, open relationships, sex parties, everything she has learned about her "down under" from pelvic floor therapy, and SO much more.  Like this episode? There's more! Listen to Remy on Abbie's podcast here Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Abbie @AbbieChatfield Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /show/episodes/view/show/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

56m
Feb 07
38 Achieving Sexual Confidence and Many Types of O's (Dr. Tara)

Today's guest is Dr. Tara, a Los Angeles-based sex and relationship coach, tenured professor of sexual communication, award-winning sex researcher, TEDx speaker, TV Host of Celebs Go Dating, and the #1 sex educator on TikTok Dr. Tara talks us through her many different first time c*mming stories-- because she can and has c*m in SO many different ways-- internal o's, external o's and CERVICAL o's as well (which we have never heard of until now)! She also teaches us how to achieve sexual confidence, how to love your body, affirmations you can say to yourself, and how to practice sexual meditation. We also chat about the different types of sex therapy, and how you know when it's time to do it.    If you liked this episode -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  For more on limerence visit The Attachment Project and take the quiz we were talking about HERE Follow Dr. Tara @luvbites.co Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /show/episodes/view/show/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

57m
Feb 01
37 Crazy Horny Ex-GF: Limerence, Love and Lust (Rachel Bloom)

Iconic actress, writer, and comedian Rachel Bloom stops by the podcast for a TRULY c*mazing episode and we cannot wait for you to hear it! Rachel is best known for co-creating and starring as Rebecca Bunch in musical comedy-drama series which won her numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe Award, a TCA Award, a Critics' Choice Television Award, and a Primetime Emmy Award.  We talk about how her character Rebecca (and Rachel and Remy) have all experienced limerence -- an all-consuming and unreciprocated crush -- and break down where limerence comes from, how to become less limerent, and the differences between limerence and love.  Rachel also opens up about her sexual health, from educating  herself as a child, to current changes in her vulva post-pregnancy, attending pelvic floor therapy, a new diagnosis about her cl*t, and what she's planning to do about it! If you liked this episode -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  For more on limerence visit The Attachment Project and take the quiz we were talking about HERE Follow Rachel @RachelDoesStuff Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

1h 6m
Jan 21
36 Betsy And Remy Go To A Sex Show! - Cirque Du Squirt (Betsy Carroll + Lola Jean)

Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their hesitations about going (spoiler: Betsy had none, Remy had a lot), the various games they played and acts they witnessed, how Lola got her title as top squirter in the world, and how everyone feels about Remy's O drought. Maybe drought is the wrong word at this point because the orgasms HAVE occurred-- it's just not as easy anymore. So Betsy and Lola both give Remy assignments! We also talk about new classes that Lola is offering as well as sober and fun sex parties she hosts.  TW: Blood, needles, food and sex Follow Betsy @BetsyCarroll and Lola @LolaJeanDotCom Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 43m
Nov 04, 2023
35 IVF - An Eggcellent Journey (Lindsey Metselaar)

This episode is all about IVF! Remy welcomes back Season 1 Episode 2 guest and host of the popular dating + relationships podcast We Met at Acme- Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey tells us all about trying to concieve, getting diagnosed with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, and her and her husband's journey with IVF (In Vitro Fertilization). We hear about the different types of IVF, what types of people might require IVF, the differences between IVF, IUI, and ICI, and a range for what the procedure can cost. Lindsey also lets us in on her experiences with pregnancy sex, sex and sobriety, masturbation after getting married, orgasm droughts and so more. Finally, she gives Remy an assignment that reminds us of her first appearance on How C*m 6 years ago! CW: Remy discusses the current state of affairs in the Middle East from :30-6:30  Follow Lindsey @LindzMetz @WeMetAtAcme Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 3m
Oct 20, 2023
34 Drying Up! Menopause, Golden Girls, Orgasms + More (Carole Montgomery)

Last week Samantha Jones' brief orgasm drought inspired us to talk about menopause-- even though that is not what caused *her* drought. But Cumpanions have been vying for a menopause episode for a WHILE and it's finally here! We chat with stand up comedy veteran and creator of "Funny Women of a Certain Age" Carole Montgomery about being a woman of a certain age; barriers, breakthroughs, how menopause went for her, all the symptoms that can come with menopause, how to deal with it, and the fact that sex lives DO NOT STOP after 50. We also talk about the Golden Girls and the OG Samantha, Blanche Devereaux and how her first orgasm was allegedly after menopause (shocking!) and how that could possibly be a real thing.    Get the cooling blanket that Carole sugguested here! Follow Carole @carolemontgomerycomic Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 16m
Sep 30, 2023
33 Remy's Big O Drought (Charlotte Kassimir)

Much like the episodes have slowed down, so too have Remy's orgasms. And OH BOY are they connected. In this episode you can hear all about Remy's FIVE month long orgasm drought; why she thinks it happened, what she has been trying to do to fix it, and what she plans to do in the future. We welcome back Season 1+2 producer/researcher and Remy's sister Charlotte Kassimir to talk about it, read Companion stories about their own droughts/ how have fixed them, and Charlotte gives Remy a new assignment for this new chapter.   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 5m
Sep 20, 2023
32 Testosterone, Top Surgery, and Twitter (Kristofer Thomas)

Before Twitter was X, Kristofer Thomas (comedian, actor, and screenwriter) shared his story of being a pack-a-day cigarette smoker for years and how the promise of top surgery is the thing that finally made him quit. We discuss that story, the benefits of gender affirming care (beyond quitting cigs), what gender affirming care means a different ages, and how many steps it actually takes to get prescribed testosterone.  Read Kristofer's Piece "Dad Used to Have Boobs (And They Were Kind of Big) Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @KristoferThomas Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

52m
Aug 19, 2023
31 The Cowgirl Workout (Tyomi Morgan)

Today’s guest is Tyomi Morgan-- a Certified Authentic Tantra Coach, sex blogger/coach and creator of The Cowgirl Workout. We are diving into the workout program she created centered around Tyomi teaches us how to do it, the benefits of it, and how to feel comfortable getting on top. We also discuss the importance of breathing control, hip isolation, choosing the right position, and making adjustments.  Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @realglamazontyomi Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 12m
Aug 19, 2023
30 Attachment Styles (Dr. Joy Berkheimer)

What goes better with Pride than Joy? We end our Pride month with Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to talk about all things love, sex, and relationships. We go deep into about attachment styles and how they affect our relationships, whether we're avoidant, fearful avoidant, anxious, disorganized, or secure. Dr. Joy explains how different types of households and upbringings can affect our attachment styles, and what we need to do to heal ourselves. We discuss therapy, what goes on in couples counseling and how it's not just about trying to keep couples together, but also about finding truth and clarity. Finally we learn some spicy stuff; Dr. Joy tells us about 'lust languages', erotic blueprints, and how to have good sex (spoiler alert: it involves sleep!). Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @glowyourgoddess Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

52m
Jun 27, 2023
29 Orgasm Music (Von)

A few weeks ago we posted a video from @VonMusic about her making music by having orgasms -- and the video EXPLODED. This week we are joined by Von to talk all about HOW she makes music with orgasms, why she does it, and how she feels about people who don't like what she is doing. Von discusses her education in music as well as growing up in a religious household and how she feels about Christianity today. Finally we hear all about different songs to c*m to, songs that feel like an orgasm, songs that have orgasms in them and so many other steamy types of music (playlists c*mming soon!!)   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @VonMusic Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 13m
Jun 27, 2023
28 Burlesque, Backlash + Corporate Pride (Jake Dupree)

Recently, leading luxury lingerie brand Honey Birdette https://us.honeybirdette.com/ received backlash after featuring non-binary model, Jake DuPree, on its Instagram. Many who do not even follow the brand quickly flocked to the post, flooding it with phobic language and leading the brand to mute the post after 10,000 comments. We spoke to the center of the scandal; burlesque performer, dancer, model, trailblazer, and extremely positive human, Jake DuPree.  Jake tells us about dealing with the backlash, growing up feeling "other" in a small town, what makes them feel gender euphoria, and the incredible beginning of their dance/burlesque career. We also discuss sports and gender and would love to hear your thoughts as well (DM us!)  Finally, we discuss 'corporate pride' on the whole and how to know which brands actually stand with the causes they feign to represent. Unlike many spineless brands we have seen this pride season, in less than 24 hours, Honey Birdette released a statement of solidarity.   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @JakeDupree Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 24m
Jun 12, 2023
27 The Second Puberty of Queer Adults (Addis Fouché)

We're kicking off Pride with Addis Fouché: writer, sex worker, content creator, public speaker, and founder of the inclusive learning app Bitter Blush. Addis tells us about her panel at SXSW and her theory about “The Second Puberty of Queer Adults.” What is a second puberty? Do YOU need to go through one? We discuss. Addis also tells us about her coming of age experiences at prep school, life as a queer sex worker, why she developed her app, and so much more. Finally, Addis answers the question, "How DOES fingering work with long nails?"  Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @AddisFouche Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE     

1h 2m
Jun 12, 2023
26 The Joys of Journeys (Eileen Hanley)

We're chatting with actor, filmmaker, and musical comedian Eileen Hanley about her journey of coming out later in life, her journey with non-monogamy, and what it's like to share it all on the internet. Eileen shares the joys of being single and queer after being in a straight relationship for 10 years, tells us a few of her favorite O stories, and finally tries to answer the question, "Are queer orgasms THAT much better? And if so... Why?"   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @glitterwrists Get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 3m
May 16, 2023
25 Keeping it Spicy (Vanessa + Xander Marin)

We're chatting with Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander about their new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. We're talking all about communicating in relationships and how to keep long term relationships spicy.  Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @vanessaandxander Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com    Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

52m
Apr 29, 2023
24 Dating + Data (Dr. Helen Fisher and Dr. Justin Garcia)

What is dating like right now, from a science perspective? We are discussing the annual 'Singles in America' study with Dr. Helen Fisher (Biological Anthropologist, Senior Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and Chief Science Advisor to Match.com) and Dr. Justin Garcia (Evolutionary Biologist, Sex Researcher, Professor of Gender Studies and Senior Scientist at The Kinsey Institute and Indiana University). Dr. Fisher and Dr. Garcia give us enlightening statistics on what today's singles are looking for, what they are willing to overlook in a relationship, and the impact that Covid had romantic love.  Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @helenfishersexandlove @drjustingarcia Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com    Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

49m
Apr 19, 2023
23 Dating + Drinks with Ariana (Ariana Nathani)

Remy and Robyn are joined by Ariana Nathani, founder of Drinks First-- a podcast and series of dating events for New York City singles. First we discuss the genius that is the format of her podcast, in which Ariana essentially goes on a "first date" with elligible NYC daters and listeners call in to date them. We talk about different forms of how to meet people romantically in 2023 from Love is Blind to rings that signify if you are single, the truth about being approached in public, and older forms of finding long-term love such as matchmaking. Ariana also tells us about growing up first generation in an Indian household, how to know when you are finally being respected in a relationship, and why it is imperitive to move out of your parents house when dating.  You may notice our intro is FULL of Scandoval aka Vanderpump Rules drama surrounding our former guest the newly single, powerhouse, the other Ariana, Ariana Maddix. A lot of it was cut for time but you can have access to the FULL unedited episode with VIDEO at patreon.com/howcum   Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @Drinks.First, @Ariana.nathani Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com    Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 30m
Apr 08, 2023
22 Adoption and Parenting (Ben Katzner)

Today's guest is Ben Katzner, a stand up comedian and author whose debut graphic novel "Hello My Name Is Poop" is available now. Remy chats with Ben about adoption, foster care, and the importance of choosing to parent in a post Roe v Wade world. Ben shares his personal experience growing up as an adoptee, the efforts that adoptive parents should make before adopting, and his reaction to adoption TikTok.  Finally we discuss the pros and cons of what we've learned about the adoption industry via media and how it could be improved. Lots of opinions in this one from us, and we're always interested to hear yours. Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir, @ShaqKatzner Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

1h 8m
Feb 26, 2023
21 Coming Out As Liking Strong Women (Max Zavidow)

This we are talking to comedian & TikToker Max Zavidow.   Max shares all about his experiences with homophobia at camp, learning what m*sturbation was with a bunch of boys (yes with, not from), along with how this impacted his own first time c*mming.  We talk about the societal pressure to like a certain "type" of person and Max tells us about how he felt he had to "come out" as his type being a more muscular woman.   We also chat coming out as bisexual, and how helpful Max found being in a queer friendly fraternity. Finally, we discuss Max's TikToks about pegging, hear all about how they came to fruition. We also get a sneak peek into Max's dm requests - so if you're looking to peg someone, get in line because the queue is long (😏).   Follow Max at @FormerTeenageHeartThrob Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir,  Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Get up to $200 off all mattress orders plus 2 free pillows  at HelixSleep.com/HOWCUM. Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum.

46m
Dec 17, 2022
20 Penpal Cumpanion Cumgrats (Britt)

Remy and Robyn chat with Cumpanion Britt about her unique first time story, penpals, reading erotica, and her many many toys.  We discuss Roe v Wade and Britt explains the reasons she hasn't had penetrative sex with a penis and why she may never want to. Britt also opens up about her history of chronic illness, endometriosis, lack of sex ed, and experience with SA. (TW) Thank you to Britt for sharing your journey with us! Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir,  Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Get up to $200 off all mattress orders plus 2 free pillows  at HelixSleep.com/HOWCUM. Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum.

1h 5m
Nov 18, 2022
19 A Taste of Diet Starts Tomorrow (Emily Lubin)

Big announcement! Remy is taking over the iconic Betches media podcast 'Diet Starts Tomorrow,' with her NEW  co-host (and Cumpanion favorite) Emily Lubin. Cumgrats to them, and don't worry-- Remy will still continue How C*m! In this episode, Remy and Emily talk about what it means to each of them to take over a wellness and body positivity podcast. Emily shares her body journey with us and how she went from an eating disorder to loving her body fully and Remy opens up about how her body image has gotten in the way of How C*m endeavors.  TW: ED, Negative self talk, SA Post outro we talk House of Dragon (SPOILERS), and why their portrayal of foot fetishes is so much worse than the incest that happens regularly on the show.  Follow Emily @Lubination and Diet Starts Tomorrow @DietStartsTomorrow Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir,  Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Get up to $200 off all mattress orders plus 2 free pillows  at HelixSleep.com/HOWCUM. Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum.

1h 32m
Nov 04, 2022
18 The Anti-Misogyny Podcast and The Guy Who Runs it (Cyzor Church)

Why is there a trend of young boys being taught to hate women, who is teaching them, and how do we stop them? We talk with Cyzor Church, a boudoir photographer and creator of the "Anti-Misogyny Podcast"  about how he has been combating the teachings of toxic creators through his videos. This episode was recorded right after a certain TikTok creator/ misogynistic leader/self-proclaimed "self-help guru" was ousted from all social media platforms and we chat about if the kicking off was effective, if cancelling people in real life is a thing,  and other creators who are still espousing his harmful rhetoric. We also talk about how people maniupulate others, the science of learning, and how boudoir photography goes against the patriarchy in its essence. After the outro Remy and Robyn discuss the movies "Don't Worry Darling" + "Do Revenge" and how they relate to these topics as well as how Jordan Peterson feels about incels and forced monogamy.  TW: SA, VIOLENCE, GENDERED LANGUAGE  Follow Cyzor @CyzorStudio Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir,  Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum.

1h 36m
Sep 30, 2022
17 'Girls' and The People Who Cheat on Them (Lexy Panterra)

This week the internet is aflurry with cheating scandals and we are talking to the fantastic Lexy Panterra about her latest single 'Girls,' which is about just that. We talk getting cheated on, double standards between genders when cheating is involved, and how to take back your power after a betrayal. We're also talking music; why Lexy releases hers on OnlyFans, what genres we like to bang to, and the best beats for thrusting. Remy tries a viral song that the internet swears is a horrible bang song and gives her two cents and Robyn chimes in with a special "Girls" update of her own!  SEE REMY + BEN LIVE IN ALBANY SEPT 23 +24  Follow Lexy @LexyPanterra Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir,  Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Get up to $200 off all mattress orders plus 2 free pillows  at HelixSleep.com/HOWCUM. Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum.

1h 19m
Sep 23, 2022
16 XXX NFTs (Nicole Aniston)

Today's guest is Nicole Aniston, who after 12-13 years in the adult industry became a trailblazer with her project Closer to Nicole https://www.closertonicole.com/ which aims to sell NFTs as access tokens to allow people to watch her ethically produced adult content, and be a part of her discord community.  We discuss how she took an antiquated business model and completely revamped it, and the many reasons why NFTs are better than OnlyFans, for creator and consumer. We also talk the similarities between the fight for reproductive rights and sex worker rights, cancel culture/ the Cut's Cancelled at 17, and the patriarchy: what's it so afraid of?!  TW: Sexual assault  Follow Nicole @realnicoleaniston Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir,  Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum. Get up to $200 off all mattress orders plus 2 free pillows at HelixSleep.com/HOWCUM. http://helixsleep.com/howcum

1h 21m
Aug 24, 2022
15 Ta-ta to the tatas (Rayna Greenberg + Robby Hoffman)

We're talking top surgery, breast reduction, and SO much more with two second time cummers: award winning comedian Robby Hoffman and Girls Gotta Eat co-host + Vibes Only co-owner Rayna Greenberg! We hear about the differences and similarities of Rayna's breast reduction and Robby's top surgery; how long they've wanted their respective surgeries (and why), what healing was like, scars, cost, and post-surgery sex. We talk nipple sensitivity, the first big boobs Robby has ever played with, and everyone's feelings on 69.  Finally, we celebrate National Orgasm Day (July 31) with a few of our cumpanion's favorite O stories and learn about Rayna's new O-inspiring c*mpany Vibes Only!    Follow Robby @robbyhoffman and Rayna @RaynaGreenberg * Follow us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir /episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/episodes/view/instagram.com/remykassimir,  Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com  and for access to extras and FULL unedited episodes with VIDEO for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live forums & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Thanks Dipsea.  Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/howcum. Get up to $200 off all mattress orders plus 2 free pillows at HelixSleep.com/HOWCUM. http://helixsleep.com/howcum

1h 21m
Jul 31, 2022