It's Me, Tinx
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I finally get to welcome the one & only Jeff Lewis to Office Hours. In today’s episode, we talk about him entering the world of dating apps, how our taste in partners change over time, aliens, & taking back cheaters. Ask Tinx Anything by emailing your question to ITSMETINX@SIRIUSXM.COM
Sometimes it's hard to shake the cruel things people have said to us, especially if it came from an ex! In today's episode we chat about rewiring our thoughts & the way we self-talk, getting back our sparkle after long-term relationships & why girls need to shoot their shot too. Ask Tinx Anything by emailing your question to ITSMETINX@SIRIUSXM.COM
In this throwback, Tinx explores why so many women “fake it” and, in the process, discovers how to empower you to communicate your bedroom desires so you can “arrive at the party” time and time again! Ask Tinx Anything by emailing your question toITSMETINX@SIRIUSXM.COM
Celebrating because Mercury Retrograde has ended (thank goodness!) AND the amazing Lindsey Metselaar is joining me for Office Hours. We touch a lot on motherhood and the importance of keeping your identity after giving birth, ditching the dating apps, and going no-contact after breakups.
I can't believe I missed the Barcelona memo this summer! So many of you are visiting and some are finding love; I am obsessed. Today we talk about finding balance between wellness and obsession, and how to attract the right friends and partners.
Today we’re talking sexuality and why owning it is so important. It’s time that we as women love ourselves and our bodies regardless of which phase of life or love we're in. Gone are the days that we turn to men to validate our sexiness!
So exciting to have Vinny Guadagnino on this episode of Office Hours. He and I get into his hard stance on long distance relationships, digital body language and when to let a "situationship" go. Vinny also offers his thoughts on a couple of AMAs.
The end of summer is near, but the girls are still very much outside. One of today’s callers needs advice on rolling solo on a couple’s trip and another caller may have found love abroad! We also have some great responses from the reverse AMA questions episode https://tinx.simplecast.com/episodes/reverse-ama-i-have-some-questions-for-you-guys.
You know I value great advice. I love to give it and I love to get it! So today, I'm asking for your takes on a few things that have been on my mind lately. We’re also talking about getting comfy with initiating sex and “death grip syndrome."
It's my pleasure to welcome my longtime friend (and favorite lesbian) Bridget Berman to Office Hours! We're breaking down the difference between straight and lesbian breakups and how women just GET each other. We're also discussing a few viral stories we found while scrolling our socials and the "Fatal Flaw Friend Theory."
How do you pick yourself up after a night of bad sleep? A little coffee & AMA does the trick for me. Today, we get real about taking back our energy from insecure men & toxic workplaces. P.S. - LOVING your Summer of Outside stories!
OMG! My heart is so full from the responses to the recent "I'm Lonely" https://tinx.simplecast.com/episodes/im-lonely episode. We revisit the subject a bit again today AND I share some of my top tips on how to be an amazing, memorable guest no matter what the occasion.
You know that friend that you can be your true, authentic, and weird self around? For me, it’s Brooke Averick and she’s this week’s Office Hours guest! We break our silence on our fav spots to grab a bite in LA, explore the newest toxic dating trend, and of course, dive into the crazy stories we found online.
Got ghosted by your boyfriend after a year? Call Tinx! Creepy boss taking advantage of your friendship? Call Tinx! Need a confidence boost? Want to learn proper dirty talk with a long distance lover? Call Tinx. Tinx has answers to all your burning questions in this week’s LIVE AMA!
Friendship has come up a lot recently. From a recent episode on “Medium Friends” https://tinx.simplecast.com/episodes/the-vexing-problem-of-the-medium-friend, to an AMA question I just received about judging people based on the friends they keep. So, I just wanted to take the time to unpack this nuanced topic.
Do you recall the time breakout RHONY star, Jessel Taank, was in the office spilling the tea? We’re revisiting our chat as she answers some spicy questions about: the Housewife she wouldn’t mind inviting in the bedroom, which celeb RHONY fan slid into her DM’s, what can we expect on the upcoming season… and a whole lot more! Join us as we discuss the juicy details and the latest pop culture trends.
Is something sinister afoot when women go out of their way to pay compliments to YOUR man? Or are they just simply voicing appreciation for the amazing qualities he possesses? While Tinx is away, we’re answering that question and listening back to some more of our favorite AMA calls.
You’re going through your day…grateful for your job, you love your friends, and you look amazing….but suddenly it hits you. You’re sick and tired of being single! It’s that overwhelming, all-consuming feeling I call ”The Attack”. We feel it when we can no longer bear the idea of being alone. This is something I dealt with a few days ago, and if you’ve felt it: know you’re not alone.
I was so excited to talk with Amanda Hirsch, that I almost forgot to introduce her as this week’s guest! After the usual formalities, we jumped right into talking about some of the latest trending stories, viral TikTok videos, going to The Hamptons, and hit the trifecta of being “raw, real, and authentic”.
Your husband moves his mother into the house. At first you’re all for it, because it’s only temporary. However, three years later she’s still there….and she completely took over your living room! What do you do?
I’ve done pods on friendship before, but this is my first about “medium friends”. I came across this topic in the New York Times article “The Vexing Problem of the Medium Friend https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/22/well/the-vexing-problem-of-the-medium-friend.html” and found it quite interesting. Medium friends are people who are more than acquaintances but not your closest friends…which can create a whole host of problems.
I finally get to welcome my best friend Adam Riker “Wig” to Office Hours. If you’ve heard us past episodes, you know we’ll eventually talk about sex…and that streak continues. We also share a few (inside) jokes, air a few grievances, and discuss my favorite stories to hit the internet this week.
I could NEVER snoop through a boyfriend’s phone…but some of you are so wild! Case and point? One of our girls who is preparing to move in with her boyfriend. While he was asleep, she went through his phone in search of red flags. She even deleted a text thread from a past fling! He noticed it was gone…but doesn’t know why…do you think she should come clean?
I’m grateful for every single moment I’ve spent in the Hamptons! From partying with some of my closest friends, making new ones along the way, Lucas and I opening up for Diplo…and that one night where I flashed the entire club…which actually ties into the second part of today’s pod. Nudes! (and the ins and outs of confidently taking, sending, and responding to them)
Today the very funny Chris Klemens steps into the office to talk about some of the latest stories to hit the internet. We also talked about “bedroom divorces”…and sex. Sex on vacation. Sex with yourself. Sex with a group of people…because why not?
Sometimes you already know the answer, but just need to hear it from a friend. That’s where I come in. We had a lot of good calls on today’s AMA. Like one from a girl who’s been stuck in a situationship for the past year. This guy would send her heartfelt messages…like wanting her to be the mother of his kids. But then he would immediately go silent. Oh, and he also has a girlfriend. Can you guess what I told her?
We’ve talked a lot about relationships getting boring. How things can dry up both sexually and mentally. And you know what he quickest way to fix that is? Become more interesting…(before you eye roll)..this is not one of those guides on “how to ‘blow’ his mind”. This advice is for us to invest in ourselves, because that is one of the most attractive things we can do.
We’ve enjoyed great conversations and lots of laughs on Office Hours…especially when Claudia Oshry stopped by a few months ago! Today, we get to revisit that episode. Delicious drinks and catching up with an amazing friend….what more can a girlie ask for? I’m thrilled I finally had the chance to try Claudia’s line of Spritz cocktails! We cracked open a few cans, sat down at my kitchen table, and let the conversation flow.
We’re listening back to a some memorable AMA moments! Including the time we got a call from a girl who’s married brother was soliciting feet pics from other women. Should she tell her sister-in-law? Also, you’ve inevitably heard me reference Jonathan from Hinge. Today you’ll hear the origin story & more!
We’re kicking off Christmas in July with the return of my monthly faves…and some good old-fashioned retail therapy!
