Parenting Today's Teens

Mark Gregston and Christian Parenting

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A daily podcast released every weekday, the Parenting Today’s Teens Podcast features Mark Gregston, a parenting expert who has worked with teens and parents for over 45 years. Enlightening, up-to-date, practical, and something every parent would enjoy listening to. Raw at times, challenging at other times, but always hopeful to get your family to a better place in an adolescent culture that is sometimes a little contrary to what you believe and want for your teen. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Teens and Faith: Figuring It Out Together

In today's fast-paced world, it's not uncommon for teens to challenge and even stray from their long-held beliefs. This is an issue that many Christian parents find disheartening, but it's vital to approach your child with understanding and grace. In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd share insights on how parents can respond to this challenge, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a loving and supportive relationship with your teens — even when they're questioning their beliefs. Tune in now! For more insights on common parenting challenges, check out our Parenting Toolbox bundle! Get yours at bit.ly/parenting-toolbox Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

10m
Apr 01, 2024
I Mustache Mark a Question: Prioritizing Relationship Over Behavior

In today’s episode, Mark Gregston encourages parents not to lose heart when faced with a teen who is experimenting with substances. He highlights how the power of parental love and consistent support can positively influence a teen's choices and behavior over time. Don’t let fear ruin your relationship with your teen! Instead of focusing solely on their behavior, prioritize building a deep, loving relationship where they can find solace without resorting to harmful habits. Tune in now! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org http://www.christianparenting.org/

4m
Mar 29, 2024
Embracing Brokenness: A Path to Healing for Parents and Teens

When things are broken at home, life can seem hopeless. Whether you are a parent grappling with your own brokenness or seeking ways to support a struggling teen, there is power in acknowledging and addressing pain. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd shed light on the transformative power of facing brokenness head-on, fostering deeper connections within families and paving the way for healing and growth. They emphasize that despite the pain, being broken presents an opportunity to offer help and hope to others — it's in these difficult moments that we have the chance to become more like Christ. Listen now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

13m
Mar 28, 2024
Are You Nurturing Your Teen's Spirit?

Every conversation with our teens builds trust and lays the foundation for deeper, more meaningful discussions. As Mark explains in today's episode, it's in these everyday interactions that we can shape their worldview and sense of self-worth. He delves into the importance of building trust and offering encouragement in small conversations, and how the wise words and positive influence of others can shape a person's character. Tune in to this encouraging episode now! For more insights on connecting with your child, enroll in our FREE "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen" e-course! Visit bit.ly/bridging-the-gap-course to get started. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

14m
Mar 27, 2024
Teen Stories: Self-Sabotage

So many of our teens today struggle with depression — and plenty of them aren't equipped with good coping mechanisms. Instead, they turn to behaviors that only worsen their mental health. In today's episode, Mark sits down with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Hannah, who bravely shares her deeply personal struggles with depression, self-harm and a journey of destructive behaviors, tracing the origins back to a traumatic event in her childhood. These stories are impactful — don't miss them! To learn more about the Heartlight residential program, visit heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

19m
Mar 26, 2024
Parent or Pal: Striking the Right Balance in Your Teen's Life

Are you trying too hard to be your teen's friend? In today's episode of Parenting Today's Teens, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the importance of prioritizing the relationship with your teen over "winning" as a parent. They discuss the significance of communication, inclusivity, rules and the distinction between being a relational parent and being a friend to your teen. They also address how to rebuild a rocky relationship with your teen and why you should own your mistakes. Listen in now! Our teens need the wisdom of grandparents more than ever, and it's important to learn how to connect! Order your copy of "Grandparenting Today's Teens" today at bit.ly/grandparenting-teens Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

14m
Mar 25, 2024
I Mustache Mark a Question: Lying, Loneliness and Love

In today’s episode, Mark Gregston addresses pressing questions from parents, touching on everything from handling consequences for a 17-year-old's lies and skipping college classes, to managing relationships, including a daughter's close bond with her boyfriend and a stepdaughter's yearning for more involvement from her biological father. Moreover, he provides insights into guiding teens through emotional pain and addressing communication challenges at the dinner table. Listen now for practical, biblically sound advice! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

20m
Mar 22, 2024
Recognizing and Healing Self-Harm in Teens

Self-harm, particularly cutting, has become increasingly prevalent among teens, often serving as a coping mechanism for dealing with anxiety, frustration and depression. It's a sign that teens are struggling with life and desperately seeking an outlet for their emotions. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the underlying reasons and motivations behind self-harming behaviors and provide valuable guidance for parents on how to recognize the signs, engage in open discussion with their teens and seek appropriate professional help. Don’t miss this crucial conversation — tune in now for insights on supporting your teenager's journey toward healing. For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

13m
Mar 21, 2024
Balancing Protection with Preparedness

It's always good to remember that our role as parents is not just to protect teens from pain, but to equip them with the resilience and understanding to navigate through it. That's what'll help them in the real world! In this episode, Mark reflects on a story about getting hurt that taught him a lot, and shares insights into the importance of allowing children to experience and learn from pain to a certain extent. Tune in to learn more about the role pain plays in growth and development! For more on helping your teen get through a challenging time, order a copy of "When Your Teen is Struggling," at bit.ly/teen-is-struggling Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

20m
Mar 20, 2024
Teen Stories: Growing Through Pain

For kids who've gone through trauma and instability, finding — and keeping — a sense of control can feel incredibly important. But the need to always be in control can hold them back from who they were meant to be. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight who both reflect on their experiences at the boarding school. For Megan, who struggled with anger and control issues when she first arrived, learning to open up and embrace change has deeply shifted her perspective. Don't miss these interviews! If you'd like to learn more about how the Heartlight program works, go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

20m
Mar 19, 2024
Are You Missing the Meaningful Moments?

As parents, we often get absorbed in our own activities and miss crucial moments with our teens. In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss why it's vital to recognize and seize opportunities for connection with our kids. They delve into the idea of missed opportunities within families and the impact they can have on teens and future generations. Using personal stories, they explore the importance of intentionally engaging with teens, asking open-ended questions and being present to address their struggles. Check it out! For more on intentional engagement if you have grandkids, check out Mark's book, "Grandparenting Teens." Order your copy at bit.ly/grandparenting-teens Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

10m
Mar 18, 2024
I Mustache Mark a Question: Dating, Faith, Identity and Independence

In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles pressing parental concerns head-on. From navigating teen dating and phone use to addressing sexual identity and rebellion, Mark offers not just answers, but actionable advice. He underscores the significance of open communication, boundaries, counseling and maintaining parental influence through each trial of adolescence. Tune in now for the encouragement and guidance you've been seeking! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

25m
Mar 15, 2024
Should You Be Friends With Your Teen?

Are you struggling to find the balance between friendship and parenting with your teen? Today’s parents often strive to have a close relationship with their kids, but in doing so, may blur the lines of authority. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the challenges of maintaining authority while fostering a healthy relationship with teens. They discuss the pitfalls of prioritizing friendship over leadership, and the impact it could have on your child's development — listen now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

12m
Mar 14, 2024
Do You Have a Flexible Parenting Approach?

As parents, we all want strong, positive relationships with our teens. But what happens when those relationships become strained? In this episode, Mark highlights the influence of today's culture and how it's changing the nature of our connection with our children. Mark encourages parents to reevaluate their parenting strategies and adapt to the changing dynamics, emphasizing the need for a deep and trusting connection with their teens. Tune in now! For more insight into your teen's world, read Mark's book, "What's Happening To My Teen?" Order your copy at bit.ly/whats-happening-teen Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

17m
Mar 13, 2024
Teen Stories: Finding the Way Forward

Trauma at any age can be devastating. For teens, who often haven't yet developed the coping skills they need to work through grief or bad experiences, it can feel like the pain will never end. In today's show, Mark talks with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Zoe, who lost her father at a young age and faced the challenge of dealing with grief and self-harm. Her father's death left a hole in her heart, but as time goes on, she's beginning to heal. Don't miss these powerful stories! Is Heartlight the right solution for your struggling teen? Learn more at heartlightministries.org. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

19m
Mar 12, 2024
What Every Parent Should Know About Navigating Social Media

Parenting teens in the digital age comes with challenges no generation has seen before. We're all learning as we go! In this episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the complex world of social media and its impact on teens. From understanding the allure of social media to setting boundaries and guiding teens through the potential pitfalls, they offer valuable wisdom and practical advice for parents trying to build a deeper relationship with their kids. Listen in now! For more help guiding your teens through today's challenges, check out "Developing Rules and Consequences." Order your copy at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org http://www.christianparenting.org/

18m
Mar 11, 2024
I Mustache Mark a Question: Is Tough Love Still Unconditional Love?

Your teen always needs to feel your love unconditionally, but sometimes, a tougher love is required. In today's episode, Mark Gregston addresses pressing questions on parenting troubled teens, dealing with grief, and supporting those with addiction and gender identity struggles. He discusses the importance of affirming relationships, accommodating grief and approaching difficult situations with empathy and understanding. Listen now for advice on how to show unconditional love while maintaining boundaries! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

21m
Mar 08, 2024
Privacy vs. Protection in the Digital Realm

As technology continues to evolve, it's crucial for parents to adapt right along with it. Balancing trust, privacy and safety in the online world is a unique, and relatively new, challenge. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the importance of understanding the dynamics of online interaction and providing a supportive yet supervised digital environment for teens to safely socialize in. From time limits and location restraints to password sharing, they highlight the need for clear expectations and consequences regarding online behavior within set boundaries. Tune in for valuable advice on navigating the digital landscape with your teen! For more help understanding your teen's behavior, check out our free "Tough Guys and Drama Queens" e-course! Enroll today at bit.ly/3PtDGxl Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

11m
Mar 07, 2024
What Does Your Journey to Genuineness Look Like?

The process of facing rejection and hurtful experiences can lead to a journey of genuineness and authenticity. As Mark explains in today's episode, it's important for a parent to work on unresolved issues — otherwise, they might come out in how you interact with your teens. Mark reflects on being fired twice in his life and the profound impact those experiences had on him. He shares how these challenges led him to embark on a journey of self-discovery, offering lessons for parents navigating the complexities of raising struggling teens. Don't miss this episode! For more advice on connecting with your child, take our FREE e-course, "Bridging the Gap With Your Teen" at bit.ly/bridging-the-gap-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

16m
Mar 06, 2024
Teen Stories: When Technology Turns Harmful

Social media and technology can be used in a lot of positive ways — but for teens, there are also a lot of ways it can hurt. In today's episode, Mark sits down with a couple more Heartlight teens, including a young lady who was manipulated by a peer into sending explicit photos of herself. Through her story, she sheds light on the struggles of seeking affirmation and acceptance at a vulnerable age, ultimately leading to an important realization of the value of true friendship and family support. Listen in! If you think Heartlight might be the answer for your struggling teen, visit heartlightministries.org to learn more. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

20m
Mar 05, 2024
Keeping Up With Your Teen

Today's teens — and parents — seem busier than ever! In today's episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd discuss the challenges of today's busy world and its impact on teens. They discuss the importance of intentional engagement with your teens despite packed schedules, offering practical strategies and advice for parents seeking to connect with their kids on a deeper level. Join us as we explore why staying engaged with your teen's life will help in the years to come! For more insights into your teen's world, enroll in our free "Tough Guys and Drama Queens" e-course at bit.ly/tough-guys-drama-queens Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

15m
Mar 04, 2024
I Mustache Mark a Question: The Search for Connection and Identity

In today’s episode, Mark Gregston tackles pressing questions sent in by parents as they navigate the complexities of raising teens in today's world. Mark provides invaluable guidance on addressing anxiety, navigating the digital landscape, discussing sexuality, tackling academic disinterest and much more. He shares practical strategies for navigating tough conversations, affirming identity amidst confusion and striking a balance between guidelines and independence. Listen now for tips on how to mirror the authenticity, understanding and love that our kids so desperately need! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

33m
Mar 01, 2024
The Power of Pain

As parents, it can be tough to watch our teens struggle. But if we want our children to grow in character and perseverance, we've got to resist the temptation to rescue them from every hardship. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd emphasize the importance of not shielding our teens from the natural consequences of their actions, outlining how this can be a key factor in their development. Our job is not to eliminate pain, but to take advantage of the opportunity that it provides to prepare our kids for the real world — tune in now! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

14m
Feb 29, 2024
Navigating the Maze of Teen Struggles

In today's show, Mark shares a personal devotional about the pursuit of peace in relationships and the importance of allowing relationships to survive conflict. He shares stories of heartache, loss and hope, and offers guidance to parents struggling with their teens. Mark encourages parents to invest in their child's future and to not give up, emphasizing the importance of taking action and being actively involved during difficult times. Tune in for this encouraging episode! For more on this topic, check out Mark's book, "When Your Teen Is Struggling." Order your copy at bit.ly/teen-is-struggling Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

17m
Feb 28, 2024
Teen Stories: The Weight of Expectations

The teenage years are full of pressures — big and small — everything from trying to do well on a test to figuring out your identity. In today's show, Mark chats with two young ladies from Heartlight, including Emily, who discusses her battle with anxiety, perfectionism and the lingering desire for validation. It's a powerful reminder of the pressure teens face to fit in and excel, and her journey at Heartlight shows the importance of navigating mental health challenges with empathy and support. Don't miss these interviews! Interested in learning more about the Heartlight program? Go to heartlightministries.org Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

21m
Feb 27, 2024
Building Trust with Teen Grandkids

Building trust with grandchildren is all about deciding when to share your wisdom and perspective, and when to give them space to seek their own answers. But once you've found the balance, you can create a wonderful relationship! In today's show, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd dive into the important role that grandparents play in their grandchildren's lives. They discuss the challenges and opportunities of grandparenting, the need for intentional engagement, and the impact of storytelling and unconditional love. Listen in! For more help connecting with teens, take our FREE e-course, "Five Ways to Stay Engaged With Your Teen." Enroll at bit.ly/stay-engaged-course Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

14m
Feb 26, 2024
I Mustache Mark a Question: Reaching Your Teen's Heart

In today’s episode, Mark Gregston answers questions from parents who need guidance on everything from vaping and drinking to divorce and blended families. Mark shares that while the nature of issues may evolve, the core needs of every teen — belonging, relationships and a desire to appear older — remain constant. Understanding and addressing these needs, rather than solely focusing on controlling behavior, is the key. Tune in for valuable insights on how to connect with your teen on a deeper level and truly reach their heart! Have a question for Mark? Submit it here: markgregston.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

25m
Feb 23, 2024
Building Character and Encouraging Integrity in Your Teen

Do you feel like you're talking to a brick wall when you preach your values to your teen? You can recite them all day long, but it's the silent lessons taught through your actions that have a lasting impact. In today’s episode, Mark Gregston and Wayne Shepherd delve into the important role of parents in helping their teens build good character and make positive choices. They emphasize the significance of intentional parenting and modeling integrity, honesty, grace and wisdom for teens to emulate. Listen now for advice on shaping yourself and your teen into a positive influence in today’s world! For more inspiration and encouragement, check out Mark's newest devotional, "Daily Hope For Families," at dailyhopeforfamilies.com Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

10m
Feb 22, 2024
Letting Teens Take the Wheel

How much do you trust your teen? For many parents, this can be a hard question to answer. But at some point, gradually letting go of control is the best thing for your child — and for you! In today's show, Mark delves into the topic of control versus trust in the parent-teen relationship. He re-shares a personal anecdote of a family struggling with their son's rebellious behavior and how their extensive list of expectations led to a battle for control. He emphasizes the importance of giving teens the opportunity to make decisions and prove their maturity. Listen in now! For more on building healthy expectations within your family, check out "Developing Rules and Consequences." Order your copy at bit.ly/developing-rules Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org http://www.christianparenting.org/

21m
Feb 21, 2024
Teen Stories: Turning Pain Into Progress

As drug use is increasingly normalized among our teens, so many of them turn to self-medicating when they're hurting or lonely. Tragically, this can start them on a path to addiction. In today's show, we hear from two Heartlight teens, including Gabe, who opens up to Mark about his journey from drug use to residential treatment. He discusses his troubled relationship with his family and how he quickly fell into addiction — but now, he's working to mend things. Tune in! Visit heartlightministries.org to learn more about how the Heartlight residential program helps teens and their families. Parenting Today's Teens is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

19m
Feb 20, 2024