The INFJ Whisperer

Boom Shikha

About

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-like, just like you.

Let me help you, through this podcast, and my YouTube channel, to help you gain a better understanding of yourself, and to become the best version of yourself as much as possible. I'm Boom Shikha on YouTube, and there are hundreds of INFJ videos on there, that are waiting for your conscious understanding. Much love! See you on the other side, lovely INFJs.

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887 episodes

INFJs Are All About Context and Finding Deeper Meaning to Things

Without a deeper meaning to a particular task or item, INFJs will not put their effort into it. That's why we need to trick ourselves and attach a deeper meaning to everything we need to get done in our adult life. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Feb 22
INFJs Don’t Know How to Define a Friendship - It’s So Confusing

INFJs don't know what a relationship means, let alone a friendship. So when people say they are our friends, we are truly confused. Are we really?? Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Feb 08
3 Reasons Why INFJs Find It Hard to Build Depth in a Relationship

It's so hard for INFJs to get relationships away from superficiality and into something much deeper and intense. We try so hard, but we fail so many more times. These are the reasons for it, as I share in the podcast. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Jan 25
An INFJs’ Moral Conscience Pummels Them on the Daily

The world is a terrible place for empaths like us. We want to do more morally and otherwise, but we can never do enough as INFJs. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Jan 11
Practice Your Worthiness Muscle Daily, INFJs

Just because you exist, you are worthy, INFJs. Tell yourself this daily and practice feeling worthy, no matter what. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

14m
Jan 04
Learn the Other Person’s Conversational Style First, INFJs

It can sometimes feel like you are speaking a completely different language than others around you, even though you are speaking in the same tongue. Communication requires INFJs to learn other people's styles first, before saying even a single word. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Dec 28, 2022
INFJs Run Away from Their Closest Relationships - Here’s Why

There are many reasons why INFJs run away from their closest relationships. People are exhausting, we don't trust very easily, we have been hurt in the past, and we think we don't deserve love. What is your reason for running away? Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Dec 21, 2022
Moral Perfectionism - Are You Suffering from This Debilitating Trait?

INFJs tend to create high impossible-to-reach standards for themselves, especially when it comes to morality. This is called moral perfectionism, and it's a mind-killer. Don't let yourself fall into that trap. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Dec 14, 2022
INFJs See Their Own Ugliness So Clearly, It Can Be Debilitating

INFJs find it easy to criticize themselves because we see our faults clearly. But that means that we end up seeing ourselves in a very negative way and forget that we are human, imperfect, and have our good points, too. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Nov 16, 2022
INFJs Don’t Like Being Human and Having Changing Needs

INFJs know that they are human, but this doesn't mean that they like it or don't try to avoid the whole responsibility of being human completely. We ignore our human needs and desires and pretend like we are not human. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Nov 09, 2022
INFJs Think if I’m So Smart, Why Should I Need Help?

INFJs have a really hard time asking for help because we think we are smart enough to do it all ourselves. But no matter how smart we are, there will always come a time when help is necessary. So we need to learn this important skill early on. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

13m
Nov 02, 2022
INFJs and YOLO Don’t Really Mix That Well

INFJs aren't really the you-only-live-once kind of crowd. We need to plan things out carefully and if we are spontaneous, it's when we have planned for it within our schedule. It's weird and restrictive, but it works for us. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Oct 26, 2022
How Do INFJs Make Decisions? - They Need to Reach Critical Mass Info

Some decisions INFJs can make in a jiffy. But others it takes us forever and ever. It's because we need to reach a certain critical mass in terms of information before we are ready to make particular decisions. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

10m
Sep 14, 2022
4 Natural Tendencies I Didn’t Know Were Related to My ADHD Nature

I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum, and now I realize there are many practices I built into my daily routine to help with my ADHD tendencies. To temper them so I can live in the world without rocking the boat too much. Which ones do you relate to? Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

16m
Sep 07, 2022
Some Tips for INFJs on How to Manage Their Finances Better

INFJs like to spend a lot of their time in their heads, which means that they end up ignoring all the real-world situations, like paying bills, saving money, and more. I give you some tips in this episode to help manage your money better. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

15m
Aug 31, 2022
How Can INFJs Fix Imbalance And Obsessiveness When in a Relationship?

INFJs tend to go all-in when they are in a relationship, but that can result in an obsessiveness that isn't healthy. Watch the video for some tips on how you can balance yourself out when in a relationship, so you can stay healthy and happy. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Aug 23, 2022
When INFJs Get Diagnosed with Autism or ADHD or Both Later in Life

I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum. I always knew that I was neurodivergent in some manner, but doing some research on how people with ADHD and autism behave, really opened up my eyes to how I have done so many things unknowingly to adapt myself to this neurotypical world. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

17m
Aug 16, 2022
6 Reasons Why INFJs Would Be Great Secret Service Agents

I have always believed that INFJs have lots of great qualities, allowing them to become good at whatever career path they choose. But particularly, I think we would be great FBI agents or covert operatives. Except that we are terrible at lying and have a non-existent poker face. But yeah, besides that, we would be great secret agents. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

13m
Aug 09, 2022
INFJs Don’t Need to Be Inebriated to Do or Say Embarrassing Things

INFJs are socially awkward and that makes them do embarrassing things and say foolish things to people even when they aren't high or drunk. People often think I am high but I'm not. I'm completely sober! Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

12m
Aug 02, 2022
INFJs Tend Towards an Avoidant Attachment Style in Relationships

INFJs tend to become extremely anxious and obsessive in a relationship and that makes them want to run away from the person they love. Does this happen to you? It has happened to me lots of times and it's been a challenge to remain calm and talk through my emotions rather than just running away. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

13m
Jul 26, 2022
INFJs Do Recon Missions to Learn about Their Environment (Future Thinkers)

INFJs, when they move to a new city, country, or neighborhood, will always spend a few days or weeks driving or walking around to find out all the important shops and spots. Do you do this as well? It's just the price we pay for being an INFJ planner at heart. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

14m
Jul 19, 2022
INFJs, Are You Involving Yourself in Other People’s Tasks and Forgetting Your Own?

INFJs have this bad habit of being overly involved in other people's lives and tasks and forgetting their own stuff. We will procrastinate on our important tasks by 'helping' others even when they haven't asked for our help or when they don't even want our help. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

11m
Jul 12, 2022
INFJs Know That They Know but Not How They Know, or Why They Know

Introverted intuition is such a fascinating power of INFJs. Lots of times, we will get insights from our intuition and have no idea why or where it came from. It's just there, asking us to believe it. But how do we explain this to others? It's impossible! Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

13m
Jul 05, 2022
INFJs Self-Punish Because They Believe They Have Done Terrible Wrongs (They Haven't)

INFJs don't need you to come in and punish us. We are very capable of doing that for ourselves, thank you very much. That's why we are always berating ourselves, and putting ourselves down, even for things that are not our fault. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

13m
Jun 28, 2022
INFJs Hate Receiving Conditional Love, but We End up Giving Conditional Love

INFJs are great in relationships and great lovers, but we have a tendency to hold ourselves back because of past relationship issues and trust issues. If we could only avoid doing that, we would be able to give and receive unconditional love, as much as possible in this imperfect world. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

13m
Jun 21, 2022
INFJs Tend Towards Having Obsessions Which Could Blossom into Addictions

INFJs can become addicted to people, ideas, and actions quite easily because we are obsessive about our passions. But we have to be careful about that and do it in a controlled fashion. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

14m
Jun 14, 2022
INFJs Improve Themselves by Comparing to Their Past Selves (Not Others)

INFJs don't see any point comparing themselves to others, since people are so different from each other and on different paths. That's why we are constantly comparing ourselves to our past selves to see how much we have improved and changed. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

16m
Jun 07, 2022
INFJs Have This Innate Uncontrollable Desire to Share Their Knowledge

INFJs love collecting knowledge and then sharing that knowledge with the people they think would be helped most by it. Even if the person hasn't asked for this knowledge, we have this uncontrollable desire to share it, because we know it will better their lives. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

14m
May 31, 2022
INFJ Minds Work in a Very Unique Database-like Fashion

INFJs have a very unique way of processing and dealing with information. The older I get, the more conscious I become of this process and it just astounds and awes me. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2 https://bit.ly/boundariescourse2 Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

16m
May 24, 2022
Use This Awareness Technique to Kill Overthinking, INFJs

INFJs are overthinkers and overplanners. Sometimes it can be a positive trait, but other times, it can turn into a curse. Use the technique I speak about in this episode to stop your overthinking in its tracks. Thank you for listening!  I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out at https://bit.ly/soulvitamins2  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Buy my course on creating healthy boundaries at http://bit.ly/boundariescourse2 https://bit.ly/boundariescourse2 Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

11m
May 17, 2022