The INFJ Whisperer

Boom Shikha

About

I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel. You are here to fulfill a great purpose. The purpose of the INFJ is diverse, beautiful, and unicorn-like, just like you.

Let me help you, through this podcast, and my YouTube channel, to help you gain a better understanding of yourself, and to become the best version of yourself as much as possible. I'm Boom Shikha on YouTube, and there are hundreds of INFJ videos on there, that are waiting for your conscious understanding. Much love! See you on the other side, lovely INFJs.

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902 episodes

INFJs Swing From Deep Empathy To Extreme Apathy All the Time

INFJs want to care about humanity and believe in their goodness. But then something happens that ruins and dashes our hope to the ground. And then we build up that hope again. Thus, the cycle continues. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Feb 09
INFJs - You Are on the Right Path and You Have Nothing To Worry About

I used to worry all the time (and sometimes still do) that I was not on the right path. But as an older INFJ, I want to tell everyone younger than me, that you ARE on the right path. You will be surprised when you are older, how much you are on the right path. Really! Truly! Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

13m
Jan 26
Help, Help Everywhere, but INFJs Don’t See Any of It

One of the worst things INFJs do to themselves is believe they are all alone without any incoming help. It is the worst way we sabotage ourselves. We need to look up and see that people are willing to help, even if we aren't willing to accept it. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Jan 12
5 Reasons INFJs Wouldn’t Be Successful in an Apocalypse

As I said in the last episode, there are many reasons INFJs would be successful in an apocalypse, but it could all be undone in a moment because of our poor social skills and low social battery. What do you think? Why wouldn't you be successful in an apocalyptic situation? Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Dec 29, 2023
5 Reasons INFJs Would Survive an Apocalypse

So I have been thinking about whether I would survive a doomsday scenario if it happened. In some ways, I wouldn't (more on that in the next episode). But in some ways, I would be a natural at it, considering I'm an INFJ. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Dec 15, 2023
INFJs Are Not Emotionally Courageous, Although Brave in Other Ways

INFJs have a hard time being vulnerable, more so than other types. We are so fearful of trusting others with our innermost thoughts and feelings. Essentially, we lack that emotional courage that others find easy. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

10m
Jul 26, 2023
INFJs Underestimate and Undervalue Themselves Compared to Others

INFJs have a lot more potential than others around them, but because we spend all our time in doubt and anxiety, we aren't able to achieve this potential. We undervalue ourselves and underestimate our immense potential. It's quite sad, actually. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

8m
Jul 12, 2023
Some Hacks To Make Your Obsessions Work for You Rather Than Against You, INFJs

INFJs sometimes feel like they are led around by their obsessions, but this hack I share in the episode will help you lead your obsessions instead. Let's get in the driver's seat of our life, folks! Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

9m
Jun 28, 2023
INFJs, Direct Your Obsessions Towards Good

INFJs go through cycles or phases where they get obsessed with a certain item or situation and then lose interest after a while. We can direct this obsessive nature towards good by using the technique I suggest in the episode. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

10m
Jun 14, 2023
INFJs Need To Create Systems for Success

INFJs spend a lot of their time in their heads, in their imagination, in their dream worlds. So they have to create systems and automate things, so they don't end up missing payments or other important deadlines because they are distracted. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
May 31, 2023
INFJs Don’t Like It When People Covertly Try to Use Them

INFJs are quite aware when others are manipulating them, and that covert behavior is annoying to us. If you are going to use us, be direct and honest about it. Don't try to use us in a covert fashion, please. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
May 17, 2023
INFJs Love It When People Are Directly Rude and Antagonistic

INFJs don't know how to deal with people who are indirect, dishonest, or two-faced. We don't know if our intuition is telling us the truth about the person. So we would rather people be honest with us, even if that means dealing with rude and antagonistic people. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
May 03, 2023
Why Do INFJs Tell So Many Little White Lies?

INFJs have difficulty telling the truth in certain situations because we worry about confrontations, arguments, or discussions. We don't want all that. It's easier sometimes to say a little white lie and get out of the situation that way. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Apr 19, 2023
INFJs Are Highly Emotional and Feel Deeply, Even if We Hide It

Many people who surround INFJs will complain about their robotic or aloof nature, but the truth is INFJs are highly emotional. We just spend all our time hiding this aspect of ourselves, quite to our detriment. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Apr 05, 2023
INFJs Find It Hard to Understand Their Emotions

INFJs get confused by emotions and emotionality quite easily, not only by their own, but also by others. It's a mystery to us. What are emotions all about? It's easier to understand quantum physics or mechanics, truly. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Mar 22, 2023
INFJs Are All About Context and Finding Deeper Meaning to Things

Without a deeper meaning to a particular task or item, INFJs will not put their effort into it. That's why we need to trick ourselves and attach a deeper meaning to everything we need to get done in our adult life. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Feb 22, 2023
INFJs Don’t Know How to Define a Friendship - It’s So Confusing

INFJs don't know what a relationship means, let alone a friendship. So when people say they are our friends, we are truly confused. Are we really?? Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Feb 08, 2023
3 Reasons Why INFJs Find It Hard to Build Depth in a Relationship

It's so hard for INFJs to get relationships away from superficiality and into something much deeper and intense. We try so hard, but we fail so many more times. These are the reasons for it, as I share in the podcast. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Jan 25, 2023
An INFJs’ Moral Conscience Pummels Them on the Daily

The world is a terrible place for empaths like us. We want to do more morally and otherwise, but we can never do enough as INFJs. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Jan 11, 2023
Practice Your Worthiness Muscle Daily, INFJs

Just because you exist, you are worthy, INFJs. Tell yourself this daily and practice feeling worthy, no matter what. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

14m
Jan 04, 2023
Learn the Other Person’s Conversational Style First, INFJs

It can sometimes feel like you are speaking a completely different language than others around you, even though you are speaking in the same tongue. Communication requires INFJs to learn other people's styles first, before saying even a single word. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Dec 28, 2022
INFJs Run Away from Their Closest Relationships - Here’s Why

There are many reasons why INFJs run away from their closest relationships. People are exhausting, we don't trust very easily, we have been hurt in the past, and we think we don't deserve love. What is your reason for running away? Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Dec 21, 2022
Moral Perfectionism - Are You Suffering from This Debilitating Trait?

INFJs tend to create high impossible-to-reach standards for themselves, especially when it comes to morality. This is called moral perfectionism, and it's a mind-killer. Don't let yourself fall into that trap. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Dec 14, 2022
INFJs See Their Own Ugliness So Clearly, It Can Be Debilitating

INFJs find it easy to criticize themselves because we see our faults clearly. But that means that we end up seeing ourselves in a very negative way and forget that we are human, imperfect, and have our good points, too. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Nov 16, 2022
INFJs Don’t Like Being Human and Having Changing Needs

INFJs know that they are human, but this doesn't mean that they like it or don't try to avoid the whole responsibility of being human completely. We ignore our human needs and desires and pretend like we are not human. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

12m
Nov 09, 2022
INFJs Think if I’m So Smart, Why Should I Need Help?

INFJs have a really hard time asking for help because we think we are smart enough to do it all ourselves. But no matter how smart we are, there will always come a time when help is necessary. So we need to learn this important skill early on. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

13m
Nov 02, 2022
INFJs and YOLO Don’t Really Mix That Well

INFJs aren't really the you-only-live-once kind of crowd. We need to plan things out carefully and if we are spontaneous, it's when we have planned for it within our schedule. It's weird and restrictive, but it works for us. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

11m
Oct 26, 2022
How Do INFJs Make Decisions? - They Need to Reach Critical Mass Info

Some decisions INFJs can make in a jiffy. But others it takes us forever and ever. It's because we need to reach a certain critical mass in terms of information before we are ready to make particular decisions. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

10m
Sep 14, 2022
4 Natural Tendencies I Didn’t Know Were Related to My ADHD Nature

I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum, and now I realize there are many practices I built into my daily routine to help with my ADHD tendencies. To temper them so I can live in the world without rocking the boat too much. Which ones do you relate to? Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

16m
Sep 07, 2022
Some Tips for INFJs on How to Manage Their Finances Better

INFJs like to spend a lot of their time in their heads, which means that they end up ignoring all the real-world situations, like paying bills, saving money, and more. I give you some tips in this episode to help manage your money better. Thank you for listening!  If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/  Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomshikha/  Email me at boomshikha at themillionairehippie dot com if you have feedback.  Love and light as always, Boom Shikha Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/the-infj-whisperer. * Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy https://acast.com/privacy for more information.

15m
Aug 31, 2022