Are you ready to unlock the mystries of female sexuality?  Come As You Are is a must read for vulva-owners and the partners that want to please them.  In this episode, the Wives interview author Emily Nagoski on how her book can help all women maximize their capacity for pleasure. 

But before we dive into all the details, mix yourself up this episode's cocktail, the Blood Ornge Mule, while Ams recounts her ridiculous atempt to buy THC infused lube in California. 

Then, the Wives FAN-Girl all over their favorite author Emily Nagoski, and her award winning book, Come As You Are.

Next, the Wives go strait to the source, interviewing Emily Nagoski on her book, Come As You Are, as well as her newest project, which focuses on staying connected in long term relationships.

Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: time to check out Come As You Are, The Workbook.

EMILY NAGOSKI is the award-winning author of the New York Times bestselling Come As You Are and The Come As You Are Workbook, and coauthor, with her sister, Amelia, of New York Times bestseller Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. She earned an M.S. in counseling and a Ph.D. in health behavior, both from Indiana University, with clinical and research training at the Kinsey Institute. Now she combines sex education and stress education to teach women to live with confidence and joy inside their bodies. She lives in Massachusetts with two dogs, a cat, and a cartoonist.