This Is Actually Happening

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What if you were trafficked into a cult...or were mauled by a grizzly bear...or were stabbed 27 times by a serial killer - what would you do? This is Actually Happening brings you extraordinary true stories of life-changing events told by the people who lived them. From a man who woke up in the morgue to a woman stranded in a Mexican desert fighting to survive, these stories will have you on the edge of your seat waiting to hear what happens next.

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276 episodes

315: What if your life became a movie?

After his mother falls in love with Frank, the member of a one-hit-wonder 80s band, a man’s life becomes a roller coaster of neglect, scams, and chaos, but when he turns the camera on the inside of his family, a new world opens he never thought possible.  Today’s episode featured GJ Echternkamp. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email at GJActuallyHappening@gmail.com. You can find GJ’s documentary, “frank and Cindy” from 2007, as well as his feature film, also titled “Frank and Cindy” from 2015, both on Netflix. You can also find the music video and song “Whirly Girl” by OXO released in 1983 on YouTube.  PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: domestic violence, abuse, suicidal ideation, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR JASON BLALOCK: jasonblalock.com http://www.jasonblalock.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

54m
Apr 16
314: What if you harbored an unrelenting fury?

After losing her entire family at ten years old, a woman’s grief evolves into a self-destructive rage, and as systems of care, punishment and rehabilitation keep failing her, she’s forced to create her own path to healing.  Today’s episode featured Amy Ronhaar. You can find out more about Amy on her website, www.amyronhaar.com http://www.amyronhaar.com, and you can read more details of her story in her memoir Raising Amy: A Daughter’s Memoir on Book Baby https://store.bookbaby.com/book/raising-amy1 If you’d like to contact her, you can reach out over email at amyaronhaar@gmail.com. Amy’s story was also featured on the podcast Bunny Hugs, by Todd Rennebohm.  PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: death, domestic abuse, self-harm, suicide attempt, rape, sexual assault, drug use, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR AVIVA LIPKOWITZ: avivalipkowitz.com http://www.avivalipkowitz.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Uncertain Outcomes” – SkyeVoyager   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

54m
Apr 09
313: What if you had to find your own salvation?

Growing up queer, bullied and abused in a heavily religious community, a man tries and to change his sexual orientation through prayer, but as he pieces his life together and heals past harms, tragedy and misfortune raise more questions than answers. Today’s episode featured Ransom. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email at Ransomnotes24@gmail.com PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: sexual assault of a minor, incest, suicidal ideation, religious trauma, drug use, death, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR JASON BLALOCK: jasonblalock.com http://www.jasonblalock.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Cylinder Four” – Chris Zabriskie   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

52m
Apr 02
312: What if you believed your love could cure him?

Finally finding love and marriage after feeling unworthy of romance, a woman develops symptoms of a mysterious and debilitating illness, but in the roller coaster of recovery, her husband’s mental illness creates a new level of chaos.  Today’s episode featured Marabai Rose. To find out more about Marabai, you can find her on Instagram @marabai.rose, and on her website marabairose.com http://marabairose.com. There you can find links to her podcast, Badass: Tales of Resilience @badass_tales_of_resilience, which showcases authentic conversations about trauma and resilience. You can also find links to her memoir, Holding Hope: One family’s Odyssey Through Lyme Disease and Psychosis, which dives deeper into many aspects of the story you heard today and more. If you'd like to reach out to her, you can email at contact@marabairose.com or on Facebook at facebook.com/marabai http://facebook.com/marabai PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Sara Marinelli CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: medical trauma, domestic violence, severe mental illness, psychosis, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR SARA MARINELLI: saramarinelli.com http://www.saramarinelli.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Union Flow” – Spuntic   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

57m
Mar 26
311: What if you danced for those who couldn’t?

An Indigenous woman from the Standing Buffalo Dakota Nation whose grandparents suffered the horrific abuses of the Canadian Indian residential schools finds her own path to healing amidst the ravages of generational trauma on her family and community. Today’s episode featured Erin Goodpipe. To learn more about Erin and her work, you can find her on Instagram @e_goodpipe. Erin is multidisciplinary artist, educator and researcher involved in a number of media projects, including as a co-host of Treaty Road a television documentary series exploring the history & present day state of the Numbered Treaties in Canada between the Crown and Indigenous Peoples. You can find out more about the project at treatyroad.ca Erin’s story came to us by way of Todd Rennebohm. Erin was originally featured on Todd's podcast, Bunny Hugs and Mental health, which focuses on conversations with survivors, professionals and families of those who have lost someone to mental illness and addictions. So please check out Bunny Hugs and Mental Health, and a special thanks to Todd for referring today's guest. PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: domestic violence, suicidal ideation, graphic bodily injury, alcohol abuse, murder, death, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR AVIVA LIPKOWITZ: www.avivalipkowitz.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

55m
Mar 19
Listen Now: Felonious Florida Season 4

The award-winning  returns with a chilling new season available only on Wondery+. Imagine waking up in your own bed with a menacing figure standing over you? In 1980s Miami, this nightmare became a reality for dozens of women. The Pillowcase Rapist stalked and attacked his victims in their very own homes in a terror spree that spanned 4 decades. Who was the man beneath the pillowcase? And how did he stay in the darkness for so long?   is available exclusively on Wondery+. You can listen to the first full episode wherever you listen to podcasts. To hear the full season, subscribe to Wondery+ in the Wondery App or Apple Podcasts: https://wondery.app.link/FFS4_TAH See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

6m
Mar 18
310: What if your mother disappeared?

After being kidnapped by her mother in a custody battle, a woman finds herself cut off and under the thumb of an abusive stepmother, but after years of chaos and yearning, she finally learns the devastating truth. Today’s guest requested to remain anonymous, but if you’d like to reach out to her, you can email at cracklinghearth1@gmail.com  PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Sara Marinelli CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: domestic violence, suicidal ideation, graphic bodily injury, alcohol abuse, murder, death, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR SARA MARINELLI: saramarinelli.com http://www.saramarinelli.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

45m
Mar 12
309: What if you gave everything to The Job?

Endowed with a strong drive from a young age, a woman becomes a workaholic and marries a wonderful man with similar ambitions, but when he faces a failing project, life-long toxic work patterns come to a tragic conclusion.  Today’s episode featured Trina Colpitts. If you’d like to reach out to her, you can email at 500milesformentalhealth@gmail.com, and you can learn more about her foundation at 500milesformentalhealth.com http://www.500milesformentalhealth.com/ and join their 2024 challenge.  PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Sara Marinelli CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: drug use, hallucination, suicide, graphic bodily injury, death, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR SARA MARINELLI: saramarinelli.com http://www.saramarinelli.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Uncertain Outcomes” – SkyeVoyager   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

50m
Mar 05
Listen Now: The Spy Who

These are stories you were never meant to hear. The invisible but vital work of the world’s intelligence services: secret operatives playing to very different rules. The Spy Who, hosted by Indira Varma and Raza Jaffrey, takes you deep inside that shadow world to meet spies who risked everything in the national interest – or, sometimes, their own. Search and follow The Spy Who wherever you listen to podcasts, or binge entire seasons early and ad-free on Wondery+ on Apple Podcasts or the Wondery app. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

6m
Mar 04
308: What if they couldn’t wake me up?

Soon after returning from a long trip abroad, Whit Missildine, our creator and host of the show, suddenly blacked out and entered a non-responsive seizure state, but as he woke up to a new reality, struggling to put himself back together again, the gifts from the show itself offered exactly the medicine he needed. PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: seizure, medical trauma, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1h 1m
Feb 27
What if you spent 15 ours on the edge of sanity? [Rebroadcast Episode #89]

An impromptu hiking trip turns suddenly to disaster. PRODUCER: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: explicit language INTRO MUSIC: ""Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED:   Original Score & Sound Design: Ryan Black - ryanblack.io, Additional Sound Recording: Mason Kessie OUTRO MUSIC: "The Moon is Down" - El Diablo & Adam Schraft (Rojo y Negro) @eldiablosf https://soundcloud.com/eldiablosf @rojo-y-negro https://soundcloud.com/rojo-y-negro www.eldiablobass.com/ http://www.eldiablobass.com/   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE: 1-800-273-8255  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) CRISIS TEXT LINE: Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

45m
Feb 20
What if you discovered you were the enemy? [Rebroadcast Ep230]

Growing up with a sense of heroic duty, a man becomes a cop fighting the drug war, when the sobering realities of his job lead him to profound awakening. Today's episode featured Neil Woods. You can find out more about Neil by going to neilwoods.net, where you can also find links to his two books: Good Cop, Bad War and Drug Wars, with more about his own experience and about the War on Drugs in Britain. To find out more about his organization, LEAP, or Law Enforcement Action Partnership, go to lawenforcementactionpartnership.org.   PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening This Is Actually Happening Discussion Group on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/201783687561039/   WEBSITE: www.thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/   WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: near death, violence, suicide, mention of sexual assault, mention of gang rape, domestic violence, explicit language   WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at https://wondery.com/plus SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/happening   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.    INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources.   NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE: 1-800-273-8255  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) CRISIS TEXT LINE: Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

56m
Feb 13
Introducing: Black History, For Real

A 109 year old Black woman fights for reparations for her neighborhood that was burned to the ground when she was a child. The first woman on to the FBI’s Most Wanted Terrorist List was a Black Panther. The richest person of all time, an African king, gave away so much gold that it caused Cairo's economy to crash… for over a decade. On Wondery’s history series Black History, For Real, hosts Franchesca Ramsey and Conscious Lee go beyond the stories you already know to drop you right in the mix. It’s a no-nonsense, unwhitewashed account of history’s most overlooked moments, with a mix of narrative storytelling and candid conversation. We’ll even spill the occasional historical tea! It’s all facts, no cap. Listen to Black History, For Real: Wondery.fm/BHFRxTIAH http://wondery.fm/BHFRxTIAH See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

19s
Feb 06
307: What if you fell hard for the scam?

A woman growing up in poverty in Jamaica is abandoned by her mother at an early age, and as her story of unworthiness deepens, she falls prey to a cruel world.   Today’s episode featured Donna Hayes. Donna has written a memoir that includes further details about her incredible journey called These Broken Roads, which you can find on Amazon. You can also find out more about her on her website, donna-hayes.com http://www.donna-hayes.com and learn about her coaching practice at distinguishedcoaching.com http://www.distinguishedcoaching.com. You can find her on social media on Instagram @iamdonna_hayes and if you’d like to reach out to her, you can email her at donna@distinguishedcoaching.com.  PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: animal cruelty, parental neglect, domestic violence, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR JASON BLALOCK: jasonblalock.com http://www.jasonblalock.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Union Flow” – Spuntic   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1h 0m
Feb 06
Listen Now: Academy - Featuring Myha'la

Welcome to Bishop Gray Academy, a world of high-stakes and cut-throat competition.   Academy, a riveting coming-of-age audio drama co-produced by AT WILL MEDIA and Wondery, follows the story of Ava Richards, a scholarship student who transfers to Bishop Gray, one of the most elite and competitive boarding schools in America.   As Ava tries to find her place in this high-pressure environment, she soon crosses paths with an underground society known as The Night of the Wolf, which caters to the school's wealthiest students and enforces strict secrecy. With trust in short supply, Ava must navigate a dangerous and alluring world where friendships will be tested, romances will bloom, and ambitions cut short.    Listen to Academy: Wondery.fm/Academy_ http://wondery.fm/Academy_ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

6m
Feb 05
306: What if you lived someone else’s life?

After learning to endure a toxic relationship with his father, a man crafts a ‘good life’ filled with the privileges of success, but only when he finds himself on the other side of death’s door does he find out what it really means to be alive.  PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: death, cardiac arrest, medical trauma, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR AVIVA LIPKOWITZ: avivalipkowitz.com http://www.avivalipkowitz.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1h 2m
Jan 30
305: What if you were expected to do no harm?

Growing up in a family full of secrets, a woman experiences a complex trauma and buries a secret of her own, but after finding her passion in medicine, she is faced with dilemma that brings everything to the surface.  Today’s guest requested to remain anonymous. But if you’d like to reach out to her, you can email at v2174359@gmail.com. PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: sexual abuse, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR AVIVA LIPKOWITZ: avivalipkowitz.com http://www.avivalipkowitz.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Uncertain Outcomes” – SkyeVoyager   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

48m
Jan 23
Listen Now: Dr. Death: Bad Magic

When a charismatic young doctor announces revolutionary treatments for cancer and HIV, patients from around the world turn to him for their last chance. As medical experts praise Serhat Gumrukcu’s genius, the company he co-founded rockets in value to over half a billion dollars. But when a team of researchers makes a startling discovery, they begin to suspect the brilliant doctor is hiding a secret. From Wondery, the new season of Dr. Death: Bad Magic is a story of miraculous cures, magic and murder. Hosted by Laura Beil. Listen to Dr. Death - Bad Magic: Wondery.fm/Dr.Death http://Wondery.fm/Dr.Death See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

5m
Jan 22
304: What if you were poisoned?

A young woman on a backpacking trip in Bali faces a series of misfortunes, but just as she’s leaving for the next chapter of her journey, her future is thrown into darkness.   Today’s episode featured Ashley King. If you’d like to reach out to her, you can email at ashleyjenniferk@gmail.com, or find her on Instagram @ashkng. PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: poisoning, medical trauma, suicidal ideation, suicide attempt, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR JASON BLALOCK: Jasonblalock.com http://www.Jasonblalock.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Uncertain Outcomes” – SkyeVoyager   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

53m
Jan 16
Listen Now: Even the Royals

For real life royals, the crown jewels can be more like shiny handcuffs. There are expectations and rules – and if you break them, the consequences are big, and very public. And no, we’re not just talking about Harry and Meghan. There are royal families and wild royal tales from around the world and throughout history that you have never heard before. From Wondery comes the latest from Even the Rich co-hosts Brooke Siffrinn and Aricia Skidmore-Williams, EVEN THE ROYALS. Even the Royals takes you inside the cloistered world of royal families, past and present, where wealth and status often come at the expense of your freedom – and maybe even your life. In these stories, very human emotions, like jealousy, love, disgust, have the power to reshape the world.  This is just a preview of Even the Royals. Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts, or at wondery.fm/eventheroyals http://wondery.fm/eventheroyals. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

7m
Jan 10
What if you swallowed 48 bags of cocaine? [Rebroadcast #156]

A young man looking for a quick way to get rid of student loan debt gambles with his life and nearly pays the ultimate price. PRODUCER: Whit Missildine SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: www.actuallyhappeningstore.com http://www.actuallyhappeningstore.com/ to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: drugs, near death, explicit language INTRO MUSIC: ""Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED:   Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE: 1-800-273-8255  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) CRISIS TEXT LINE: Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

47m
Jan 09
What if you rescued everyone to save yourself? [Rebroadcast #198]

A woman with severe harm OCD encounters the many faces of death and dying but finds renewal in caring for others and ultimately herself. Today's episode featured Rachel. You can find out more about her on Facebook at fb.com/RachelHillestad http://fb.com/RachelHillestad.   CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: homicidal thoughts, harm OCD, death, sexual assault, mention of suicide, suicidal thoughts, explicit language PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine   SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening WEBSITE: www.thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/   WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at https://wondery.com/plus   SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/happening   ENGAGE WITH THE COMMUNITY: Join the This Is Actually Happening Discussion Group on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/201783687561039/   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.    INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Cylinder Four/Five” – Chris Zabriskie   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources.   NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

52m
Jan 02
What if you grew up in a violent gang? [Rebroadcast #163]

After tragedy strikes a Vietnamese refugee family, a young man finds his new home in a violent gang, forever marking his life path through acts of destruction and redemption. Today’s episode featured Quan Huynh. You can read more about Quan’s story in his memoir, Sparrow in the Razorwire - www.sparrowintherazorwire.com http://www.sparrowintherazorwire.com/. You can also find out more about Quan and his current work at www.quanxhuynh.com http://www.quanxhuynh.com/ and on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram @quanxhuynh PRODUCER: Whit Missildine SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: www.actuallyhappeningstore.com http://www.actuallyhappeningstore.com/ to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: murder, gang violence, death, incarceration, explicit language INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Cylinder Four/Five” – Chris Zabriskie   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE: 1-800-273-8255  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) CRISIS TEXT LINE: Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

52m
Dec 26, 2023
303: What if your brother became a monster?

Growing up in a broken home with a loving mother, a woman faces disturbing and routine abuse from her brother, but after it escalates, and the unthinkable happens, the terror never ends.  Today's episode featured Amy Chesler. To find out more about her and her story, you can find her book on Working for Justice on Amazon. Amy also has her own podcast, What Came Next, which chronicles in greater depth her experiences with the criminal justice system and the media, as well as other firsthand accounts from survivors and advocates throughout history. You can also find her on Instagram @amybchesler, and on her website amybchesler.com http://amybchesler.com/. Working for Justice: https://amzn.to/483m9Ut  Amy's Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/amybchesler What Came Next on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/whatcamenext_podcast What Came Next on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/what-came-next/id1674051643 PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: sexual assault of a minor, domestic abuse and violence, graphic bodily injury, alcohol and drug abuse, murder, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR AVIVA LIPKOWITZ: avivalipkowitz.com/ https://www.avivalipkowitz.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Union Flow” - Spuntic   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

1h 0m
Dec 19, 2023
302: What if you could only find closure within?

A woman experiences a childhood trauma, facing silence and betrayal in the aftermath, but a when unexpected tragedy comes, the answers begin slipping out of reach.  Today’s guest requested to remain anonymous, but if you’d like to reach out, you can email her at dotisallin@gmail.com PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Sara Marinelli CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: sexual assault of a minor, alcohol and drug abuse, addition, suicide, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR SARA MARINELLI: saramarinelli.com http://www.saramarinelli.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Union Flow” - Spuntic   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

52m
Dec 12, 2023
301: What if you were pulled into the abyss?

Growing up with a solid Midwestern childhood, and man discovers the wonders of the Hawaiian ocean, when one day a terrifying encounter changes everything.  Today’s episode featured Harvey Miller. You can find out more about Harvey on Instagram @mrsharkb8, on TikTok @harveymiller26, or you can contact him over email at mr.sharkb8@gmail.com PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: death, car accident, near-death, shark attack, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR JASON BLALOCK: jasonblalock.com http://www.jasonblalock.com SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

49m
Dec 05, 2023
300: What if your boyfriend lit himself on fire?

After falling into a co-dependent relationship, a woman’s boyfriend begins a bewildering decline, but after losing his battle, she awakens to a deeper understanding of grief, death and generational patterns of trauma and silence. Today’s episode featured Amanda Coggin. If you’d like to reach out, you can email her at spiritualinthebay@gmail.com. Amanda has also compiled a list of resources https://drive.google.com/file/d/19X03OcfJwiNxuuEdo7BY2A5LIYzsT1eO/view?usp=drivesdk for mental wellness, adverse childhood experiences, and trauma and resilience. This episode is an updated interview of episode #1 of the show. That episode is available on the public feed as episode #1 also titled, “What if your boyfriend lit himself on fire?” PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, J http://www.jasonblalock.com/ason Blalock CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: sexual assault of a minor, alcohol and drug abuse, addition, suicide, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR JASON BLALOCK: www.jasonblalock.com http://www.jasonblalock.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

51m
Nov 28, 2023
Listen Now: 'Tis The Grinch Holiday Talk Show

Cuddly as a cactus and charming as an eel, he’s your new favorite snarky talk show host. Join The Grinch (and his faithful dog Max) each week as he rants against Christmas cheer and roasts celebrity guests like chestnuts on an open fire. Starring Saturday Night Live’s James Austin Johnson as the notorious curmudgeon and broadcasting straight from Who-Ville, will The Grinch send these famous folks back down Mt. Crumpit, or will they soften his stance against Christmas and grow his heart three sizes? Grab your hot cocoa and cozy slippers and listen along to find out! Follow 'Tis The Grinch Holiday Talk Show on the Wondery App or wherever you get your podcasts. You can listen to episodes of 'Tis The Grinch Holiday Talk Show early and ad-free right now by joining Wondery Plus. Listen now: Wondery.fm/Grinch http://wondery.fm/Grinch See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

5m
Nov 27, 2023
299: What if your only hope for life was choosing death?

Growing up with a controlling and mentally abusive mother, a woman suffers from a severe eating disorder that leaves her hopeless, until she discovers Medical Assistance in Dying, a program in Canada whereby people can receive assistance from a medical practitioner to voluntarily end their life. Today’s episode featured Agata. If you’d like to reach out to her, you can email at amgawron@shaw.ca Agata's story came to us by way of Todd Rennebohm. Agata was originally featured on Todd's podcast, Bunny Hugs and Mental health, which focuses on conversations with survivors, professionals and families of those who have lost someone to mental illness and addictions. So please check out Bunny Hugs and Mental Health, and a special thanks to Todd for referring today's guest. PRODUCERS: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: childhood medical trauma, sexual assault, parental abuse, severe eating disorder, anorexia, bulimia, suicide attempt, discussion of suicide, death and dying, explicit language   SOCIAL MEDIA:  Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast WEBSITE: thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ WEBSITE FOR ANDREW WAITS: andrdewwaits.com http://www.andrdewwaits.com WEBSITE FOR AVIVA LIPKOWITZ: https://www.avivalipkowitz.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening https://www.patreon.com/happening WONDERY PLUS: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at wondery.com/plus https://wondery.com/plus   SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  TRANSCRIPTS: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: “Cylinder Four” – Chris Zabriskie   SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE AND CRISIS LIFELINE: Text or Call 988  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

52m
Nov 21, 2023
1: What if your boyfriend lit himself on fire?

"We're still here. What part are we playing in all this?" PRODUCER: Whit Missildine EPISODE SUMMARY: After finally deciding to settle into a long term relationship, a woman becomes tangled in a web of confusion, guilt and grief as her partner self-destructs SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @actuallyhappening WEBSITE: www.thisisactuallyhappening.com http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/ SUPPORT THE SHOW: Support The Show on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/happening ENGAGE WITH THE COMMUNITY: Join the This Is Actually Happening Discussion Group on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/201783687561039/ SHOP AT THE STORE: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: www.actuallyhappeningstore.com http://www.actuallyhappeningstore.com to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop.  CONTENT/TRIGGER WARNINGS: mental illness, suicide, explicit language INTRO MUSIC: "Illabye" – Tipper MUSIC BED: "Cat Wearing Glasses" – Lee Rosevere SERVICES If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: NATIONAL SUICIDE PREVENTION LIFELINE: 1-800-273-8255  NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL ILLNESS: 1-800-950-6264 NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) CRISIS TEXT LINE: Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

12m
Nov 20, 2023