Bossed Up

Emilie Aries

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Are you ready to step up as the boss of your life? Emilie Aries breaks down career conundrums with expert interviews to help women navigate career transition and step up as the boss of their careers. Whether you're in the job search, starting a side hustle, climbing a corporate ladder, or an experienced entrepreneur, join Bossed Up's community of courageous women who lift as they climb.

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Job Search Success: How To Optimize Your LinkedIn Profile Skills Section

How does your LinkedIn Skills section look these days? Whether or not you’re currently on the hunt for new employment opportunities, this is your friendly reminder to get your Skills section in order. LinkedIn places a huge focus on this section of your profile when it comes to recruiters looking for candidates. In this episode, I walk you through how to amp up your Skills section. With everything we have to do, wouldn’t it be nice to let LinkedIn take some of the hard work of job searching (even if you’re just low-key looking right now) off your plate? LISTEN ALONG AS WE WALK THROUGH THIS ESSENTIAL PROCESS AND DISCOVER: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

14m
Mar 26, 2024
Cross-Cultural Communication in Leadership

Whether an organization’s teams are centered in a single city or dispersed across the world, cultural differences inevitably emerge. For leaders accustomed to knowing the answers and acting on their singular understanding of situations, it can be difficult to recognize these differences, much less level up the listening skills needed to address them for the good of their organization. For more than 10 years, Hawa Kombian has worked within and alongside companies in Canada, Ghana, and more, using her expertise in cross-cultural competency and communication to help her clients achieve operational sustainability and social vibrancy through customized results-driven cultures of connection. In this episode, Hawa and I delve into the compassionate approach she teaches to guide leaders and their teams in this important work.  EXPLORE THE ESSENTIAL IMPACT OF CROSS-CULTURAL COMPETENCY ON THE FUTURE OF WORK WITH: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

40m
Mar 19, 2024
3 Tips For Managing Too Many Meetings

How many meeting invites do you get each week? If your company is like many American organizations, it’s probably too many. Recent research shows that 70% of all company meetings are keeping teams from completing their tasks. On top of that, a Harvard Business Review article reports that “Ineffective meetings that waste our time can negatively impact psychological, physical, and mental well-being.” Yikes!  In this episode, I share three steps that can help reduce meeting overwhelm. There’s no doubt that declining a meeting is easier said than done. Company culture and concern for professional relationships can make it anxiety-inducing to even consider clicking anything but that little “yes” box on a meeting invitation. But taking the plunge and beginning to question—and even turn down—unnecessary meetings can make a huge difference in your company as a whole. NAVIGATE THE MEETING ACCEPTANCE MINEFIELD PROFESSIONALLY BY LEARNING: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

13m
Mar 12, 2024
Are Pay Transparency Laws Working?

Pay transparency is one of our policy priorities at Bossed Up, and in this episode, I speak with a scholar who studies the subject: Zoë Cullen. An assistant professor of entrepreneurial management at Harvard Business School, Zoë has spent the last decade studying gender gaps within the workforce, and most recently has focused on the effects of pay transparency laws.  Her research reveals a lot of interesting information about what pay transparency means for individual workers, career motivation, and hiring practices. Zoë’s practical explanations of the data help put this groundbreaking policy into perspective.  FIND OUT WHAT THE NUMBERS SAY ABOUT HOW PAY TRANSPARENCY IS PLAYING OUT IN THE REAL WORLD: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

32m
Mar 05, 2024
How To Ask For A Reference During Your Job Search

When you need a reference, what’s the first thing you do? Almost everyone looking for a new job will need a reference or two, and a former employer is the most common choice. However customary this exchange might be, though, no one appreciates having a reference call sprung on them without warning. I recently received just such an out-of-the-blue reference check. The uncomfortable experience prompted me to pull together four tips for putting your best foot forward when you come to this point in your job search. Spoiler alert: it all starts with giving your reference a heads-up.  IN TODAY’S EPISODE, I UNPACK SOME STEPS TO MAKE THE MOST OF YOUR ASK: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

10m
Feb 27, 2024
Navigate the Anxiety That Comes With A Promotion

Most of us have or will experience the classic post-promotion “freakout.” This crushing crisis of confidence leaves us wondering how we got here and whether we can handle our new responsibilities. Jodi Flynn, a leadership development expert with more than a decade of experience helping organizations with attracting, developing, and successfully promoting more women into senior levels of leadership, often helps clients through this transitional time and remembers well the feeling of navigating it herself. In this episode, we sit down to explore the reasons behind this inevitable anxiety. We lay out a host of tips to help you navigate and manage these feelings, so you can embrace the boss you’re meant to be. FEEL EMPOWERED WITH JODI’S PRACTICAL AND INSIGHTFUL IDEAS FOR NAVIGATING THIS NEW TERRAIN: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

39m
Feb 20, 2024
4 Steps to On-Ramp Back Into the Job Search After Taking a Career Break

Recently, a member of my HIRED Job Search Accelerator community asked a very important and relevant question: how do I get back into the job search after years away? If you or someone you know is preparing to take the plunge back into the working world, the four tips in this episode will familiarize you with how the job hunt landscape has changed and leave you feeling more confident in the career skills you still possess.  PREPARE FOR THIS BIG TRANSITION BY UNDERSTANDING: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

12m
Feb 13, 2024
The Problem With Self-Help

What’s the last self-help book you read? These days, whatever life change you’re hoping for, there’s a self-help guru and their associated memoir eager to explain how they did it and you can too. The problem is that most of these books are written by the people for whom our capitalist society was built. In this episode, I speak with Sharon Podobnik, a seasoned executive leadership coach and former self-help fiend whose questioning of the industry led her to write her new book, It’s Not (All) Your Fault: Self-Help and the Individualization of Oppression. Sharon is a font of knowledge on all things self-help and the perfect person to delve deep into this problematic field and begin envisioning a healthier, more equitable alternative. GET INSIGHT INTO ALL THE MISLEADING AND INEFFECTIVE WAYS WE TRY TO HELP OURSELVES, INCLUDING: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

38m
Feb 06, 2024
Dealing With Low-Ball Job Offers

What do you do if a job offer comes in with a low-ball salary? In this episode, I dig into a topic inspired by a listener's email that echoes the experiences of many job seekers. The thrill of a job offer in your inbox can be quickly curtailed by a proposed salary that doesn’t even hit the bottom of your range. The let-down stems from a combination of systemic issues around hiring, genuine frustration and stress, and possibly some unrealistic expectations. I explain what’s going on behind the scenes in these scenarios and what you can do to set yourself up for job search and salary negotiation success. PRESS PLAY TO DISCOVER INSIGHTS THAT CAST JOB HUNTING IN A NEW LIGHT, INCLUDING: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __  

18m
Jan 30, 2024
The Impact of Stress Reduction on Infertility

Content warning: this blog post and podcast episode include mentions of pregnancy loss.  Odds are, you either know someone or someone who has experienced infertility or pregnancy loss firsthand. The visibility of this common but traumatic experience has been on the rise, but there’s still a lot to do before people feel as comfortable discussing a pregnancy loss as they do a migraine or knee surgery.  In this episode, I speak with Dr. Alice Domar, a psychologist and the Chief Compassion Officer at Inception Fertility. Dr. Domar has investigated the link between stress and infertility for decades, and her research shines a fascinating light on this widespread problem.  TUNE IN TO DISCOVER THE SCIENCE BEHIND THIS MIND–BODY LINK, INCLUDING: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

39m
Jan 23, 2024
The Succession Gap and the Growing Value of Your Leadership Aspirations

Do you aspire to lead others? If yes, you’re in the minority. New research shows that fewer and fewer people are expressing the desire to take on leadership roles, with women and Gen Z workers being chief among those losing interest. In this episode, I take a look at what’s behind this hesitance to pursue promotions to people management. Then, we’ll dive into what companies need to do to encourage and support their workforce to close this succession gap. Tune in now to learn: __ __ Related Links: __ __

15m
Jan 16, 2024
Leverage Your Fear to Fuel Your Growth

Content warning: this episode includes mentions of pregnancy loss. Growing up, we’re often taught to deny or fight our fears. Fear is weakness, as you may have been told, and the only way to get ahead in the world is to become But since that’s all but impossible, we wind up spending precious energy we could be putting toward our goals erecting a stone wall around our fears when, in fact, acknowledging and respecting our fears could help us flourish! In this episode, I speak with Farnoosh Torabi, a personal finance advisor, journalist, and author who explores fear and its role in our pursuit of success in her latest book, . We discuss how to identify and unpack our fear and use it to bolster our aspirations. Don’t be afraid to delve into your fears with us as Farnoosh explains: __ __ Related Links: __ __

42m
Jan 09, 2024
Grow Your Professional Network in the New Year

How have you been making time for building connections? This is not an easy thing to schedule in around work responsibilities, family events, and hard-earned relaxation time, but it is an important and uplifting part of establishing and growing your leadership community. I dedicated myself to this pursuit wholeheartedly in 2023, and I came away from it with pride in what I accomplished and three takeaways to help you implement networking in your own 2024 strategic plan. Let this be the year you connect with fellow bosses in a new and authentic way. GRAB A PEN AND LISTEN IN—THIS EPISODE WILL HAVE YOU ITCHING TO GET CONNECTING: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

20m
Jan 02, 2024
The Economic Imperative of Affordable Childcare

Raise your hand if being a mom and working away from home has you STRESSED! Most parents would agree: one of the biggest challenges you face in the early years is figuring out how to patch together childcare you can actually afford!  Most parents in the U.S. have felt the impact of our poor childcare economy. Stiff competition for daycare entry, care coverage that doesn’t reflect the average work schedule, and costs that make it almost impossible for parents of littles to return to work at all are just a handful of the impossible choices working parents face. Meanwhile… businesses today are desperate for talent! So why aren’t we catering to an eager but largely untapped potential workforce: parents of young children?  We need systemic change, and Nicole Riehl is making incredible strides in this arena. Her organization, EPIC, helps businesses address their teams’ childcare needs in a way that benefits their employees, companies, and the economy as a whole. EXPLORE NICOLE’S INSIGHTS AND THE INNOVATIVE SOLUTIONS THAT ARE RESHAPING HOW BUSINESSES SUPPORT WORKING PARENTS: __ __ RELATED LINKS: __ __

35m
Dec 26, 2023
3 Steps To Celebrate Your Wins

What wins are you celebrating in 2023? Whether the past year was a breeze or the worst one yet, it’s time to pour yourself a glass of bubbly (or Bubly) and announce aloud all the ways you shine.  Let’s jumpstart your year-end reflections. In this episode, I present three steps that will help you add a celebratory angle to your 2023 review and really remind you that you made progress this year, no matter what your 2024 to-do lists might look like. You’ll leave equipped with some inspo to get you ready to ring in the new year, including: __ __ Related Links: __ __  

26m
Dec 19, 2023
Critical Conversations that Drive Inclusive Leadership

How can you bring more courageous conversations into your practice of inclusive leadership? In recent years, more and more leaders are seeking to understand what inclusive leadership really means and how to build it into our ever-evolving organization models. It’s not easy work and, all too often, defensiveness and white fragility rear up as soon as the feedback is anything other than complimentary. This episode is a sometimes spicy take on courageous conversations and inclusivity in the workplace, with two women who are transforming this fraught space. Stephanie Chin is a leadership consultant and the founder of Spicy Conversations. Sarah Noll Wilson is an executive coach, researcher, author, and one of Stephanie’s clients We’re calling you in to talk all things inclusive leadership, including: __ __ Related Links: __ __

51m
Dec 12, 2023
How To Recalibrate Your Career

How does your career align with your values, and how do you even begin figuring that out? These are questions more of us have started asking this year, as we stop accepting career dissatisfaction and burnout as “just how it is” and re-evaluate our relationship to work. In this episode, I share an approach to career recalibration that has really resonated with me, one that places less of a focus on identifying your core values and more on identifying the tangible pieces that are and are not working for you now. Establishing realignment with your purpose is no easy feat, but these three steps will have you on your way to a more resonant relationship with every aspect of your life. Get ready to revel in radical acceptance as we walk through: __ __ Related Links: __ __

27m
Dec 05, 2023
Women, Money, & Power in Divorce

Dealing with divorce can be an overwhelming process, piled atop of what may already be a heartbreaking betrayal. But it can also be an empowering experience in which you take charge of your financial future.  Today on the podcast, I sit down with fraud coach Tracy Coenen, CPA, CFF, MAFF, to learn how to prepare for divorce prudently, how to advocate for your financial future, and how to go from overwhelmed to empowered through divorce.  Related links: __ __

33m
Nov 28, 2023
How to Become an Inspiring, Visionary Leader

Women managers have been rated better or equal to men on every leadership characteristic except one: envisioning.  So what does it mean to be a visionary leader - and what does it matter? I'm diving in to the gender dynamics of visionary leadership and why it's so crucial for women leader's long-term impact.  Related links:  __ __

12m
Nov 21, 2023
Finding Your Voice at Work

Have you struggled to find your voice at work? Have you started self-silencing? Or overthinking your every sentence?   Today's episode with Samara Bay, author of is for you. We're breaking down why it's so challenging to speak up and be heard at work, how to counter voice bias with voice justice, and how to embrace your voice as "the new sound of power." Related links:  __ __

38m
Nov 14, 2023
The Broken Rung of Leadership

We've all heard about the "glass ceiling" women leaders face at the highest ranks of their careers. But there's a more significant barrier that contributes to the gender leadership gap: the "broken rung" of leadership.  In today's episode I'm breaking down what the "broken rung" of leadership is all about and how we - as individuals and organizations - can disrupt the status quo, support emerging women leaders, and strive for gender equality in leadership together.  Related links:  __ __    

17m
Nov 07, 2023
Women of Color in Leadership and Trauma at Work

In today's episode, I sit down with Marisol Solarte-Erlacher, M.A., LPC, a trauma expert and resilience consultant specializing in supporting women of color through post-traumatic growth. Together we break down:  __ __ Related links include:  __ __  

30m
Oct 31, 2023
The Gender Confidence Gap Myth

You've heard the "stat" before: men tend to apply for jobs when they meet only 60% of the qualifications and women only once they reach 100% of them. We're supposed to conclude that women simply need more confidence to stretch outside their comfort zone, right?  Wrong. In today's episode, I'm diving into the details and breaking down why perpetuating this myth is so harmful.  Related links: __ __  

11m
Oct 24, 2023
The jobs of America's next Silicon Valley

You may have heard lately about the importance of chips - also often referred to as microchips or semiconductors. Today's episode with Kylie Patterson, Senior Advisor for Opportunity and Inclusion at the US Department of Commerce, breaks down:  __ __ Tune in now to learn more! Related links:  __ __

33m
Oct 17, 2023
On Being White and Latina

In today's episode, I'm sharing my personal experience being white and Latina. This Hispanic Heritage Month, I feel compelled to talk more publicly about my relationship with race and ethnicity, and better understand the difference between the two. Related links: __ __  

16m
Oct 12, 2023
What Actually Creates Gender Equality at Work

I've spent the last 10 years helping women boss up - by getting hired, speaking up, and leveling up. I've worked with incredible organizations, activated allies, hell, I wrote the book on bossin' up and have been a featured speaker on stages across the globe. But still...it's not enough.  In today's episode I'm sharing a big shift I'm navigating to make sure we're "lifting as we climb."  Related links:  __ __

17m
Oct 03, 2023
The Top Struggles of High Achievers

On today's exceptionally raw and real episode, I sit down with Chris Castillo, mindset coach for high achievers and the Founder of Empowered Achievers.   We break down the common ways high achievers can run into struggle, and unpack how to move through it with some on-the-spot coaching by Chris. Related links:  __ __

43m
Sep 26, 2023
Interview Tips for Candidates with a Non-Traditional Background

Are you a job-seeker navigating a big career pivot?  Interviewing with a "non-traditional" background can pose a challenge.  In today's episode, I sit down with  federal agent-turned-career coach, Crystal Barrow, to talk through these challenges and more:  __ __ Related links from today's discussion: __ __  

34m
Sep 19, 2023
I was called 'aggressive' at work...now what?

Everyday, women are wrongfully mislabeled as "aggressive" for simply speaking up in the workplace.  When this happens to you, what's the best way to respond?  Tune in to today's episode to learn:  __ __ Related links:  __ __  

13m
Sep 12, 2023
Ambition, Exhaustion, and Sleep Disorders in the Workplace

When Lindsay Scola first told a doctor that she was having problems with sleep, her doctor replied that, "busy people are tired." This became something of a badge of honor for Lindsay as she pursued an ambitious career in activism and entertainment over the next 15 years, until finally her challenges with sleep became debilitating. She was finally diagnosed with narcolepsy at the age of 35 and is now on a mission to make sleep health and sleep equity a reality for all.  Tune in to today's episode to learn how to tell if you might be dealing with disordered sleep, and how this kind of chronic illness is an often-overlooked element of equity and inclusion in the workplace.  Related notes:  __ __  

35m
Sep 05, 2023