How to Be Awesome at Your Job

How to be Awesome at Your Job

About

Get more fun, wins, meaning, and money from your job! With 25,000,000 downloads and mentions in The New York Times, Forbes, and Linkedin Learning. This show helps grow your skills and impact at any job that requires thinking and collaborating.

Each week, Pete interviews thought-leaders and results-getters to discover specific, actionable insights that boost work performance. Their stories and advice sharpen the universal skills to flourish at work. Boost your time/energy management, leadership, confidence, career opportunities, and fulfillment—while still getting home earlier.

Try starting with episode 0: START HERE and listener favorite episodes we put at the beginning numbered: A, B, C, D, E, and F. (Subscribe and/or sort Old to New to find these starter episodes.) Welcome!

Available on

Community

964 episodes

949: How to End Miscommunications, Unclarity, and Endlessly Repeating the Same Conversation with Marsha Acker

Marsha Acker reveals how to break free from the cycle of miscommunication and misunderstandings.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) The root of misunderstandings and miscommunications  2) The four actions of every conversation  3) The more effective way to disagree with someone  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep949 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep949 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MARSHA —  Marsha Acker, CPCC, PCC, CPF, is the host of the Defining Moments of Leadership podcast, the founder and CEO of TeamCatapult, and the author of two groundbreaking and thought-provoking books:  and (a workbook). Marsha has an international presence and reputation as a FACILITATOR OF MEANINGFUL CONVERSATIONS, a host of dialogue, and a passionate agilest. She coaches leadership teams to grow their collective leadership and to build the capability of achieving true, sustainable behavior change through dialogue.  • Book: "Build Your Model for Leading Change: A Guided Workbook to Catalyze Clarity and Confidence in Leading Yourself and Others" https://www.amazon.com/Build-Your-Model-Leading-Change/dp/1735655422?tag=petemo-20  • Book site: BuildYourModel.com https://buildyourmodel.com/  • LinkedIn: Marsha Acker https://www.linkedin.com/in/marsha-acker-3486a72/  • Website: TeamCatapult.com https://teamcatapult.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Study: “Essential Conflict In The Workplace Statistics In 2024” https://zipdo.co/statistics/conflict-in-the-workplace/ from ZipDo  • Theory: 4 Player Model https://www.heartoftheart.org/?p=5629  • Book: "Dialogue: The Art Of Thinking Together" https://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Thinking-Together-William-Isaacs/dp/0385479999?tag=petemo-20 by William Isaacs  • Past episode: 159: Increasing Confidence by Increasing Self-Awareness with Dr. Tasha Eurich https://awesomeatyourjob.com/2017-hit-159-increasing-confidence-by-increasing-self-awareness-with-dr-tasha-eurich/  • Past episode: 366: Mastering Conversations through Compassionate Curiosity with Kwame Christian https://awesomeatyourjob.com/366-mastering-conversations-through-compassionate-curiosity-with-kwame-christian/  • Past episode: 707: Amy Edmondson on How to Build Thriving Teams with Psychological Safety https://awesomeatyourjob.com/707-amy-edmondon-on-how-to-build-thriving-teams-with-psychological-safety/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

41m
Apr 01, 2024
948: The 3 Simple Steps to Compelling Stories with Mark Carpenter

Master storyteller Mark Carpenter shares handy keys for telling great stories that enrich all your communication.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why stories are more effective than numbers  2) The science behind why our brains love stories  3) The three elements of a memorable story  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep948 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep948 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MARK —  Mark Carpenter is a serial storyteller who is on a mission to bring more humanity into leadership and sales.  Mark has leveraged his storytelling ability over the years in marketing communication, public relations, corporate facilitation, and as a college professor. Today, Mark works as a consultant and speaker to teach others what he has learned along the way, and he shares his secrets to purposeful and effective leadership in his best-selling book,  When he’s not speaking, training, coaching, or creating new content, Mark is likely hiking or snowshoeing in the mountains near his home in Utah, playing the piano, bragging about his grandchildren, or writing children’s books.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Master-Storytelling-Experiences-Stories-Inspire/dp/1724199218?tag=petemo-20  • LinkedIn: Mark Carpenter https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-carpenter-0b55221/  • Website: Master-Storytelling.com https://master-storytelling.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Listen-Discover-Hidden-Communication/dp/1774581914?tag=petemo-20by Oscar Trimboli  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Heros-Journey-Joseph-Campbell-Collected/dp/1577314042?tag=petemo-20by Joseph Campbell  • Video: Dan Harmon Story Circle: 8 Proven Steps to Better Stories by StudioBinder https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-XGUVkOmPTA  • Past episode: 560: How to Resolve Conflict and Boost Productivity through Deep Listening with Oscar Trimboli https://awesomeatyourjob.com/560-how-to-resolve-conflict-and-boost-productivity-through-deep-listening-with-oscar-trimboli/  • Past episode: 124: The Science Behind Trust and High-Performance with Paul Zak https://awesomeatyourjob.com/124-the-science-behind-trust-and-high-performance-with-paul-zak/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

40m
Mar 28, 2024
947: How to Unlock Clarity through Your Brain’s Blueprint with Rachel Rider

Rachel Rider shares visualization and other approaches to gain individualized insights on improving your leadership.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) A powerful visualization to break out of negativity  2) The biological hack to overcome anxiety  3) How to decode your body’s tension signals  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep947 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep947 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT RACHEL —  Rachel Rider founded MettaWorks in 2015 after a distinguished career in HR, receiving executive coaching certification from Columbia University, and extensive training in meditation, Somatic Experiencing, and Polarity Therapy. Starting as HR Business Partner responsible for developing and coaching leaders and teams at Bloomberg, she went on to specialize in leadership coaching at AppNexus (since acquired by AT&T) and Digital Ocean, the third-largest hosting company in the world. She studied under renowned teacher and Zen Mountain Monastery founder John Daido Loori Roshi for 13 years before continuing under his successor, Shugen Arnold Roshi.   Rider completed a three-year intensive certification in Somatic Experiencing in 2018, and a 2020 training in Polarity Therapy with the aim of bringing leaders tools to unlock effective, long-lasting change in concert with the body. Since 2020, she’s been working intensively with anti-racism coach Makeda Pennycooke. Rider lives in New York with her husband and two children.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Who-You-Are-How-Lead/dp/1958714712?tag=petemo-20  • Instagram: mettaworks https://www.instagram.com/metta.works/p/CyRyGc2Ocwj/  • LinkedIn: Rachel Rider https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachellrider  • Website: MettaWorks.io https://mettaworks.io/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Far-Tree-Parents-Children-Identity/dp/1476773068?tag=petemo-20 by Andrew Solomon  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Desolation-Long-Journey-Home/dp/0307463451?tag=petemo-20 by Buzz Aldrin & Ken Abraham  • Podcast: Dr. Trevor Kashey’s “Coffee with Dr. Kashey” https://open.spotify.com/show/0x6tlrJUQdreOnkXeEPJBU See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

34m
Mar 25, 2024
946: Why Most Projects Fail and What to Do About it with Kory Kogon

Kory Kogon offers her practical guide for effective project management–even when you’re not the official project manager.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why most projects fail  2) Key questions to ask before starting any project   3) The five behaviors of successful unofficial project managers  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep946 http://awesomeatyourjob.com/ep946 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT KORY —  Kory Kogon is FranklinCovey’s vice president of Content and Senior Consultant. She is the Wall Street Journal bestselling co-author of and has appeared as an expert on TODAY, MSNBC’s Your Business, Forbes.com, Inc.com, and on FastCompany.com.   She is also one of the authors of the following FranklinCovey work sessions: The 5 Choices to Extraordinary Productivity®, Project Management Essentials for the Unofficial Project Manager™, and Presentation Advantage®. Kory brings more than 25 years of business expertise, from frontline positions to an executive team member.   • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Project-Management-Unofficial-Manager-FranklinCovey/dp/194163110X?tag=petemo-20  • Website: FranklinCovey.com https://www.franklincovey.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0307352145?tag=petemo-20 by Susan Cain See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

47m
Mar 21, 2024
945: How to Master Your Inner World and Flourish During Stress with Mawi Asgedom

Mawi Asgedom shares four tools anyone can use to master their emotions and thrive.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Easy ways to keep your cool when things go awry  2) The key investment that improves both happiness and success  3) The powerful reframe that makes you feel unstoppable  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep945 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep945 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MAWI —  Mawi Asgedom is an award-winning author and expert on Social Emotional Learning (SEL) who has inspired over 1000 audiences with his uplifting speeches.  Mawi founded Mawi Learning, an organization that unlocks human potential through evidence-based social emotional learning. Under Mawi’s leadership, Mawi Learning won the prestigious CODiE award for excellence and innovation in educational technology, and achieved CASEL-designation for evidence-based Social Emotional Learning.   In 2023, Mawi launched his newest venture to help youth unlock their potential: Inner Heroes Universe, a media company that helps parents, educators, and therapists equip kids with crucial mental health and social emotional skills.  • Mawi’s company: Inner Heroes Universe https://innerheroesuniverse.com/  • Book: "Of Beetles and Angels: A Boy's Remarkable Journey from a Refugee Camp to Harvard" https://www.amazon.com/Beetles-Angels-Mawi-Asgedom/dp/0970498268?tag=petemo-20  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: "Nobody Will Play With Me: How To Use Compassionate Curiosity to Find Confidence in Conflict" https://www.amazon.com/Nobody-Will-Play-Compassionate-Confidence/dp/0578414368?tag=petemo-20 by Kwame Christian  • Book: "Positive Intelligence: Why Only 20% of Teams and Individuals Achieve Their True Potential AND HOW YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOURS" https://www.amazon.com/Positive-Intelligence-Individuals-Achieve-Potential/dp/1608322785?tag=petemo-20 by Shirzad Chamine  • Book: "Mindset: The New Psychology of Success" https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/1400062756?tag=petemo-20 by Carol Dweck  • Book: "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change" https://www.amazon.com/Habits-Highly-Effective-People/dp/B009NO0BUS?tag=petemo-20 by Stephen Covey  • Book: "Dragon Reborn (The Wheel of Time, Book 3)" https://www.amazon.com/Dragon-Reborn-Wheel-Time-Book/dp/0312852487?tag=petemo-20 by Robert Jordan  • Past episode: 001: Communicating with Inspiration and Clarity with Mawi Asgedom https://awesomeatyourjob.com/001-communicating-with-inspiration-and-clarity-with-mawi-asgedom/  • Past episode: 798: How to Have Difficult Conversations about Race with Kwame Christian https://awesomeatyourjob.com/798-how-to-have-difficult-conversations-about-race-with-kwame-christian/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

48m
Mar 18, 2024
944: Becoming a Leader that People Want to Follow with Jon Rennie

Former submarine officer Jon Rennie outlines the leadership principles that make people want to follow you.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) How to deepen your connection with your team  2) Why to let your colleagues fail more  3) Your fastest path to standing out  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep944 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep944 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT JON —  Jon is the Co-Founder, President & CEO of Peak Demand Inc., a components manufacturer for electrical utilities. He is a former U.S. Navy Nuclear Submarine Officer who made seven deployments during the end of the Cold War.  Before starting Peak Demand, he led eight manufacturing businesses for three global companies. He is the author of three best-selling leadership books and hosts the Deep Leadership podcast.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/All-Same-Boat-Organization-Submariner/dp/B0942FWMKK?tag=petemo-20  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Watch-Becoming-Leader-Following/dp/1099487099?tag=petemo-20  • Website: JonSRennie.com https://jonsrennie.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Grit-Passion-Perseverance-Angela-Duckworth/dp/1501111108?tag=petemo-20 by Angela Duckworth • Book: https://www.amazon.com/First-Break-All-Rules-Differently/dp/1595621113?tag=petemo-20 by Jim Harter, Marcus Buckingham, Gallup Organization • Past episode: 149: Getting Consistently Good Behavior with S. Chris Edmonds https://awesomeatyourjob.com/149-getting-consistently-good-behavior-with-s-chris-edmonds/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

31m
Mar 14, 2024
943: Crushing the 9 Barriers to Taking Action with David Nurse

David Nurse reveals how to identify and overcome the roadblocks preventing you from taking action.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) How to bridge the gap between knowing and doing  2) The nine reasons why we don’t take action  3) The force that’s more powerful than motivation  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep943 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep943 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT DAVID —  A former professional basketball player, David Nurse is today a mindset coach who has trained over 175 NBA athletes including seven-time All Star Joe Johnson, “Linsanity’s” own Jeremy Lin, NBA champ Brook Lopez, Domas Sabonis, Norm Powell, Keegan Murray, and Top 10 player/All Star Shai Alexander. As a coach, David also took the Brooklyn Nets from 28th in three-point shooting percentage to 2nd overall in the NBA in just one season.   David is also the author of the best-selling books , , and the 2023 release, . He was named by Real Leaders as one of the Top 50 Motivational Speakers in the World, and his podcast, The David Nurse Show, is one of the fastest-growing podcasts on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. David resides in Marina del Rey, California, with his wife Taylor Kalupa.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Do-Life-Changing-Power-Taking-Action/dp/1119853702?tag=petemo-20  • Website: DavidNurse.com https://www.davidnurse.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown/dp/0804137382?tag=petemo-20 by Greg McKeown  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Energy-Bus-Rules-Fuel-Positive/dp/0470100281?tag=petemo-20 by Jon Gordon  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Ruthless-Elimination-Hurry-Emotionally-Spiritually/dp/0525653090?tag=petemo-20 by John Mark Comer and John Ortberg  • Shia LaBeouf’s Video: "Just Do It" Motivational Speech (Original Video by LaBeouf, Rönkkö & Turner) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2etVONM9Ooc  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

42m
Mar 11, 2024
942: How to Reach Better Team Decisions with Less Drama with Janice Fraser

Janice Fraser reveals her secrets to team decision-making with less drama.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) How to get to the root of any argument  2) How to know if your decision is good enough  3) Why a low consensus isn’t a bad thing  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep942 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep942 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT JANICE —  Janice Fraser has coached teams and delivered workshops to organizations around the world, including startups, governments, non-profits, mom-and-pop shops, venture firms, and top business schools. She built a storied career as a Silicon Valley startup founder, product manager, and confidante for entrepreneurs and enterprise executives alike. Her hobbies include healing generational trauma, challenging the patriarchy, and icing migraines. Janice and her co-author husband Jason split their time between San Francisco and Minneapolis, where they live with a derpy dog, a bitter cat, and a very tall college student. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Farther-Faster-Less-Drama-Extraordinary/dp/1637742894?tag=petemo-20  • Website: JaniceFraser.com https://janicefraser.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Past episode: 038: Establishing the Essential with Greg McKeown https://awesomeatyourjob.com/038-establishing-the-essential-with-greg-mckeown/ • YouTube channel: Brighter with Herbert https://www.youtube.com/@BrighterwithHerbert See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

42m
Mar 07, 2024
941: The Best Way to Hire Top Talent with Mike Michalowicz

Mike Michalowicz reveals a surprising strategy for finding and retaining top talent.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) The more effective alternative to job interviews  2) The key signs someone is perfect for your team  3) The three drivers of commitment and engagement  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep941 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep941 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MIKE —  Mike Michalowicz founded and sold two multi-million dollar businesses by his 35th birthday. He is the bestselling author of , , , and . He has built two additional multimillion-dollar companies and has become one of the world's most popular speakers on small business topics. Fabled author, Simon Sinek deemed Mike Michalowicz “...one of the top contenders for the patron saint of entrepreneurs.”  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/All-Great-Leaders-Build-Unstoppable/dp/0593544501?tag=petemo-20  • Website: MikeMotorbike.com https://mikemotorbike.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/10x-Easier-Than-World-Class-Entrepreneurs/dp/140196995X?tag=petemo-20 by Dan Sullivan and Dr. Benjamin Hardy  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/3-3-Rule-John-Briggs/dp/173317902X?tag=petemo-20 by John Briggs  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

35m
Mar 04, 2024
940: How to Find the Best Job for you that Actually Exists with Lauren McGoodwin

Lauren McGoodwin challenges the notion of the “dream job” and makes the case for pursuing the “good-enough” job.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why the dream job actually doesn’t exist  2) The true drivers of happiness at work  3) Why to become invaluable–not indispensable  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep940 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep940 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT LAUREN —  Lauren founded Career Contessa in 2013 after experiencing a gap in career development resources for women who might be job searching, soul searching, leading and managing, or trying to find new ways to advance within their careers. With women accounting for more than 50% of the workforce and the workforce being less defined than ever before, it seemed crazy (and outdated) that a resource for us didn't exist.  Fast-forward to today, Career Contessa is now the largest online career site built inclusively for women. Lauren is also author of(2020), co-host of The Career Contessa podcast, and an educator/speaker on a variety of career topics.  Formerly, Lauren was a University Recruiter for Hulu focused on hiring, employer branding, and program management. Lauren has a Bachelors in Education from the University of Oregon and a Masters in Communication Management from the University of Southern California where she wrote her thesis on millennials and career resources.  When not Contessa-ing, you can find Lauren spending time with her family in Redondo Beach, CA where she lives with her husband and daughter.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Moves-Reboot-Career-Purpose/dp/0062909193?tag=petemo-20  • LinkedIn: Lauren McGoodwin https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurenmcgoodwin  • Podcast: Career Contessa https://www.careercontessa.com/podcast/  • Website: LaurenMcGoodwin.com https://laurenmcgoodwin.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/0735211299?tag=petemo-20by James Clear  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown/dp/0804137382?tag=petemo-20 by Greg McKeown  — THANK YOU SPONSORS! —  • WILDHEALTH. Take control of your health and get 20% off at WILDHEALTH.COM/AWESOME http://wildhealth.com/AWESOME with code AWESOME. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

34m
Feb 29, 2024
939: How to Waste Less Time on Meetings…and Spend More Time on Strategy with Rich Horwath

Rich Horwath reveals how to cut through the busywork and make more time for strategy.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) What being “strategic” really means  2) The critical questions that determine what truly matters  3) Why most meetings are useless—and how to fix them  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep939 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep939 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT RICH —  Rich Horwath is a and bestselling author of eight books on strategic thinking and has been rated the #1 keynote speaker on strategy at national conferences, including the Society for Human Resource Management Strategy Conference.  He has appeared on ABC, NBC, CBS, and FOX TV to provide commentary on the strategic aspects of current events and his work has appeared in publications including Fast Company, Forbes, and the Harvard Business Review.  A former Chief Strategy Officer and professor of strategy, Rich has created more than 700 resources to help leaders at all levels maximize their strategic potential. He designed the Strategic Quotient (SQ) Assessment, a validated tool to measure how effectively a person thinks, plans, and acts strategically. Rich created the Strategic Fitness System as an online platform for leaders to practice the skills to effectively navigate all areas of their business, including strategy, leadership, organization, and communication. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Strategic-Direction-Advantage-Executive-Excellence/dp/1394215339?tag=petemo-20  • Website: StrategySkills.com https://www.strategyskills.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Software: Loom https://www.loom.com/  • Software: MindManager (formerly Mindjet) https://www.mindmanager.com/en/  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Art-Learning-Journey-Pursuit-Excellence/dp/0743277457?tag=petemo-20 by Josh Waitzkin  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

36m
Feb 26, 2024
938: William Ury on How to Thrive in Conflict

Renowned negotiation expert William Ury draws from his extensive experience of working in the world’s toughest conflicts to help transform conflict into opportunity.   — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why we need more conflict, not less  2) The true enemy to confront  3) How writing the other side’s victory speech can help you win  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep938 http://awesomeatyourjob.com/ep938 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT WILLIAM —  William Ury is one of the world’s best-known experts on negotiation, and co-author of , the world’s all-time bestselling book on negotiation with more than 15 million copies sold. A co-founder of Harvard’s Program on Negotiation, Ury has devoted his life to helping people, organizations, and nations transform conflicts around the world, having served as a negotiator in many of the toughest disputes of our times, taught negotiation to tens of thousands, and consulted for the White House, the State Department, the Pentagon, and dozens of Fortune 500 companies. He has served as a negotiation adviser and mediator in conflicts ranging from Kentucky wildcat coal mine strikes to family feuds, from US partisan battles to wars in the Middle East, Colombia, Korea, and Ukraine.  Ury is an internationally sought-after speaker and has two popular TEDx talks with millions of viewers. He lives in Colorado where he loves to hike in the mountains. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Possible-How-Survive-Thrive-Conflict/dp/0063286904?tag=petemo-20  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Positive-No-How-Still/dp/0553804987?tag=petemo-20  • Website: WilliamUry.com https://www.williamury.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Lao-Tzus-Tao-Te-Ching/dp/0764355589?tag=petemo-20translated by Chao-Hsiu Chen  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

44m
Feb 22, 2024
937: Speaking the Hidden Language of Connection with Charles Duhigg

Charles Duhigg shares the simple secret that helps you build powerful connections with anyone.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) What supercommunicators know that others don’t  2) How to ask questions that deepen and enrich relationships  3) How one sentence can dramatically ease workplace conflict  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep937 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep937 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT CHARLES —  Charles Duhigg is a Pulitzer Prize–winning investigative journalist and the author of and . A graduate of Harvard Business School and Yale College, he is a winner of the National Academies of Sciences, National Journalism, and George Polk awards. He writes for and other publications, was previously a senior editor at , and occasionally hosts the podcast • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Supercommunicators-Unlock-Secret-Language-Connection/dp/0593243919?tag=petemo-20  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Habit-What-Life-Business/dp/1400069289?tag=petemo-20  • Website: CharlesDuhigg.com https://charlesduhigg.com/  • Email: charles@duhigg.com  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Study: “The Experimental Genesis of Interpersonal Closeness: A Procedure and some Preliminary Findings” https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0146167297234003 by Arthur Aron, et al.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Visit-Goon-Squad-Jennifer-Egan/dp/0307592839?tag=petemo-20 by Jennifer Egan  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Varieties-Religious-Experience-Study-Nature/dp/164973106X?tag=petemo-20 by William James  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

47m
Feb 19, 2024
936: The 8 Super Powers that Unlock Gravitas with Lisa Sun

Lisa Sun shares her tools for building true, lasting confidence.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) What gravitas really means 2) The Six Forces ruining your confidence 3) How to discover your “confidence language” SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep936 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep936 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT LISA —  Lisa Sun is the founder and CEO of GRAVITAS, a company on a mission to catalyze confidence. GRAVITAS offers innovative size-inclusive apparel, styling solutions, and content designed to make over women from the inside out. Prior to founding GRAVITAS, Sun spent 11 years at McKinsey & Company, where she advised leading luxury fashion and beauty brands and retailers in the U.S., Asia, Europe, and Latin America on strategic and operational issues. Her first collection was featured in O, The Oprah Magazine, People, and the Today Show in the same month.  Sun and GRAVITAS have been featured on CNN and in Forbes, Fast Company, New York Magazine, Elle, Marie Claire, InStyle, and more. GRAVITAS includes among its activities a commitment to AAPI causes and New York City’s Garment District. Often called the “dress whisperer,” Lisa is also a highly sought-after public speaker who likes to impart her hard-won knowledge on gravitas and how to best harness it to other women.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Gravitas-Strengths-That-Redefine-Confidence/dp/1401972535?tag=petemo-20  • LinkedIn: Lisa Sun https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisa-sun-793777  • Quiz: MyConfidenceLanguage.com https://gravitasnewyork.com/pages/my-confidence-language-quiz  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0091947464?tag=petemo-20 by Dale Carnegie  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/1400062756?tag=petemo-20 by Carol Dweck  • HBR Article: Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome https://hbr.org/2021/02/stop-telling-women-they-have-imposter-syndrome by Ruchika Tulshyan and Jodi-Ann Burey  • Past episode: 327: Unclog Your Brain through Unfocusing with Dr. Srini Pillay https://awesomeatyourjob.com/327-unclog-your-brain-through-unfocusing-with-dr-srini-pillay/  • Past episode: 852: Dale Carnegie’s Timeless Wisdom on Building Mental Resilience and Strong Relationships with Joe Hart https://awesomeatyourjob.com/852-dale-carnegies-timeless-wisdom-on-building-mental-resilience-and-strong-relationships-with-joe-hart/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

38m
Feb 15, 2024
935: The Five Steps to Winning Every Week with Demir Bentley

Demir Bentley reveals the five simple steps to successfully plan and execute vastly more satisfying and productive weeks.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why nobody really plans their week—and how to fix it  2) The master key to getting ahead of your to-do list  3) How to transform your calendar into a power tool   SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep935 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep935 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT DEMIR —  Demir Bentley is an executive productivity coach, co-founder of Lifehack Method and WSJ Bestselling author of . He teaches hard-hitting efficiency techniques and proven accountability strategies that have helped clients generate millions in revenue while saving thousands of hours. In the past eight years, he’s helped more than 70,000 professionals, including executives from Facebook, Google, Uber and PepsiCo, to prevent burnout and create more freedom in their lives. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Winning-Week-Plan-Successful-Every/dp/1544530234?tag=petemo-20  • Website: WinningTheWeek.com https://lifehackmethod.com/winningtheweek/  • Website: LifeHackMethod.com https://lifehackmethod.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/ONE-Thing-Surprisingly-Extraordinary-Results/dp/1885167776?tag=petemo-20 by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan • Past episode: 080: Finding and Doing the One Thing with Jay Papasan https://awesomeatyourjob.com/080-finding-and-doing-the-one-thing-with-jay-papasan/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

39m
Feb 12, 2024
934: Building Confidence by Facing Fears with Michelle Poler

Michelle Poler shares her epic story and strategies for facing fears head-on.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) How to instantly flip your fear perspective  2) Why to dare being disliked  3) The distinction between being brave versus fearless  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep934 http://awesomeatyourjob.com/ep934 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MICHELLE —  As the Founder of Hello Fears, Michelle Poler has created a social movement empowering millions to step outside of their comfort zone and tap into their full potential. She has inspired some of the world’s most influential organizations including Google, Facebook, Microsoft and many more. Poler is also the creator of the project 100 Days Without Fear and her work has been featured on CBS, CNN and Buzzfeed, among many others. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Hello-Fears-Crush-Comfort-Become/dp/1492688894?tag=petemo-20  • Instagram: @hellofears https://www.instagram.com/hellofears/?hl=en  • Website: 100DaysWithoutFear.com https://100dayswithoutfear.com/   • Website: MichellePoler.com https://www.michellepoler.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Maybe-Story-About-Endless-Potential/dp/1946873756?tag=petemo-20 by Kobi Yamada  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/War-Art-Through-Creative-Battles/dp/9395741546?tag=petemo-20by Steven Pressfield  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

36m
Feb 08, 2024
933: How Building a Habit of Bravery Transforms Everything with Todd Henry

Todd Henry shares how to build the courage to chase after opportunities amidst uncertainty.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) How to muster courage in the moment  2) The biggest myth that holds us back  3) Five steps to feel braver every day  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep933 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep933 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT TODD —  Todd Henry teaches leaders and organizations how to establish practices that lead to everyday brilliance. He is the author of seven books: , which have been translated into more than a dozen languages, and he speaks and consults across dozens of industries on creativity, leadership, and passion for work. With more than fifteen million downloads, his podcast offers weekly tips for how to stay prolific, brilliant, and healthy. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Brave-Habit-Guide-Courageous-Leadership/dp/B0CLXRN9M5?tag=petemo-20  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Die-Empty-Unleash-Your-Every/dp/1591845890?tag=petemo-20  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Accidental-Creative-Brilliant-Moments-Notice/dp/1591844010?tag=petemo-20   • Podcast: The Daily Creative with Todd Henry https://www.toddhenry.com/podcasts/  • Website: ToddHenry.com https://www.toddhenry.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: "Benjamin Franklin: An American Life" https://www.amazon.com/Benjamin-Franklin-American-Walter-Isaacson/dp/0684807610?tag=petemo-20 by Walter Isaacson  • Book: "Harvard Classics Volume 1: The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin; The Journal of John Woolman; Some Fruits of Solitude" https://www.amazon.com/Harvard-Classics-Autobiography-Benjamin-Franklin/dp/1512374334?tag=petemo-20  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Dip-Little-Book-Teaches-Stick/dp/1591841666?tag=petemo-20 by Seth Godin  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Complete-Harvard-Classics-Eireann-Press-ebook/dp/B076PKKZ22?tag=petemo-20  • Past episode: 614: Making Smarter Decisions When You Can’t Know Everything with Annie Duke https://awesomeatyourjob.com/614-making-smarter-decisions-when-you-cant-know-everything-with-annie-duke/  • Past episode: 798: How to Have Difficult Conversations about Race with Kwame Christian https://awesomeatyourjob.com/798-how-to-have-difficult-conversations-about-race-with-kwame-christian/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

33m
Feb 05, 2024
2024 Survey Results

In this episode, Pete shares insights from the listener's survey and some of the changes happening to the podcast based on your feedback. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

9m
Feb 01, 2024
932: How to have breakthrough conversations with Dr. Marcia Reynolds

Master coach Dr. Marcia Reynolds reveals how to prompt more lightbulb moments through reflective inquiry.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why coaching is simpler than you think  2) How to shift into the ideal state of mind  3) Your most powerful coaching tool  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep932 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep932 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MARCIA —  Dr. Marcia Reynolds is passionate about researching, writing about, and teaching people around the world how to engage in powerful conversations that connect, influence, and activate change.  She was the 5th global president of the International Coaching Federation and is recognized by Global Gurus as one of the top five coaches in the world. She is also the creator of the renowned WBECS program, Breakthrough Coaching.  Interviews and excerpts from her books have appeared in many places including Fast Company, Forbes.com, CNN.com, Psychology Today, The Globe and Mail, and The Wall Street Journal and she has appeared in business magazines in Europe, Asia and on ABC World News.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Breakthrough-Coaching-Creating-Lightbulb-Conversations/dp/1523004827?tag=petemo-20  • Website: CoVisioning.com https://covisioning.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • App: Sanebox https://www.sanebox.com/  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Determined-Science-Life-without-Free/dp/0525560971?tag=petemo-20 by Robert Sapolsky  • Past episode: 014: Emotional Mastery with Dr. Marcia Reynolds https://awesomeatyourjob.com/014-emotional-mastery-with-dr-marcia-reynolds/  • Past episode: 575: How to Coach More Effectively using Reflective Inquiry with Dr. Marcia Reynolds https://awesomeatyourjob.com/575-how-to-coach-more-effectively-using-reflective-inquiry-with-marcia-reynolds/  — THANK YOU SPONSORS! —  • LINKEDIN JOBS. FIND QUALITY HIRES FAST WITH A FREE JOB POSTING AT LINKEDIN.COM/BEAWESOME http://linkedin.com/beawesome.  • BETTERHELP. Celebrate your progress, with BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/awesome http://betterhelp.com/awesome.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

30m
Jan 29, 2024
931: How to Overcome Obstacles and Kickstart Change with R. Michael Anderson

R. Michael Anderson shares how vulnerability can be your greatest strength as a leader.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why to be more open about your struggles  2) The drivers behind your worst decisions  3) The key relationship that everyone overlooks  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep931 http://awesomeatyourjob.com/ep931 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MICHAEL —  R. Michael Anderson, MBA, MA has a striking combination that creates truly impactful transformation in leaders – he has the real-life business success of founding, scaling and exiting three software companies, plus the educational background of a Masters Degree in Psychology.   This combination gives him the unique ability to connect to other leaders as a peer, then teaches evidence-based leadership skills that genuinely drive behaviour and performance.  With his background in psychology and neuroscience, he transforms managers into true leaders with high-performing teams in high-growth companies. He’s written two best-selling business leadership books, contributes to Entrepreneur.com, and is a former radio-show host.   • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Leadership-Mindset-2-0-Psychology-Neuroscience/dp/0990660567?tag=petemo-20  • Book site: LeadershipMindsetTheBook.com https://leadershipmindsetthebook.com/lookinside-v01-2c-a  • Website: RMichaelAnderson.com https://rmichaelanderson.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Family-Secrets-Path-Shame-Healing/dp/0553374982?tag=petemo-20 by John Bradshaw  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014265?tag=petemo-20 by Viktor Frankl  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/1400062756?tag=petemo-20 by Carol Dweck  • Past episode: 104: Overcoming Self-limiting Beliefs with R. Michael Anderson https://awesomeatyourjob.com/104-overcoming-self-limiting-beliefs-with-r-michael-anderson/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

38m
Jan 25, 2024
930: These Charting Mistakes Undermine Your Communication with Nick Desbarats

Nick Desbarats breaks down the surprisingly common mistakes we make when visualizing data–and shares basic principles for communicating data more effectively.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why most charts are confusing or ineffective  2) The top three mistakes people make with charts  3) Why a “neutral” chart is an ineffective chart  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep930 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep930 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT NICK —  As an independent educator and author, Nick Desbarats has taught data visualization and dashboard design to thousands of professionals in over a dozen countries at organizations like NASA, Visa, Bloomberg, Shopify, and the United Nations. He delivers main-stage talks at major data conferences and is a guest lecturer at Yale University, and his new book, , is an Amazon #1 Top New Release.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Practical-Charts-Essential-Compelling-Presentations/dp/1738888304?tag=petemo-20  • Website: PracticalReporting.com https://www.practicalreporting.com/  • Article: "My favorite chart type" https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/my-favorite-chart-type-nick-desbarats/  • Article: "Connected Scatterplots Make Me Feel Dumb" https://nightingaledvs.com/connected-scatterplots-make-me-feel-dumb/  • Article: "I’ve Stopped Using Box Plots. Should You?" https://nightingaledvs.com/ive-stopped-using-box-plots-should-you/  • Article: "Why I Stopped Using Bullet Graphs (and What I Now Use Instead)" https://nightingaledvs.com/why-i-stopped-using-bullet-graphs-and-what-i-now-use-instead/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Chart type: Marimekko https://datavizcatalogue.com/methods/marimekko_chart.html  • Chart type: Strip plot https://datavizproject.com/data-type/strip-plot/  • SlideShare: a16z - Adreessen Horowitz https://www.slideshare.net/acytryn/a16z-adreessen-horowitz  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Elements-Style-Fourth-William-Strunk/dp/020530902X?tag=petemo-20 by William Strunk, Jr., E.B. White, Test Editor, and Roger Angell  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Thinking-Fast-Slow-Daniel-Kahneman/dp/0374275637?tag=petemo-20 by Daniel Kahneman  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Measure-Anything-Intangibles-Business/dp/0470539399?tag=petemo-20 by Douglas Hubbard  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Comfort-Crisis-Embrace-Discomfort-Reclaim/dp/0593138767?tag=petemo-20 by Michael Easter  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

44m
Jan 22, 2024
929: Ending Overwhelm by Delegating Masterfully with Kelli Thompson

Kelli Thompson reveals how to beat the cycle of overwhelm through smarter delegation.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why you seem less capable when you don’t delegate  2) The four mindsets that hinder effective delegation  3) How to ensure others don’t screw up delegated tasks  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep929 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep929 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT KELLI —  Kelli Thompson is a women’s leadership coach and speaker who helps women advance to the rooms where decisions are made. She has coached and trained thousands of women to trust themselves, lead with more confidence, and create a career they love. She is the founder of the Clarity & Confidence Women's Leadership Program, and a Stevie Award winner for Women in Business—Coach of the Year. She is the author of the critically acclaimed book, . • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Closing-Confidence-Gap-Potential-Paycheck/dp/1637554206?tag=petemo-20  • Website: KelliRaeThompson.com https://www.kelliraethompson.com/  • LinkedIn: Kelli Thompson https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelliraethompson/  • Instagram: @kelliraethompson https://www.instagram.com/kelliraethompson/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Study: Women in the Workplace 2023 https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/diversity-and-inclusion/women-in-the-workplace  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Lean-Startup-Entrepreneurs-Continuous-Innovation/dp/0307887898?tag=petemo-20 by Eric Ries  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Chemistry-Novel-Bonnie-Garmus/dp/038554734X?tag=petemo-20 by Bonnie Garmus  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Split-Difference-Negotiating-Depended/dp/0062407805?tag=petemo-20 by Chriss Voss and Tahl Raz  • Past episode: 311: Communication Secrets from FBI Kidnapping Negotiator Chris Voss https://awesomeatyourjob.com/311-communication-secrets-from-fbi-kidnapping-negotiator-chris-voss/  • Past episode: 528: Building High-Performing Teams through Psychological Safety with Aaron Levy https://awesomeatyourjob.com/528-building-high-performing-teams-through-psychological-safety-with-aaron-levy/  • Past episode: 805: How to Boost Your Confidence and Advocate for Yourself with Kelli Thompson https://awesomeatyourjob.com/805-how-to-boost-your-confidence-and-advocate-for-yourself-with-kelli-thompson/  — THANK YOU SPONSORS! —  • WILDHEALTH. Take control of your health and get 20% off at WILDHEALTH.COM/AWESOME http://wildhealth.com/AWESOME with code AWESOME. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

38m
Jan 18, 2024
928: The Introvert’s Powerful Approach to Networking with Matthew Pollard

Matthew Pollard shares networking wisdom that anyone, particularly introverts, can use for great benefit.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) The best way to answer “What do you do?”  2) The two relationships that will transform your network  3) The simple trick to get people interested in your expertise  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep928 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep928 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MATTHEW —  Matthew Pollard, known as "The Rapid Growth Guy," works with businesses around the world, from startups to Fortune 500 companies like Microsoft and Capital One. Responsible for launching five zero-to-million-dollar businesses, he also founded Austin's Small Business Festival, which is now a nationwide event. A native of Australia, he splits his time between North Carolina and Texas. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Introverts-Edge-Networking-Leverage-Connections/dp/1400216680?tag=petemo-20  • Podcast: Better Business Coach https://matthewpollard.com/better-business-coach  • Podcast: The Introvert’s Edge https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjShM05q-DdAnq61tUXyHIA_yYHZkUOqt  • The Rapid Growth Formula Template: MatthewPollard.com/growth https://matthewpollard.com/three-steps-rapid-growth/  • Website: MatthewPollard.com https://matthewpollard.com/  • Website: TheIntrovertsEdgeToNetworking.com https://matthewpollard.com/theintrovertsedge/networking  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Rich-Dad-Poor-Teach-Middle/dp/1612680194?tag=petemo-20 by Robert Kiyosaki See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

34m
Jan 15, 2024
927: Fixing One-on-One Meetings Improves (almost) Everything with Dr. Steven Rogelberg

Dr. Steven Rogelberg explains why one-on-one meetings are so critical—and shares best practices for both managers and employees.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why having more one-on-ones actually saves time  2) How to create a meeting agenda that works  3) The right way to ask your manager for help  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep927 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep927 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT STEVEN —  Dr. Steven G. Rogelberg, an organizational psychologist, holds the title of Chancellor’s Professor at UNC Charlotte for distinguished national, international and interdisciplinary contributions. He is an award-winning teacher and recipient of the very prestigious Humboldt Award for his research on meetings. Adam Grant has called Steven the “world’s leading expert on how to fix meetings”. Dr. Rogelberg’s previous book, (Oxford) has been on over 25 “best of” lists including being recognized by the Washington Post as the #1 leadership book to watch for. He was the inaugural winner of the Society for Industrial and Organizational Psychology (SIOP) Humanitarian Award and just finished his term as President of SIOP, the largest professional organization in the world for I-O psychology. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Glad-We-Met-Science-Meetings/dp/0197641873?tag=petemo-20  • Website: StevenRogelberg.com https://www.stevenrogelberg.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Postmortal-Drew-Magary/dp/0143119826?tag=petemo-20 by Drew Magary See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

29m
Jan 11, 2024
926: The Five Codes that Make and Break Trust with Jeremie Kubiceck

Jeremie Kubicek shares how to end misunderstandings with the five codes of communication.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) The root of every misunderstanding   2) The simple trick to consistently meet people’s expectations  3) How to repair damaged relationships   SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep926 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep926 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT JEREMIE —  Jeremie Kubicek is a powerful communicator, serial entrepreneur and content builder. He creates content used by some of the largest companies around the globe found in the books he has authored: ; ; the National Bestseller, ; and . His new book, , co-authored with his business partner, was released last November. Jeremie is the Co-Founder of GiANT, a company that certifies coaches and consultants that serve companies and their employees. Jeremie has started over 25 companies while living in Oklahoma City, Moscow, Atlanta and London. • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Communication-Code-Strategies-Stronger-Relationships/dp/1394150539?tag=petemo-20  • Company: GIANT Worldwide https://www.giantworldwide.com/about  • Website: JeremieKubicek.com https://www.jeremiekubicek.com/  • Housing: The Prairie at Post https://theprairieatpost.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Second-Mountain-David-Brooks/dp/0812993268?tag=petemo-20 by David Brooks  • Past episode: 424: How to Help People Get to the Next Level with Jeremie Kubicek https://awesomeatyourjob.com/424-how-to-help-people-get-to-the-next-level-with-jeremie-kubicek/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

32m
Jan 08, 2024
925: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Feeling Guilty with Dr. Aziz Gazipura

Dr. Aziz Gazipura explains the dangers of people-pleasing tendencies and shares actionable steps for overcoming it.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) The massive costs of being a people-pleaser  2) How to not feel guilty when saying no  3) A surprising strategy to build your discomfort tolerance  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep925 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep925 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT AZIZ —  Dr. Aziz is a clinical psychologist and one of the world's leading experts on social confidence. In 2011, Dr. Aziz started The Center For Social Confidence, which is dedicated to helping everyone break through their shyness and social anxiety.  Through confidence coaching, audio and video programs, podcasts, a detailed blog, and intensive weekend workshops, Dr. Aziz has helped thousands of people all over the world increase their confidence and lives out his mission: To help every person who is stuck in shyness liberate themselves to pursue the relationship, career, and life they have always dreamed of. He lives in Portland, Oregon with his wife Candace and son Zaim.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Not-Nice-Pleasing-Speaking-Unapologetically/dp/098897987X?tag=petemo-20 (site https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/notnicebook)  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Less-Nice-More-You-Authentic-ebook/dp/B0CQMF4ZZW?tag=petemo-20  • Mini course: “5 Steps to Unleash Your Inner Confidence” https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/minicourse  • Organization: Social Confidence Center https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/  • Website: DrAziz.com https://www.socialconfidencecenter.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Study: Effect of Pain Reprocessing Therapy vs Placebo and Usual Care for Patients With Chronic Back Pain - A Randomized Clinical Trial https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/fullarticle/2784694  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Free-Focus-Productivity-System-Achieve/dp/0801075262?tag=petemo-20 by Michael Hyatt  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Way-Out-Revolutionary-Scientifically-Approach/dp/059308683X?tag=petemo-20 by Alan Gordon, Alon Ziv  • Previous episode: 830: Lessons Learned from the World’s Longest Scientific Study on Happiness with Dr. Robert Waldinger https://awesomeatyourjob.com/830-lessons-learned-from-the-worlds-longest-scientific-study-on-happiness-with-robert-waldinger/  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

42m
Jan 04, 2024
924: Enhancing Your Most Valuable Career Asset: Coachability with Jacquelyn Lane

Jacquelyn Lane shows why being coachable is the key to career progression–and how to improve your coachability.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) The 4 key elements of coachability.  2) How to reframe how you view feedback.  3) What to do when you’re running low on motivation.  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep924 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep924 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT JACQUELYN —  Jacquelyn Lane is the president of the 100 Coaches Agency, codesigner of their proprietary curation process and relationship-first philosophy, and the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of Becoming Coachable. She has been with 100 Coaches Agency since its founding and is a critical pillar of the 100 Coaches Community. Jacquelyn comes to the world of executive coaching through her previous roles in the energy industry and lifelong commitment to improving the lives of all people by elevating the quality of leadership.   • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Coachable-Unleashing-Executive-Leadership/dp/163755768X?tag=petemo-20  • Book site: BecomingCoachable.com https://becomingcoachable.com/  • LinkedIn: Jacquelyn Lane https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacquelyn-lane  • Website: Agency.100Coaches.com https://agency.100coaches.com/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Publication: More in Common https://www.moreincommon.com/our-work/publications/  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Know-Person-Seeing-Others/dp/059323006X?tag=petemo-20 by David Brooks  • Past episode: 766: Marshall Goldsmith on Simple Shifts for a More Fulfilling Career and Life https://awesomeatyourjob.com/766-marshall-goldsmith-on-simple-shifts-for-a-more-fulfilling-career-and-life/  — THANK YOU SPONSORS! —  • ContinuingStudies.Stanford.edu https://continuingstudies.stanford.edu/stanford-business-courses?utm_source=utm_source%3Dnewsletter&utm_medium=utm_medium%3Dtext&utm_campaign=utm_campaign%3Dawesomepodcastwinter24. Enhance your professional skills in the new year and get 15% off with promo code AWESOME.  • UpliftDesk.com http://upliftdesk.com. Build your dream workstation and get 5% off with promo code AWESOME  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

41m
Dec 21, 2023
923: How to Upgrade Your Influence and Persuasion with Michael McQueen

Michael McQueen reveals the keys to persuading even the most stubborn minds.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) Why data and evidence don’t change minds.  2) How to sell change to anyone.  3) A surprising way to make people more agreeable.  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep923 http://AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep923 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT MICHAEL —  Michael McQueen has spent the past two decades helping organizations and leaders win the battle for relevance. From Fortune 500 brands to government agencies and not-for-profits, Michael specializes in helping clients navigate uncertainty and stay one step ahead of change.  He is a bestselling author of ten books and is a familiar face on the international conference circuit, having shared the stage with the likes of Bill Gates, Dr. John C. Maxwell, and Apple co-founder Steve Wozniak. Michael has spoken to hundreds of thousands of people across five continents since 2004 and is known for his high-impact, research-rich, and entertaining conference presentations. Having formerly been named Australia’s Keynote Speaker of the Year, Michael has been inducted into the Professional Speakers Hall of Fame.  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Mindstuck-Mastering-Art-Changing-Minds/dp/1637557396?tag=petemo-20  • Book website: Mindstuck.net https://www.mindstuck.michaelmcqueen.net/  • Website: MichaelMcQueen.net https://michaelmcqueen.net/  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Being-Certain-Believing-Right-Youre/dp/https:/www.amazon.com/Being-Certain-Believing-Right-Youre/dp/0312359209?tag=petemo-20 by Robert Burton  • Past episode: 124: The Science Behind Trust and High-Performance with Paul Zak https://awesomeatyourjob.com/124-the-science-behind-trust-and-high-performance-with-paul-zak/  • Past episode: 746: How to Foster Deep Connection and Influence with Zoe Chance https://awesomeatyourjob.com/746-how-to-foster-deep-connection-and-influence-with-zoe-chance/  • Past episode: 780: How Minds Change and How to Change Minds with David McRaney https://awesomeatyourjob.com/780-how-minds-change-and-how-to-change-minds-with-david-mcraney/  • Past episode: 862: How to Create and Choose Better Solutions with Sheena Iyengar https://awesomeatyourjob.com/862-how-to-create-and-choose-better-solutions-with-sheena-iyengar/  — THANK YOU SPONSORS! —  • STORYWORTH. Give a personal gift from the heart this holiday season at StoryWorth.com/awesome http://storyworth.com/awesome  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

47m
Dec 18, 2023
REBROADCAST: 357: The Six Morning Habits of High Performers with Hal Elrod

author Hal Elrod condensed the six habits of the most successful people in history into the SAVERS acronym and describes how they changed his life—and how they can change yours, too. YOU’LL LEARN: __ __ ABOUT HAL He is one of the highest rated keynote speakers in America, creator of one of the fastest growing and most engaged online communities in existence and author of one of the highest rated, best-selling books in the world,  http://miraclemorningbook.com/—which has been translated into 27 languages, has over 2,000 five-star Amazon reviews and is practiced daily by over 500,000 people in 70+ countries. ITEMS MENTIONED IN THIS SHOW: __ __ THANK YOU, SPONSORS! __ __ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

50m
Dec 14, 2023
922: How to Reinvent Yourself and Your Career with Herminia Ibarra

Herminia Ibarra shares counter-intuitive perspectives on how to make successful career transitions.  — YOU’LL LEARN —  1) How to craft and execute your “identity experiments.” 2) How to figure out your next best option in two questions.  3) How to reach out and build your network .  SUBSCRIBE OR VISIT AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep922 http://awesomeatyourjob.com/ep922 for clickable versions of the links below.  — ABOUT HERMINIA —  Herminia Ibarra is the Charles Handy Professor of Organisational Behaviour at London Business School. Prior to joining LBS, she served on the INSEAD and Harvard Business School faculties. An authority on leadership and career development, Thinkers 50 ranks Herminia among the top management thinkers in the world. She is a member of the World Economic Forum’s Expert Network, a judge for the Financial Times Business Book of the Year Award, a Fellow of the British Academy, and the 2018 recipient of the Academy of Management’s Scholar-Practitioner Award for her research’s contribution to management practice. Herminia is the author of two bestselling books, and A native of Cuba, Herminia received her MA and PhD from Yale University, where she was a National Science Fellow.   • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Working-Identity-Unconventional-Strategies-Reinventing/dp/1578517788?tag=petemo-20  • LinkedIn: Herminia Ibarra https://www.linkedin.com/in/herminia-ibarra-4455411a/  • Website: HerminiaIbarra.com https://herminiaibarra.com/  • X: : @HerminiaIbarra https://twitter.com/herminiaibarra  — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —  • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Transitions-Making-Changes-Revised-Anniversary/dp/073820904X?tag=petemo-20 by William Bridges  — THANK YOU SPONSORS! —  • UpliftDesk.com http://upliftdesk.com/. Build your dream workstation and get 5% off with promo code AWESOME See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

35m
Dec 11, 2023