What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? Can people divorce? What are the conditions for people to remarry? Why did Jesus repeatedly associate divorce and remarriage with adultery? How can we harmonize Matthew 5:31-32 with Mark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18? Read this post or listen to the accompanying sermon for answers.




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What does the Bible say about divorce and remarriage? How can we harmonize Matthew 5:31-32 with Mark 10:11-12 and Luke 16:18? Watch this sermon for answers.



Table of contentsA Few Qualifications Before Discussing Divorce and RemarriageBelievers Should Remain Married to UnbelieversWhat “Made Holy” Does and Does Not MeanWhat “Not Bound” Does and Does Not MeanRemarriage Is Permissible If a Spouse DiesThe Importance of VowsRemarriage with a Living Spouse Is AdulteryMatthew's Gospel and Jewish BetrothalsFour Reasons Jesus Only Permitted Divorce During BetrothalsTwo Passages Encourage Remaining with Your Current Spouse Even If You Have Another Living SpouseTwo Marriage EncouragementsEncouragement One: Church involvement is a major factor lowering divorce ratesEncouragement Two: Let Christ’s faithfulness to you fuel your faithfulness to your spouse

















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By my calculations I have preached about 550 sermons at Woodland Christian Church. I can honestly say that the sermon on divorce and remarriage was the first I ever dreaded preaching. I knew that it was coming, and I vainly hoped that there would be some way to avoid it, but I don’t want to shrink back from faithfully teaching the whole counsel of God’s Word.



A Few Qualifications Before Discussing Divorce and Remarriage




First, I think it is very important that you understand what my heart is and is not on this topic. We have people in my church who are divorced and remarried and married to divorced people. My heart is not to condemn them. Instead, my desire to is to condemn divorce.The statistics I found state that the divorce rate among evangelical Christians is 26%, compared to 33% for the rest of the population. I want to see these numbers go down. I want to discourage divorce among those who are married and I want to discourage divorce among those who will be married in the future. If you are single, you should pay special attention, because if more people got married knowing what God’s Word says about divorce and remarriage, I think we would see less divorces.Just this past week I received two messages from people I don’t know who wanted to divorce their spouse. One email was from a woman who claimed to be abused by her husband, and another email was from a man who claimed to be abused by his wife. I also received two comments on my blog this week. One from a man who wanted to divorce his wife and another from a woman who wanted to divorce her husband. I would like to think that if these people knew what God’s Word says about divorce and remarriage, they would not be thinking about divorcing their spouse.



Second, please know that I personally do not think I am any better than anyone who is divorced or has married a divorced person. If I married one of the girls I dated, or I became a Christian after I was married, I’m sure I easily could have been divorced.



Third, if you wonder how people who are divorced or married to divorced people are feeling, I can tell you that many of the people I have spoken with who have been divorced will be the first to tell you that they wish the church preached on divorce more often and more boldly.



Fourth, I’m sharing a view that I did not hold at the beginning of my Christian life. The church I was saved in and then the church I started ministry in, held a different view. I came to this view, which is the view of Woodland Christian Church,