Pure Sex Radio

Jonathan Daugherty

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Pure Sex Radio tackles the tough subjects of porn and sexual brokenness and offers practical principles for living every day with sexual integrity. PSR seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. If you have questions or comments regarding the show, or if you have a suggestion for a topic on an upcoming broadcast, please email us at psr@bebroken.org. Or follow us @PureSexRadio.

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456 episodes

100 Recovery Rules (with Mark Denison)

Addiction recovery is hard work. It is the process of learning to live in a whole new way apart from old, harmful, compulsive patterns. Such transformation doesn’t happen quickly or without help.  Our guest today is Mark Denison. He has been on the program several times before and is the co-founder, with his wife Beth, of There’s Still Hope. He joins us to talk about his newest book, https://amzn.to/3vvKiWf. Men often need pithy, wise tips to help them on the long road of recovery.  In our conversation, we highlight several of the truisms, such as:  __ __ If you are looking for some super practical help for your recovery journey, this episode will be very impactful.  To learn more about Mark and his ministry’s resources, visit TheresStillHope.org http://TheresStillHope.org. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

35m
Mar 27, 2024
8 Practical Steps of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a topic that gets brought up over and over again in the space of healing from betrayal. But before you tune out let me encourage you to stick around for my super practical conversation with Karla Downing on this topic. Karla is the founder of Change My Relationship and has been on the podcast multiple times to help us think through important relational issues like boundaries and grief. Her many years of experience helping couples in very difficult situations comes out in this interview on forgiveness. In the episode, Karla gives a robust definition of forgiveness and then walks us through eight practical steps http://bebroken.org/forgiveness-process that are essential to the process of forgiveness. To learn more about Karla and her ministry, visit ChangeMyRelationship.com http://ChangeMyRelationship.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

49m
Mar 20, 2024
Why Building Confidence is Important to Recovery

Why is confidence important to recovery from addictive patterns? And how is confidence different from arrogance or pride?  To help us address this topic, we have Dr. Eddie Capparucci back on the program with us. Eddie is certified as a licensed professional counselor and certified in treating sexual and pornography addiction. He has been on the program multiple times to share his expertise and wisdom in the field of addiction recovery.  In our conversation, we discuss what confidence is, the causes and effects of a lack of confidence, what healthy confidence is rooted in, and how to grow in confidence. If you are a man who wants to grow and mature in your recovery, take notes and apply what Eddie shares in this episode.  To learn more about Eddie and his resources, visit InnerChild-SexAddiction.com http://InnerChild-SexAddiction.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

33m
Mar 13, 2024
"Am I Gay?" (with Garry Ingraham)

There are many men and women in the Church who struggle with all forms of sexual brokenness, including same-sex sexual desires. How can Christians love and care for those who want freedom from such besetting sins? In today’s episode, our guest is Garry Ingraham. Garry is the co-founder of Love and Truth Network, a ministry that equips church leaders in restoring biblical sexuality, community, and identity through personalized leadership training, teaching resources, and experiential growth opportunities for personal transformation and supporting others.  Garry shares his own story of same-sex brokenness and how God drew him out of the dark and into the light. He also shares how God called him into ministry, especially to pastors and helping them with their personal sexual struggles and how to address sexual sin and hope in the local church.  Finally, Garry has a new book entitled which highlights his story and how to navigate sexual confusion with the truth of Christ and the community of fellow Christians.  To learn more about Garry, his ministry, and the book, visit LoveandTruthNetwork.com http://LoveandTruthNetwork.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

37m
Mar 06, 2024
Living Undefiled (with Nick Stumbo)

Why is pornography such a big deal? This is a common question in the culture, but not necessarily one of alarm, but rather questioning why ministries like ours and many others even exist. Is there any real harm to pornography? To help us answer these questions we have Nick Stumbo back on the program. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and an author and speaker on sexual issues from a Christian worldview.  In our conversation, Nick shares many of the negative effects of porn: biological, mental, emotional, and relational. We look at the many unhealthy patterns porn promotes, the natural trajectory of tolerance (both individually and culturally), the linkage between human trafficking and porn, and then how to live free from the negative effects of porn.  Finally, Nick shares a new video series resource called Living Undefiled that takes an in-depth look at the topics surrounding pornography and human trafficking.  To learn more about Nick and Pure Desire, visit PureDesire.org http://PureDesire.org.  To get access to the Living Undefiled course, visit LivingUndefiled.com http://LivingUndefiled.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

37m
Feb 28, 2024
How Can I Lead Others When I Can't Lead Myself?

REGISTER FOR XPOSED CONFERENCE! WHEN: THIS Saturday, February 24th (join in person or online) Xposed is an annual event to help pastors, ministry leaders, counselors, and individuals navigate sensitive sexual issues and equip them to care for their communities regarding God’s design for sex. Register Online https://www.xposedevent.com/ (use coupon code XP24-BBM for discount) ----------- Many men struggle deeply with their godly responsibilities of leadership, especially in the home, because they aren’t even managing themselves very well.  In this episode, Stephen brings a letter from a leader that is meant to be representative of most men who struggle with this internal conflict of leadership calling and poor self-management. This letter addresses issues like:  __ __ For any man who can relate to what is shared in this letter, there is hope for transformation. You can become the man and leader God designed you to be.  For helpful resources to enhance your godly manhood and marriage skills, visit DoctorMarriage.org http://DoctorMarriage.org. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

29m
Feb 21, 2024
Wisdom from a Sage in Recovery Ministry

Sometimes we don’t have a “topic” for the podcast, but instead simply have a conversation with someone with loads of experience and wisdom in sexual struggles and recovery. This is what today’s episode is all about. Our guest is author and speaker, Nate Larkin. He founded the Samson Society, a fellowship of Christian men who are serious about authenticity, community, humility, and recovery.  In our conversation, Nate shares his own story of addiction and recovery. Then we dive into lots of questions that draw on his decades of personal and ministerial wisdom that will prove helpful to any man listening who wants to break free from unwanted sexual behaviors.  To learn more about Nate and his ministry, visit SamsonSociety.com http://SamsonSociety.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

35m
Feb 14, 2024
Living More Than a Love Story

How important is trust to emotional health and building strong, mature relationships? It is vital! Yet, many men we have served in our ministry struggle terribly with trust.  In today’s episode, Stephen and I are going to dig into this important topic of trust through the lens of one man’s story that begins with him not being able to trust his parents with his thoughts and feelings and ends with him finally living a “love plus trust” story.  We will share the distinction between love and trust and how love plus trust takes us even deeper than love alone. We need to learn how to understand trust in its multilayered dimensions if we want to enjoy strong, healthy relationships. For resources from Stephen to help you grow and mature emotionally, visit DoctorMarriage.org http://DoctorMarriage.org. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

31m
Feb 07, 2024
Understanding Human Agency

Albert Bandura was a psychologist who is credited with developing the term “human agency,” which refers to how you act, think, and interact with life. In this episode, Stephen and I will unpack the four functions of agency and how they might help us develop better self-awareness and deeper faith and relationships.  The 4 functions of agency are:  __ __ Agency asks, “Are you paying attention to your own intentions and are you getting better at self-regulating and self-reflecting?’ We hope this conversation will help you understand yourself and others better – and use your agency for good, godly purposes. To learn more about Albert Bandura and his research, visit AlbertBandura.com http://AlbertBandura.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

29m
Jan 31, 2024
Forgiving Forward (with Bruce and Toni Hebel)

Every Christian knows that forgiveness is central to salvation and restoration to God. But what does forgiveness look like between us and those who have hurt us? Our guests today are Bruce and Toni Hebel, founders of Forgiving Forward, a ministry that helps people experience the freedom of the gospel through the power of forgiveness. They share their own journey of learning the hard way how vital forgiveness is to personal character and health, as well as effective ministry to others.  In our conversation, Bruce and Toni define forgiveness, explain why Christ is the only one who can pay the full debt of sin and wounds, expose the roots of unforgiveness, the common obstacles to forgiveness, and ultimately how to forgive in real-life situations of betrayal and pain through 5 key protocols: __ __ To learn more about Bruce and Toni’s ministry and to get their book, visit ForgivingForward.com http://ForgivingForward.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

43m
Jan 24, 2024
New Research on Why Women View Porn

Did you know that 58% of women who struggle with porn were exposed to porn before age 12? Or that 93% of women who struggle with porn never attend a support group? And that 48% of women viewing porn were a victim of sexual abuse? Our guest today is Crystal Renaud Day, a coach, author, and speaker – and the founder and executive director of SheRecovery.com. She has been a leading voice for women in this space of sexual integrity ministry since 2009.  Recently, Crystal and her ministry conducted research to answer the question “What Drives Women to Porn?” There were over 1300 anonymous female participants, ages 18 to 65+ from 58 countries, who had used or been addicted to pornography in the past or present.  This episode discusses the findings of this research and why this is important to women struggling and those who love them.  To see the research and results, visit SheRecovery.com http://SheRecovery.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

33m
Jan 17, 2024
4 Thoughts that Make Our Own Minds Feel Unsafe

Lots of men over the years have shared the sentiment of the following statement: “I’m good as long as I can stay out of my own head.” As we have unpacked this idea with the men who have shared this, there have been four key thoughts that typically keep guys from feeling safe within their own minds. In today’s episode, Stephen and I are going to share these four thoughts. They are:  __ __ When you can understand how these thoughts operate and how to combat them, you can reclaim that territory in your mind for hope, peace, and joy. For helpful "daily thoughts" on emotional health and growth, visit DoctorMarriage.org https://doctormarriage.org/thoughts/. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

29m
Jan 10, 2024
Best of 2023: Back to the Basics of Sexual Integrity

ORIGINALLY AIRED ON MARCH 7, 2023 View this episode on Youtube https://youtu.be/45oFOu5UfpU?si=erD_FlH4d19_ybf9 ---------- Today’s episode is getting back to the basics of living a life of sexual integrity. Stephen Cervantes and I have been working with men desiring greater integrity for over 20 years, and we know that a life of integrity is not static. You must be on a daily growth mission to mature.  In our conversation, we share some of our personal growth tips and many other insights we have seen that help men get on a growth mission and discover their God-sized purpose in life. A great next step in your pursuit of greater integrity is our Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive workshop. This Friday-Sunday event will help you get down to the roots of your unwanted sexual behaviors and provide practical, powerful direction for living each day with integrity and purpose.  Learn more about Gateway to Freedom and how to register at Bebroken.org/gtf http://bebroken.org/gtf. More Resources: __ __ Related Podcasts: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

31m
Jan 03, 2024
Best of 2023: Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal

ORIGINALLY AIRED ON FEBRUARY 28, 2023 View this episode on Youtube https://youtu.be/HF8lRWXbgdI?si=53tYzVnX2rhp8D7R ---------- HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES! We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries. To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate http://bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201. ---------- Sexual betrayal in marriage is more common than most of us would like to admit. But this terrible fracture is not incurable for couples who choose to go on a journey of healing and restoration. Our guest today is Dr. Michael Sytsma, a licensed professional counselor, ordained minister, professor, and founder of Building Intimate Marriages.  In our conversation, Michael answers questions about the “why” of affairs, the impact of past trauma, the myth of affairs only occurring in “bad” marriages, how to know if restoration is possible, what is required for restoration, and more.  To learn more about Michael and Building Intimate Marriages, visit IntimateMarriage.org http://intimatemarriage.org/. More Resources: __ __ Related Podcasts: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

37m
Dec 27, 2023
A 3-Year Roadmap of Recovery and Emotional Growth

HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES! We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries. To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate http://bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201. ---------- Just about every man who has ever entered recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors has wanted a “quick fix” to his addiction. But there are no quick fixes. In fact, true recovery is a years-long process that ultimately leads to deeper emotional growth over a lifetime. In today’s episode, Stephen and I share a 3-year roadmap of recovery and emotional growth that every man who enters recovery needs to understand and embrace if he wants lasting freedom and lifelong joy. The road of recovery may be long, but it is worth walking it.  To get Stephen’s emotional growth resources for men, visit DoctorMarriage.org http://DoctorMarriage.org. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

32m
Dec 20, 2023
Understanding Freedom, Identity, and Creativity in Addiction Recovery

HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES! We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries. To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate http://bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201. ---------- Recovery from any addiction is difficult and there are many stages and layers to the process. It is easy to become overwhelmed and wonder if there is any hope and what the ultimate goal is in recovery. My guest today is Zach Ellis. He is the Director of New Programs at The Nathan Project, a ministry whose mission is to engage, equip, and encourage Christian families struggling with pornography, sexual brokenness, and addiction. Zach shares how he got into this space of ministry and some key elements of recovery that are vital for true transformation: freedom, identity, and creativity. He talks of freedom as both a “breaking” and a “building” and how this two-sided aspect of freedom leads to deeper meaning and purpose. He shares of the importance of identity and the value of listening. And, finally, Zach shares some insights around the need for exploring and expressing creativity as part of recovery. To learn more about The Nathan Project, visit NathanProject.net http://NathanProject.net. To learn more about Zach and his photography, visit ZachEllisPhotography.com http://ZachEllisPhotography.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

39m
Dec 13, 2023
A Youth Pastor's Conversation on Identity

HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES! We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries. To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate http://bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201. ---------- Parenting can feel overwhelming in the best of circumstances. But in today’s world which is awash in all forms of sexual brokenness, it can seem impossible, especially when it comes to the issue of identity.  In today’s episode, our guest is Jordan Young. He is a student ministry pastor at Table Community Church in Hillsboro, Oregon near Portland. He has decades of experience in working with students and the various challenges they face in the culture.  Our conversation focuses on identity and the confusion many students are experiencing and how the gospel of Jesus addresses this with grace and truth. Jordan and their students read through our Identity book over 6 weeks and it made a huge impact on helping the students better understand what identity means and how we all live from a sense of identity, whether true or false – and why identity in Christ is the only source of eternal hope and peace. You can get your copy of the Identity book by John Fort at Amazon https://amzn.to/41aoCKB* or our ministry resource page at Bebroken.org/store http://Bebroken.org/store. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

31m
Dec 06, 2023
The Journey to Stay (with Steve & Lisa Goldberg)

HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES! We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries. To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate http://bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201. ---------- Infidelity is devastating. For couples who have experienced this deep betrayal of trust, it can be hard to imagine that restoration is possible – and even more difficult to think that they could rebuild their marriage into something better than they ever had before. But this is the story of Steve and Lisa Goldberg’s marriage and ministry. Steve and Lisa are the founders of Side by Side, a ministry to help couples navigate the “unexpected crash” of betrayal and how to restore and rebuild their marriage.  In today’s episode, Steve and Lisa share their own story of brokenness and healing and the key elements of restoration in their new book entitled The Journey to Stay. They offer a practical message of hope to couples facing the overwhelming difficulty of unfaithfulness.  To learn more about Steve and Lisa and their ministry, visit StaySidebySide.org http://StaySidebySide.org. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

36m
Nov 29, 2023
Going Deeper for Women: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction

HELP REACH THE YEAR-END GOAL TO IMPACT MORE LIVES! We have a goal of $103,000 to reach even more individuals and families in 2024 through this podcast and all our other ministries. To partner with us, give at Bebroken.org/donate http://Bebroken.org/donate or call 210-822-8201. ---------- Everyone listening to this podcast right now was once a child. Childhood is unavoidable on the journey to adulthood. But none of us got through our childhoods unscathed. And some of the residue of that continues to affect us now as adults. Today we have back with us Dr. Eddie Capparucci to talk about his inner child therapy model and a new resource he has co-authored for women who struggle with love and sex addiction. Eddie’s model is based on the premise that we all have core emotional triggers that impact our inner child based on past wounds, and in order for us to heal and mature we must address these triggers by understanding our inner child and not simply ignoring our past. In our conversation, Eddie defines the inner child model and highlights the 10 specific “inner children” for women to understand in order to heal and recover from love and sex addiction.  To learn more about Eddie and the inner child model, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com http://AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ *These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

38m
Nov 22, 2023
Better Screen Time for You and Your Family

Screens are everywhere and, while they are not bad or wrong as a tool, the way we engage them and what we allow on them can be negative. So, how can we build better screen time for ourselves and our families?  Our guest today is Andrea Davis, the founder and CEO of Better Screen Time, which provides strategies and resources for families to think through how to engage technology and screens for better health and balance in life and relationships.  Andrea shares her own story as a parent of 5 kids and some of the challenges and victories they have experienced in working out these strategies in their family. She also shares why cell phone contracts rarely work and better strategies for creating a family tech plan to learn personal responsibility with technology.  To learn more about Andrea and the resources she provides, visit BetterScreenTime.com http://BetterScreenTime.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

34m
Nov 15, 2023
Helping Men Navigate Between Logic and Emotion

Men, I’m really excited to bring you today’s program because Stephen and I are going to provide you with some VERY practical help for understanding how to navigate between logic and emotions – and why engaging emotions is essential for maturity.  Generally, the majority of men we work with in our ministry are very comfortable when communicating logic and solving problems, but very uncomfortable and unfamiliar with communicating emotion. This often results in them becoming stunted or stuck in their relational skills, especially in marriage.  Today, Stephen and I will share with you a story of one man’s journey to get unstuck when it comes to sharing his emotions and the 2-channel system he developed to help with that process. We are hopeful that this conversation will enlighten you and give you the confidence to work on becoming more skilled in emotional sharing and listening. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

31m
Nov 08, 2023
Self-Care and Rest for Wives Healing from Betrayal Trauma

For over 10 years we have helped wives heal from sexual betrayal trauma. One aspect of this healing process that simply should not be overlooked is the need for self-care and simply rest.  Today’s guest is Christy Jones Jackson. She is the founder and director of The Guest House Project, a non-profit ministry that helps women find hope after betrayal. Christy shares some of her own story and how vital it was that in the middle of her failing marriage due to betrayal a friend took her away for a weekend to pray with her, make her eat, give her gifts, read her Scripture, made her laugh, and reminded her who she was. It was a pivotal moment in her journey to healing and planted the seeds for what would eventually become The Guest House Project. To learn more about Christy and The Guest House Project, visit TheGuestHouseProject.com http://TheGuestHouseProject.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

32m
Nov 01, 2023
Brothers Helping Brothers to Finish Well

Proverbs 27:17 says “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” This idea of helping each other get sharper is so common in our work with men, especially in our Gateway to Freedom 3-day workshops. Guys form a bond that is deep and meaningful. In this episode, Stephen and I talk about what can men hope to be saying 6-12 months after they have begun their honest journey toward greater integrity. These insights are coming directly from other men who have traveled this journey and what they discovered on the way. The hope is that these men can help other men to press on and finish well. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

30m
Oct 25, 2023
How to Be at Peace in Aloneness

What is the difference between alone and lonely? Is there a healthy aspect to being alone and understanding who you are by yourself? In today’s episode, Stephen and I dialogue about the topic of aloneness and why we need to be okay with ourselves – by ourselves. We also talk about the difference between aloneness as a healthy thing and isolation as an unhealthy thing.  We explore some questions that help us better understand how to embrace aloneness, such as:  __ __ It’s okay to be by yourself. We hope this episode helps you navigate this topic with confidence and hope. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

31m
Oct 18, 2023
Addressing Childhood Trauma in Men

Childhood sexual abuse is not something that only happens to girls. Boys are victims, too. Most of these boys grow up to be men who find it terribly difficult to talk about these experiences.  In today’s episode, our guest is Dr. James Reeves, founding pastor of City on a Hill Church in Fort Worth, Texas, and the creator of the Fearless Series for women and men. Dr. Reeves shares how he got involved in helping abuse victims and why the church needs to be a safe place for such victims to heal and belong. The Fearless Series for Men addresses childhood sexual, physical, and emotional abuse men have experienced and the hope possible for not just surviving trauma but finding true healing and fulfillment through the gospel of Jesus Christ. To learn more about Dr. Reeves and the Fearless series, visit FearlessResources.org http://FearlessResources.org. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

32m
Oct 11, 2023
Church Ambassador Network (with Daniel Degner)

Today’s episode may be the most unique program we’ve ever done on our podcast. We are diving into the space of politics and government, and how Christians can engage their local and state elected officials in gospel-centered ways. Our guest is Daniel Degner. He is the director of the Church Ambassador Network for the Wisconsin Family Council. He is going to help us understand the fallacy of “separation of Church and State” and how we can do amazing ministry at the intersection of our Christian faith and government. This conversation is critical as we look forward to elections in 2024, not to promote a specific political party, but instead to educate and inspire you on how to build relationships with elected officials for the sake of the gospel and the good of your community. It makes a difference that your local government officials know who you are and what you believe about God’s design for sex and life. If you would like more info about Daniel and how to get involved in the Church Ambassador Network, visit WIFamilyCouncil.org https://wifamilycouncil.org/church-ambassador-network-2/ . Or reach out to Daniel directly at ddegner@wifamilycouncil.org or (920) 204-4447 (he welcomes texts!). MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

29m
Oct 04, 2023
Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships

When many parents look across the cultural landscape they can become fearful, especially seeing the trajectory of sexual brokenness and confusion. But is there hope in this midst of the fear?  Our guest today, Barb Winters, believes there is. She is the founder of Hopeful Mom and author of the book .  In our conversation, she highlights key principles and practices from her book that will help parents (and any caregivers of young people) know how to talk about sexual topics and struggles with clarity, confidence, and hope.  Our ministry’s director of training, John Fort, even provided an endorsement of this book, saying, “ is a calming voice to parents in the midst of the chaos of trying to talk with older kids about sex… I appreciate how Barb goes beyond just ‘what to say to kids’ but includes work that we need to do as parents throughout this process. Sexpectations is an emotional rock for parents to stand on as they navigate these waters.” For more information about Barb, her ministry, and the book, visit HopefulMom.net http://HopefulMom.net. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

30m
Sep 27, 2023
The Gentle Path Project (with Austin Couture)

One of our core values in ministry is story. It is often the primary bridge that connects people adrift in brokenness and addiction to the community of recovery and transformation.  In this episode, our guest is Austin Couture, the founder of The Gentle Path Project, which is a place where people can share their stories and be encouraged in their journey to a better life. Austin shares his own story of recovery and growth -- and the challenges he faced and insights he has gained in hopes that it will encourage others to start, or continue, their own pursuit of freedom and joy. To learn more about Austin and his ministry, visit GentlePathProject.com http://GentlePathProject.com. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

35m
Sep 22, 2023
Emotional Safety in Marriage

When a husband betrays his wife’s trust through sexual acting out, this can cause feelings of deep insecurity to arise in a wife – even to the point of feeling unsafe.  In today’s episode, we will discuss the topic of emotional safety in marriage and why this is often befuddling to many husbands (and men in general) and offer a few ideas on how to create safer emotional spaces for the healing and restoration of marriages broken by sexual betrayal. (As a side note, this topic is helpful for marriage!) This conversation was sparked by a conference Stephen went to by Focus on the Family. They built this topic around the book by authors Paul, Burbee, and Arnzen, entitled (link below). MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

33m
Sep 20, 2023
Grace-Based Transformation (Book Review)

I’m so excited about today’s program. I have written a new book that was released this month. It is entitled https://amzn.to/3Ri1QgQ.  In this episode, I share what Grace-Based Transformation is and why I wrote this book after 20 years of full-time ministry. It’s really the book I’ve always wanted to write.  We will explore what I call the Transformation Pathway and highlight the three key stages on it: Heal -> Grow -> Share. These form the primary indicators of a Christian’s progress.  So, if you would like greater freedom, deeper joy, and a more effective impact in your life, I invite you to listen in.  To get the book, simply go to Amazon.com https://amzn.to/3Ri1QgQ or any other online book distributor. MORE RESOURCES: __ __ RELATED PODCASTS: __ __ ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-sex-radio/id174194853 Subscribe to our YouTube http://youtube.puresexradio.com/ channel. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

22m
Sep 13, 2023