Oversharing

Betches Media

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Oversharing from Betches Media is all about the challenges we face in all kinds of relationships; from friendships to family, long term partnerships or even dealing with the customer service rep that makes you want to scream into a pillow. Betches co-founder and relationship enthusiast Jordana Abraham has teamed up with her big sister, licensed clinical therapist Dr. Naomi Bernstein, to answer your questions and try to get to the bottom of the things that bother us most. Think of Jordana and Dr. Naomi as your BFF and your therapist, sitting side-by-side at the brunch table trying to help you get through your problems. Each week they’re responding to listener emails, tackling difficult ethical questions, playing games, and so much more. Because sometimes we really need advice from people with no skin in the game. And let’s face it, your friends can’t stand to hear that story one more time.

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135 episodes

Is My Work Friend A Real Friend?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi discuss why youth is wasted on the young and an unfortunate situation of growing up a little too fast. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who may be mistaking a work friend for a real friend. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a long-time listener trapped in the middle of family wedding drama. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for dealing with anxiety around natural disasters. And we’re feeling triggered by portable speakers and break-up notes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 7m
Jun 04
Baby Steps: A Sister's Gift Of Surrogacy Ft. Emily Simpson

In this seventh episode of Baby Steps Season 2, Jordana is joined by Real Housewives of Orange County's Emily Simpson as she opens up about her fertility journey, including the decision to have her sister serve as her surrogate. Emily shares the emotional highs and lows of multiple miscarriages, the legal complexities of surrogacy, and the profound bond she shares with her sister. From the joy of welcoming her daughter, Annabelle, to navigating the process of finding a second surrogate, Emily delves into every facet of their fertility journey and offers insights into finding support, coping with financial burdens, and maintaining mental well-being amidst fertility treatments. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

51m
May 31
I’m Jealous Of My Husband’s Work Wife

Today on Oversharing, Dr.Naomi has a bone to pick with Jared after a recent podcast episode. Our Overshare comes from a new mom working on boundaries. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a Betch who does not want to share her birthday with a baby. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a listener who is struggling with her husband’s new work wife. And we’re feeling triggered by break outs and highschool exes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

54m
May 28
Baby Steps: Navigating The Emotional And Financial Toll Of Recurrent Pregnancy Loss Ft. Lori Vogt Rosone

In this sixth episode of Baby Steps Season 2, Lori Vogt Rosone - a midwife and author of the New York Times article, "Please Stay, Baby. Please?" - bravely recounts her personal odyssey through infertility and recurrent pregnancy loss. With candor and vulnerability, Lori sheds light on the emotional toll of fertility struggles, navigating the labyrinth of medical procedures, and the uncertainty of miscarriages. Balancing her role as a midwife with her own fertility journey, Lori offers a unique perspective on the intersection of professional expertise and personal turmoil. Touching on topics such as adenomyosis, egg retrieval, and the financial strain of fertility treatments, Lori advocates for accessible healthcare coverage and compassionate care for all. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of finding moments of gratitude and resilience amidst the challenges of infertility, offering solace and solidarity to those on similar paths. https://www.nytimes.com/2024/03/15/style/modern-love-miscarriage-please-stay-baby-please.html Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 3m
May 24
Am I Annoying For Always Playing Devil’s Advocate?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi catch up on Mother’s Day, and why it’s more common these days for families to become estranged. Our Overshare comes from a Betch whose husband wishes she wouldn’t always play devil’s advocate. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a bridesmaid in a destination wedding who wonders if it would be ok to elope with her boyfriend on the trip. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for comparing yourself to more successful peers, brought to us by the newest season of Bridgerton. And we’re feeling triggered by relatives who need to be the center of attention, and mothers-of-the-bride with unreasonable demands on the bridal party. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 21m
May 21
Finding Courage Through Grief Ft. Sarah Herron

In this fifth episode of Baby Steps Season 2, host Jordana Abraham sits down with the Bachelor's Sarah Herron for an intimate conversation on her journey through IVF and the heartbreaking experience of pregnancy loss. Sarah shares her story, recounting the profound loss of her son at 23 weeks and the subsequent waves of grief that engulfed her. With raw honesty, she reflects on the emotional and physical toll of pregnancy loss, highlighting the importance of seeking support and finding solace in community. From grappling with the complexities of mosaic embryos to the unexpected joy of discovering she was pregnant with twins, her story serves as a beacon of strength and encouragement, reminding us all to remain open-minded and courageous in the face of infertility. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 0m
May 17
Help! I Got Tricked Into Third Wheeling An Engagement Trip

Today on Oversharing Jordana fills us in on her latest move. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who’s been tricked into planning an engagement. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener grappling with guardianship. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for runner’s anxiety that’s brought to us by the newest season of Bridgerton. And we’re feeling triggered by overstepping therapists and getting locked out of barre. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 9m
May 14
Getting the First Hand Experience From a Mom and Her Surrogate

In this fourth episode of Baby Steps Season 2, presented by First Response, Jordana speaks with Jesse and Amber as they open up about their shared, heartfelt journey through surrogacy. Jesse recounts her challenging fertility path, while Amber shares her profound decision to become a surrogate. Together, they explore the highs, lows, and unexpected bonds formed during the surrogacy process. From initial connections on social media to the emotional delivery of Jesse's daughter, their story reflects resilience, friendship, and the power of support. Tune in for an inspiring tale of surrogacy and friendship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

57m
May 10
Should I Tell My Therapist I Have A Crush On Him?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana are still listening to The Tortured Poets Department, and have some new thoughts on it. Out Overshare comes from a Betch who unexpectedly finds herself having a crush on her male therapist. Our Betchicist goes out to a listener who wonders if she’s wrong for wanting her more financially stable boyfriend to cover the bill? Our Intention segment this week is sponsored by Bridgerton on Netflix, and Dr. Naomi writes an intention for finding self-confidence at a high pressure job when English is your second language. And we’re feeling triggered by mother-in-laws with questionable Facebook habits and disrespectful situationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

59m
May 07
Baby Steps: Emily Oster's Roadmap for Pregnancy Uncertainties

In this third episode of Baby Steps Season 2, presented by First Response, Jordana speaks with economist and author of "The Unexpected," Emily Oster, to explore pregnancy complications and the importance of informed decision-making in navigating them. Oster addresses topics like recurrent miscarriage, racial disparities in maternal mortality rates, and the emotional toll of fertility challenges. She emphasizes the need for personalized healthcare interactions and supportive providers, while advocating for increased research into the experiences of pregnancy and mental health during fertility struggles. Overall, Oster aims to empower individuals facing these challenges and provide solidarity in navigating them. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

55m
May 03
Must I Accept Your Venmo Request?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana get real about The Tortured Poet’s Department. Our Overshare comes from a Betch experiencing post-cheating paranoia. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a friend who is not your fall-back babysitter. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for managing anxiety around flying with your fur babies. And we’re feeling triggered by Venmo requests and blocking the sunshine. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 8m
Apr 30
Baby Steps: Finding Happiness When Your Infertility Journey Sucks Ft. Tara Lipinski

During hard times, sometimes laughter and understanding is the best kind of healing. In this second episode of Baby Steps Season 2, presented by First Response, Jordana is joined by Tara Lipinski, Olympic gold medalist and host of the podcast Unexpecting, to discuss Tara's fertility journey and her emotional rollercoaster of going through multiple miscarriages, surgeries, and IVF treatments. Together, they explore the mental and emotional toll of infertility and the importance of creating a community that understands you. Then, Tara offers words of encouragement to those experiencing infertility, emphasizing it's possible to find light at the end of the tunnel and that sometimes ... its ok to just need a joke, not pity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 4m
Apr 26
Do I Need To Take His Last Name?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi discusses how evolution has shaped our belief systems. Our Overshare comes from a listener trying to cope with parents in an unhappy marriage. Today’s Betchicist deals with the drama of ditching your last name. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a new mom feeling overwhelmed by health hazards. And we’re feeling triggered by inappropriate questions and the pet-obsessed. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 18m
Apr 23
Baby Steps: How Do I Know When It’s Time To Seek Fertility Help? Ft. Dr. Bana Kashani

Welcome back to Baby Steps! In this first episode of Baby Steps Season 2, presented by First Response, Jordana is joined by fertility and IVF Specialist Dr. Bana Kashani to talk about all the different forms fertility journeys can take. They start things off with what people can expect when they seek the type of professional fertility care that Dr. Kashani offers and the various steps of testing and resources available. They also discuss how to even go about finding the right fertility doctor, and how to avoid some pitfalls along the way. Then they get into how social media can often wrap people’s perceptions of what the ‘right’ things to do can be during your journey, and some pointers to help find the balance between living a bubble and healthy in your life. After that, they address various forms of fertility treatments and some resources for financial assistance to offset the high costs these are associated with. To round us out, Dr. Kashani offers some positive reinforcement to anyone struggling with fertility and gives some encouragement to help you on your way. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

57m
Apr 19
My Parents Are Trying To Control My Wedding Day

Today on Oversharing Dr. Naomi and Jordana chat about earthquakes, eclipses, and how to cope with the end of the world. Our Overshare comes from a concerned bride who’s parents are being less than inclusive. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a Betch who is NOT responsible for your DUI. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for coping with a tough diagnosis. And we’re feeling triggered by noisy neighbors and unexpected houseguests. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 14m
Apr 16
How Can I Get My Partner To Be More Responsible?

Today on Oversharing Dr. Naomi and Jordana discuss college dating rituals. Our Overshare is a voicemail from a listener who fears her partner may not have enough follow-through to be the one. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a Betch whose fiancé isn’t participating in family activities. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a dog mom with a short fuse. And we’re feeling triggered by family vacations and tummy tucks. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 7m
Apr 09
How To Let Go Of Your Timeline

Today on Oversharing Jordana updates Dr. Naomi on her group trip, and the two discuss the best way to get your crew together for a holiday. Our Overshare comes from a new mom coping with her traumatic birthing experience. Today’s Betchicist comes from a Betch dealing with a smelly houseguest. In a special segment sponsored by Lee, Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a listener who feels a bit behind in life. And we’re feeling triggered by talking about the weather and stolen parking spots. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 13m
Apr 02
My Husband Is Too Attached To His Mother

Today on Oversharing Jordana shares an update on her expanding wardrobe. Our Overshare comes from a listener who is struggling with the transition from long-distance to roommates. Our Betchicist goes out to a Betch with Mommy (In Law) Issues. Dr. Naomi writes an intention to a future mother having anxiety throughout the egg-freezing process. And we’re feeling triggered by birthday brides and faux-needy bridesmaids. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

57m
Mar 26
My Friends’ Drinking Makes Me Uncomfortable

Today on Oversharing Dr. Naomi shares her own triggered scenario. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who is having a hard time with her friends’ drinking habits. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who is always a bride, never a bridesmaid. Dr. Naomi writes an intention to combat imposter syndrome. And we’re feeling triggered by unwelcome house guests and hijacked bridal showers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 12m
Mar 19
How Can I Stop The Toxic Cycle With My Ex?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana give their takeaways from Jared’s apartment tour video. Our Overshare comes from a Betch without a friend group. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who needs help breaking some unfortunate news to her in-laws. Dr. Naomi writes an intention to block your toxic ex once and for all. And we’re feeling triggered by blunt baby shower hosts and a lingering ex’s family. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 10m
Mar 12
Should I Tell my Friend We Hate Her Boyfriend?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana chat stress dreams and sleep talking. Our Overshare comes from a listener who’s partner is still mentally single. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a Betch who’s not a fan of her BFF’s BF. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a law school grad who wants to shake her scarcity mindset. And we’re feeling triggered by baby shower gifts and Betches blowback. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 3m
Mar 05
Should I Tell My Friend Her Gifts Are Awful?

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi drill down on Jared Freid’s bachelor pad and what it says about single guys. Our Overshare email comes from a concerned mother whose ex is creating tension in her new relationship. Today’s Betchicist goes out to an ungrateful giftee. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a Betch struggling with her boyfriend’s busy season. And we’re feeling triggered by forced babysitting and placeholder rings. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 7m
Feb 27
I’m Tired Of Hating My Ex

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana talk about the psychology of celebrity obsessions and why people are so obsessed with their sports heroes. Our Overshare of the week features a voicemail from a Betch who is tired of trash-talking their ex. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener who is struggling to find the right therapist. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for an anxious new homeowner. And we’re feeling triggered by baby-less baby showers and ghosts of college memories passed. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 10m
Feb 20
How To Get Your Partner To Take Action Without Nagging

Today on Oversharing, Jordana and Naomi conduct a dream analysis for a listener who is ready to find true love. Our Overshare comes from a Betch trying to manage her partner’s ADHD. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener on the brink of retirement. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a bride-to-be who still wants her wild night out. And we’re feeling triggered by condescending sisters-in-law and being outed by gluten. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 5m
Feb 13
How To Get Your Partner To Connect On A Deeper Level

Today on Oversharing Dr. Naomi shares her experience with the mind/body connection during her ski trip with Jordana. Our Overshare question comes from a Betch trying to get her husband to open up and start having difficult conversations. How do you get your partner to slow down and connect on a deeper level? Today’s Betchicist goes out to a mom wondering when the right time is to discuss plastic surgery with her children. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a scorned fiancé impatiently awaiting couples therapy. And we’re feeling triggered by baby pictures and exes on the phone plan. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

56m
Feb 06
How Much Should I Spend To Get To A Friend’s Wedding Events?

Today on Oversharing Dr. Naomi shares a deep, existential epiphany. Our Overshare email comes from a bridesmaid Betch who wants to skip a friend’s destination wedding after learning she’s not even invited to the ceremony. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a listener feeling major tension with her controlling sister-in-law. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a regretful bride who can’t let go of her imperfect wedding pictures. And we’re feeling triggered by plastic surgery and surprise party guests. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 3m
Jan 30
Do Long Distance Relationships Really Work?

To start this week’s Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana conduct a dream analysis for a listener who seems ready to cut the brakes. Our Overshare comes from a Betch in recovery from her judgy family. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a concerned daughter in debt. Should she be offended that her parents didn’t pay off her student loans the way they did for her siblings? Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a long distance will they-won’t they relationship. And we’re feeling triggered by fake purses and potentially haunted houses. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 3m
Jan 23
Should I Be Offended When My Boyfriend Compliments Other Women?

Today on Oversharing, Dr. Naomi and Jordana conduct their first write-in dream analysis. Our Overshare email comes from a listener whose boyfriend has been a bit too complimentary of other Betches. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a step mother struggling to maintain holiday spirit in a cross-faith family. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a new mom trying to move past her journey with cancer. And we’re feeling triggered by looking a gift horse in the mouth and dentists insulting our appearance. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 10m
Jan 16
My Mother-In-Law Won’t Respect My Boundaries

Today on Oversharing, Jordana vents to Dr. Naomi about something her therapist did in her last session. Our Overshare email comes from a Betch dealing with the relationship between her brother and her bestie. Today’s Betchicist goes out to a new mom who wants her gifting boundaries respected. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a listener to help her stay on track with her healthcare journey and not let up when she hits her goals. And we’re feeling triggered by stolen last names and even more boundary-pushing therapists. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 19m
Jan 09
Should I Convert to Appease My Fiance's Family?

Today, on Oversharing, Jordana and Dr. Naomi do a deep dive into New Year's Resolutions. Our Overshare comes from a Betch who gets sloppy when single. Today’s Betchicist goes out to soon-to-be married listener who is feeling pressure to convert. Dr. Naomi writes an intention for a new homeowner who hears too many bumps in the night. And we’re feeling triggered by forgotten birthdays and boyfriends with notes on the decor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 10m
Jan 02