

This week we’re getting a little more structured- with her 35th birthday around the corner, Alessandra gets real about the stuff she she’d have figured out by now: finances and money anxiety, routines and time management, friendship breakups in your 30s and more! Before diving into Spill the Tea, she introduces a new weekly segment Things I’m Currently Vibin' With where she'll share what she's been loving this week. Then she tackles two wildly relatable write-ins: one from a burnt-out work-from-home “couch goblin” who can’t find the energy for life after 5PM, and another from someone who feels trapped in a “broke but aesthetic” lifestyle fueled by credit cards and pressure to look like they’re thriving. Expect tough love, empathy, and practical “start small” steps because if nobody has it all figured out, we might as well figure it out together. To write in your Spill The Tea submissions email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Snowed in, emotionally thawing, and having one of those weeks. In this episode, I’m coming to you from a literal winter tundra with 28 inches of snow, cabin fever, too much time to think, and a heart that feels a little heavier than usual. We chat about what it means to exist in the world right now as a sensitive, empathetic human and why pretending everything’s fine just isn’t my vibe, plus how I’m learning to hold space for both joy and grief at the same time. Then we get into some very real moments: balancing different versions of yourself, friendships that feel weirdly competitive, money honesty in relationships, and outgrowing party culture in your 30s without losing your people. To write in your own Spill The Tea submissions email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg Don't forget to rate and review the show! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


January is flying by, the weather is absolutely unhinged, and we’re vibin’… mostly. In this episode of , Alessandra settles in for a cozy (and candid) episode, sharing what’s been weighing on her mind, what she’s been consuming lately, and why this season feels both exhausting and oddly fast. From navigating stir-crazy winter energy and complicated media consumption to unpacking big thoughts around reading culture, growth, and critical thinking, this episode blends reflection with real-life perspective. Alessandra also dives into submissions, offering honest advice on dating in your 30s, evolving friendships, outgrowing your hometown, setting boundaries with family, money dynamics in relationships, and how to actually rest when your brain won’t shut off. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, restless, or just in need of a comforting conversation that feels like a voice note from a friend, this one’s for you. To write in your own Spill The Tea submissions email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com and follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week on VIBIN’ & KINDA THRIVIN’, Alessandra catches you up on a chaotic start to the week (including a work trip, car drama, and losing her voice) and shares a quick check-in for anyone feeling overwhelmed by the heaviness in the world right now. She sprinkles in a few cozy winter favorites, current reads, and what’s been helping her reset without over-consuming. Then we jump into SPILL THE TEA with listener write-ins covering boundaries, burnout, friendships shifting during healing, relationship honesty, comparison, and how to protect your peace without abandoning yourself. If you’ve been tired, overstimulated, or trying to find your footing again, this one’s for you. To write in your spill the tea submissions email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com and follow her at vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


After a long, messy, human year, Vibin’ & Kinda Thrivin’ is officially back and this comeback episode is equal parts reset, reality check, and big-sister pep talk. Alessandra opens up about why she went quiet in 2025 (burnout, anxiety, overwhelm, and the exhaustion of living through nonstop “once-in-a-lifetime” chaos). She talks about stepping away to protect her mental health, finding her “why” again, and what she’s bringing into 2026. Then we jump into your Spill the Teas about a caregiver torn between loyalty, grief, and financial security during hospice care, a listener whose toxic ex moved two doors down and more. If you’ve been feeling burned out, overstimulated, stuck in people-pleasing, or ready to rebuild your life with more peace and self-respect, this episode is for you. Submit your advice questions, tea, or dilemmas to VIBINANDKINDATHRIVIN@GMAIL.COM Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Alessandra is checking in after a particularly mentally draining week and after a long weekend of doom scrolling. Alessandra pulls questions from her IG that range from funny to deep. How can you pull yourself out of a funk, what tasks give her the most anxiety and what does Alessandra wish she knew earlier in life? Find out this week! We want your input so message Alessandra on IG @vibinwithabg and make sure to visit us @vibinandkindathrivin! Thank you to our sponsors! NPR: Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR. SHOPIFY: Sign up for your one dollar a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin EARNIN' Just download the EarnIn app and add your info. Then start accessing your pay as you work and leave an optional tip to help keep the app running for everyone. Any money you access, plus tips, are automatically repaid from your next paycheck. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


To write in your spill the tea email vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! NPR: Check out the lifekit podcast by NPR Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Plus-size supermodel and body-positivity advocate Tess Holliday joins Alessandra to talk representation in fashion, practicing body neutrality, eating-disorder recovery, mental health, motherhood, dating while plus-size (and queer), and building real community in an algorithm-obsessed world. We get into setting boundaries online, handling trolls with compassion (and clapbacks), finding confidence through action, protecting your inner child, and why third spaces matter. Tess also shares the heart behind her new teen/ tween book, Take Up Space, Y'all: Your Bold & Bright Guide to Self-Love, packed with expert insights, prompts, and practical tools for navigating social media, friendships, and body image. If you've ever felt "too much" or "not enough," this one's your soft place to land. Buy Take Up Space Y'all Follow Tess on instagram and tik tok To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week on Vibin' & Kinda Thrivin', Alessandra is back with an episode full of pop culture chaos, personal faves, and some seriously raw listener advice. She dives into the latest Love Island USA drama (Taylor is the op, okay?!), breaks down her go-to summer scent layering routine, and shares her current reading slump struggles;Kindle girls, you'll relate. Then it's time to Spill the Tea: from forgiving your former messy self to navigating friendships with subtle competition and deciding whether that "changed" ex deserves a second chance. It's candid, comforting, and exactly what you need to hear this week. To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


It's officially May, and Alessandra is back with a full catch-up and an inbox bursting with your Spill the Tea submissions! From a bachelorette party epiphany to a fertility-shaming sister-in-law, we're getting into ALL of it. Alessandra shares how she's fully embraced ChatGPT (yes, she's now besties with her Al assistant) "Sol" plus the pill organizer that changed her supplement game. She also dives into listener dilemmas about birthday disappointments, long-term relationships with no ring in sight, absent baby daddies, and the kind of friendship copycat behavior that'll make you do a double take. Whether you're navigating motherhood, marriage, or millennial burnout, this episode brings unfiltered advice, tough love, and the permission to put yourself first. Write in to: vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com Follow Alessandra: @vibinwithabg Thank you for supporting the show by checking out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


In this episode Alessandra is spilling YOUR tea for therapy. Today's tea ranges from workplace romances, cheating boyfriends, secret families and more! Within these stories there are moments that emphasize the importance of communication, self-care, and setting boundaries in both personal and professional relationships. To send in your own submissions for advice on anything from friendship, relationship, work and more, email Alessandra at vibinkindathrivin@gmail.com Make sure to check us out @vibinandkindathrivin! Thank you to our sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for a $1 per-month trial period at Shopify.com/vibin http://Shopify.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


On today's solo episode, Alessandra answers some questions from IG about confidence, dating and the Tik Tok ban! Later in the episode Billi finally joins the show! Alessandra and Billi talk about when they first met, he answers some listener questions and they both talk about what they look forward to in parenthood. We want your input so message Alessandra on IG @vibinwithabg and make sure to visit us @vibinandkindathrivin! Thank you to our sponsors! Earnin: Download Earnin in the Google play or Apple app store. Type in VIBIN under PODCAST. See EarnIn.com/TOS for details See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week Alessandra is excited to reconstruct the show with you all looking for your input on guests you'd like to see and topics you would like to hear about. Then we hear Alessandra's version of the Coffee With My Younger Self trend, inspiring her to lay to rest a version of who she is. Spill the tea is coming in hot with questions about the roommate stage and telling your friend their new partne flirted with them! We want your input so message Alessandra on IG@vibinwithabg and make sure to visit us@vibinandkindathrivin! Thank you to our sponors! Shopify: Sign up for a $1 per-month trial period at Shopify.com/vibin http://Shopify.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


On this episode of Vibin' & Kinda Thrivin', I'm joined by YouTuber and host of Toni Bryanne TV Podcast and The Decision Podcast; Toni Bryanne, for a no-filter deep dive into the chaos of modern life. We're talking everything from the rise (and fall) of ethical journalism in the age of Al to why Gen Alpha can't read, and how misinformation is warping our collective empathy. We get into the Sydney Sweeney bathwater situation, the oversexualization of women in media, and whether it's possible to reclaim power through sex work or if the marketing is just getting lazy. Plus, we're going in on modern dating, emotional unavailability, choosing peace over partnerships, and why women in their 30s are living their best, most intentional lives. And of course, we wrap with a Spill the Tea that had both of us yelling "drop him off at his mom's!" If you've ever felt like you're changing faster than the world can keep up, this one's for you. Subscribe to Toni's Channel Follow Toni On Instagram To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week Alessandra is feeling all the zen. Coming off a much needed cabin weekend Alessandra shares the menty b experience that lead her to the cabin in the first place. Later into the episode Alessandra shares a statistic about married women that is really shocking! As always you spilled the scorching hot tea with submissions about in laws, distant friends, career moves and more Alessandra is giving all the advice. To write in your Spill The Tea For Therapy Submissions email us at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com for all the toxic bestie advice. Follow Alessandra http://instagram.com/vibinwithabgto keep up in real time! SHOPIFY: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin NPR: Check out the Life Kit podcast by NPR PROGRESSIVE: Get your auto quote today at progressive.com http://progressive.com/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Alessandra is answering all your pressing questions today! Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! NPR: Check out the lifekit podcast by NPR See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week Alessandra is catching us up on her recent trip to Kentucky that started with a hellacious turn of events. She encountered an unexpected guest at her Airbnb and also talks about her recent life changing hair journey. All in all, this episode is filled with lots of girl talk, including what to do if your friend is not reaching out enough! To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at rocketmoney.com/vibin NPR: Check out the lifekit podcast by NPR Progressive: Get your auto quote today at progressive.com http://progressive.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Clear, direct communication, reciprocity, and adult friendships are the theme of this solo catch-up. Alessandra gets honest about recognizing patterns (hello, boundaries!), pulling back when there’s no reciprocity, and why you don’t owe anyone a 24/7 version of you. We dig into millennial money shame (renting vs. buying in 2025), dating after divorce when you have kids, and the grief that comes when friendships shift as loved ones enter the “mom era.” Plus: fall fragrance layering with pistachio lotion, dark-academia book recs, and cozy TV/book adaptations to binge. BOOKS MENTIONED: (Donna Tartt) https://amzn.to/47yqHoY, (Sangu Mandanna) https://amzn.to/46e6fHt, (Tara Westover) https://amzn.to/3IhY9Wq. To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Progressive: get your auto insurance quote at progressive.com http://progressive.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Plus-size supermodel and body-positivity advocate TESS HOLLIDAY joins Alessandra to talk representation in fashion, practicing BODY NEUTRALITY, eating-disorder recovery, mental health, motherhood, dating while plus-size (and queer), and building real community in an algorithm-obsessed world. We get into setting boundaries online, handling trolls with compassion (and clapbacks), finding confidence through action, protecting your inner child, and why third spaces matter. Tess also shares the heart behind her new teen/tween book, , packed with expert insights, prompts, and practical tools for navigating social media, friendships, and body image. If you’ve ever felt “too much” or “not enough,” this one’s your soft place to land. Buy Take Up Space Y'all https://amzn.to/3Vzp42U Follow Tess on instagram https://www.instagram.com/tessholliday/?hl=en&utm_source=chatgpt.com and tik tok https://www.tiktok.com/%40tessholliday?lang=en&utm_source=chatgpt.com To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin Progressive: Get your auto quote today at progressive.com http://progressive.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Today Alessandra is joined by Phaith Montoya (@phaithmontoya). Using her platform for fashion, beauty and most importantly plus size positivity, Phaith is a fresh air in the social media world. She talks about dealing with her haters, not wanting the world to weaponize her health journey, and how the strong women in her life have influenced her. Tik Tok: phaithmontoya YouTube:@phaith To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin Progressive: Get your auto quote at progressive.com http://progressive.com today See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week Alessandra is joined by her fiancé Billi for a little Q&A session. Alessandra is shocked to find out what Billi determines to be the soundtrack to his life. The couple shares what they wish they would have known before getting into a serious relationship and what do they think non negotiable should be in your partner. Alessandra came upon a TikTok series that highlighted a young girl's abusive relationship and this leads to a discussion on how important it is to maintain your individualism in a relationship and so much more. Later in the episode a listener spills the tea about her friends secret betrayal! To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin Progressive: head to progressive.com http://progressive.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Kayla (@corporatespiritguide), if you didn't know, is part of the KILLR team! Today she joins Alessandra for a fun conversation on how she's been dealing with haters, how people should educate themselves with history of the Appalachia, and shares her diverse background from being adopted to corporate lawyer. To write in about your dating experiences or for any advice, email vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com and make sure to check us out @vibinandkindathrivin! To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week on Vibin’ & Kinda Thrivin’, Alessandra gets real about her latest emotional reads, the dark side of social media, and why hitting kids is never okay. She shares her thoughts on desensitization, parenting, and letting go of people-pleasing in her 30s. Plus, listeners write in with messy family drama (tequila was definitely involved), boundary issues in blended families, and navigating heartbreak after losing a soulmate-level friend. Send your stories to VIBINANDKINDATHRIVIN@GMAIL.COM. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin LISTEN TO LIFE KIT ON NPR See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week on Vibin’ and Kinda Thrivin’, Alessandra dives into summer reading recs (hello and ), her favorite NYC bookstores, and why being an adult in summer kinda sucks. Then it’s time to with messy listener submissions about family drama, toxic in-laws, wedding betrayals, and porn addiction in relationships. If you love unfiltered advice, juicy stories, and all the bookish vibes this episode is for you. Submit your tea to VIBINANDKINDATHRIVIN@GMAIL.COM. To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at rocketmoney.com/vibin http://rocketmoney.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week on Vibin’ and Kinda Thrivin’, Alessandra shares life updates, Love Island hot takes, and her favorite new reads. She talks about planning her first international trip with Billi and rebranding the pod. In the segment, listeners write in with messy family drama, toxic friendships, and tough boundaries with parents. From secret families at Thanksgiving to getting cut from a wedding party, it’s a rollercoaster of relatable chaos. Send in your own questions to vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com and tune in every Wednesday for new episodes. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at rocketmoney.com/vibin http://rocketmoney.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


ENCORE: This week we are clued into Alessandra's Sunday evening stream of consciousness. She is spilling the tea on her new drugstore hair care routine, her thoughts on the current climate of dating from an outsider and more. This week we have a Spill The Tea from a listener wondering if she is just settling for the first guy she felt safe with or is she engaged to the right person? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


This week on , Alessandra is back with an episode full of pop culture chaos, personal faves, and some seriously raw listener advice. She dives into the latest drama (Taylor is the op, okay?!), breaks down her go-to summer scent layering routine, and shares her current reading slump struggles;Kindle girls, you’ll relate. Then it’s time to Spill the Tea: from forgiving your former messy self to navigating friendships with subtle competition and deciding whether that “changed” ex deserves a second chance. It’s candid, comforting, and exactly what you need to hear this week. To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions at rocketmoney.com/vibin http://rocketmoney.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Alessandra is checking in after a particularly mentally draining week and after a long weekend of doom scrolling. Alessandra pulls questions from her IG that range from funny to deep. How can you pull yourself out of a funk, what tasks give her the most anxietym and what does Alessandra wish she knew earlier in life? Find out this week! We want your input so message Alessandra on IG@vibinwithabg Thank you to the sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for a $1 per-month trial period at Shopify.com/vibin http://Shopify.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


On this episode of , I’m joined by YouTuber and host ofand Toni Bryanne, for a no-filter deep dive into the chaos of modern life. We’re talking everything from the rise (and fall) of ethical journalism in the age of AI to why Gen Alpha can’t read, and how misinformation is warping our collective empathy. We get into the Sydney Sweeney bathwater situation, the oversexualization of women in media, and whether it’s possible to reclaim power through sex work or if the marketing is just getting lazy. Plus, we’re going on modern dating, emotional unavailability, choosing peace over partnerships, and why women in their 30s are living their best, most intentional lives. And of course, we wrap with a that had both of us yelling “drop him off at his mom’s!” If you’ve ever felt like you’re changing faster than the world can keep up, this one’s for you. Subscribe to Toni's Channel https://youtube.com/@tonibryannetv?si=XHqIEuFOXh5bNLNP Follow Toni On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tonibryannetv?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== To write in your own Spill The Tea For Therapy submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com. Follow Alessandra @vibinwithabg http://instagram.com/vibinwithabg To support the show please check out the sponsors! Earnin': Download Earnin today on the google play and apple app stores. Shopify: Start your $1 a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://shopify.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


Alessandra is back after a chaotic trip to Arizona—complete with an unexpected bout of hay fever—and she’s catching you up on everything from Pride in Asbury Park to her nieces visiting and a soul-stirring Teddy Swims concert at Radio City. This week’s “Spill the Tea” dives deep with advice on family betrayal, emotionally manipulative partners, messy weddings, weaponized therapy, toxic grandmothers, and friendship shifts after motherhood. Alessandra unpacks the reality of being single in your 30s, why kids today can’t read, and how fake allergies took her out. Tune in for brutally honest advice, heartfelt commentary, and the unfiltered chaos you come for. To write in a Spill The Tea Submission email Alessandra at vibinandkindathrivin@gmail.com Thank you for supporting the show by checking out the sponsors! Rocket Money: Cancelled your unwanted subscriptions at rocketmoney.com/vibin http://www.rocketmoney.com/vibin Shopify: Sign up for your $1a month trial period at shopify.com/vibin http://www.shopify.com/vibin See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.