Father's with a say

Father's with a say

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4 Father's with 4 different experiences and challenges to fatherhood. We discuss our situations as well as situations other father's go through.
If you have any questions for us you want answered, send us a DM! @fatherswithasay

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18 episodes

WHY PUT YOUR FRIENDS BEFORE YOUR KIDS?

So many parents put their friends before their kids. This week we discuss this and whose at fault for this and how we as fathers would handle a situation if we felt like this was being done to our kids.  Hope you enjoy this episode and as always feel free to get in touch via our instagram @fatherswithasay

39m
Sep 05, 2021
IT'S OK TO KNOW YOU'RE A SH*T PARENT BUT NOT BE ONE

This week we look at doing too much as a parent and if it's possible. We also touch on signs that you're being a sh*t parent, taking accountability and more. Hope you enjoy this episode, share it with a friend and on your socials if you did. Catch you you next week

35m
Aug 15, 2021
INSTAGRAM IS FOR ENJOYABLE CONTENT NOT YOUR PARENTAL ISSUES

In this we episode we talk about bring dramas to instagram. Why is this the place parents go to. Is it for attention or a cry for help? If you have you'd like to discuss further feel free to DM us (@fatherswithasay), or you can come on the podcast and we can go  further into it. As always hope you enjoy this episode and thanks for listening

38m
Aug 12, 2021
YOUR NEW PARTNER ISN'T YOUR CHILD'S PARENT

This episode we have a conversation on a child calling their parents new partner mum or dad? Would we be comfortable with it, should it even be a thing and can it have damaging or confusing implications for the child?  As always if you enjoyed this episode or have anything to add or discuss further, send us a direct message on Instagram (@fatherswithasay) and we can go from there. Thanks for listening

44m
Jul 28, 2021
YOU MOVING HOME DISRUPTS OUR CHILDS LEARNING

Finally back at the table to discuss a load more around fatherhood. This week we discuss living situations surrounding our child and how certain decisions can effect their lifeystyle, especially schooling. Enjoy this one and get in touch via instagram @fatherwithasay, if you have any comments on this episode.

40m
Jul 18, 2021
LITTLE BOYS NEED A MALE PRESENCE GROWING UP!

In this episode we touch on why we think little boys need a male presence as well as why little girls would need a female presence growing up. The views shared in this podcast do not mean we or anyone single handily is against young boys being raised by their mothers only. Hopefully you listen to the podcast and understand before casting judgment based on the title alone.  Hope you enjoy this this, and as always if you have any views you'd like to discuss, please don't hesitate to get at us in our DM's -  Instagram: @fatherswithasay

42m
Dec 26, 2020
HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH YOUR KID BRINGING DRUGS IN THE HOUSE?

Finding drugs in your house. How would you approach this and what would you do with your child. We discuss how we would face these challenges. If you can relate to this topic we would love to hear how you dealt with this situation, DM us on instagram with your responses @fatherswithasay

37m
Nov 15, 2020
SHOULD CHILD ABUSERS BE HUNG?

In this episode we discuss the unfortunate circumstance of the abduction of an 11 year old girl on her way to school. How would we handle it if it was our daughter, what should his punishment be and should people that harm children really be hung? Let us know your views on this topic over on our instagram @fatherswithasay

49m
Nov 08, 2020
WOULD YOU PUT YOUR CHILD IN A CAB BY THEMSELVES?

In this epiosde we look at parental guidance and how we would build trust with our kid. We also discuss if would put our child in a cab by themselves at 13 years old? What would you do? Send us a message on instagram @fatherswithasay

40m
Nov 01, 2020
SHOULD MY KIDS SEE ME IN PRISON?

In this episode we discuss whether or not we would want our kids to come and see us in prison. We also talk about how we would react in certain situations that could ultimately put us in prison away from our kids. If you can relate to the topics discussed we'd love to hear from you or for you to come on for an episode. Dm us on instagram @fatherswithasay! Thanks for listening, catch you in episode 10!

50m
Oct 18, 2020
BEING A NEW DAD AND HAVING A CHILD WITH A DISABILITY

In this episode we discuss Brad being a dad for the second time and also look at the possibility of having a disabled child and what we would feel and do. We know some subjects will be sensitive to some people and we hope we don't cause any offence to anyone. However these are our thoughts that we stick by and would be open to any further discussions if you would like to have any. MESSAGE US ON OUR INSTAGRAM @FATHERSWITHASAY. THANKS FOR LISTENING TO THIS EPISODE

34m
Oct 11, 2020
ARE YOU ENTITLED TO KNOW WHERE YOUR CHILD IS?

In this episode we discuss whether we think you as the other parent can ask where your kids are. Are you entitled to know of their whereabouts if they aren't with who you thought they were with, even if it's not your week/weekend to have them. Enjoy this episode and let us know your thoughts over on our instagram  @fatherswithasay

28m
Sep 20, 2020
SAVE YOUR BEST FRIENDS FAMILY OR LEAVE THEM TO RUIN IT?

In this episode we discuss a few topics. One being what we would do if your best friend was messing around whilst they had a family at home. It's so easy to egg our mates on but what would do...leave them to live their life or think about their family at home and try save a family that could be broken? Thanks for listening, get at us on Instagram @fatherswithasay if you have any comments or discussions you'd like to carry on

49m
Sep 13, 2020
WHO ARE YOU SAVING, YOUR MUM OR YOUR WIFE?

In this episode we cover various topics from how we would react to our partner being racist, who comes first between our mother, daughter and wife and much more. Like always if you have any you'd like to discuss following on from our conversations please feel free to send us a message on Instagram - @fatherswithasay Thanks for  listening.

53m
Sep 06, 2020
FINDING OUT THE CHILD ISN'T YOURS AFTER 3 YEARS!

In this episode we discuss the unfortunate situation that some father's go through of finding out that the child they believed was theirs actually isn't. We unpack our thoughts and share if we think we would stay or go. We also discuss if we would rather know the truth or be non the wiser forever. Enjoy this episode and if you have any thoughts or conversations you'd like to carry on, send us a message on instagram, @FATHERSWITHASAY. *ALSO REMEMBER TO RATE THIS EPISODE *

56m
Aug 09, 2020
CAN I BE A FATHER TO A CHILD THAT'S NOT MINE?

In this episode we discuss whether we would be a father figure/dad to our ex partners child if their dad wasn't in their life. We also touch on adoption and if it's for us or not. As always we hope you enjoy this episode. If you have any thoughts or questions regarding this episode, feel free to continue the conversation with us on our Instagram @FATHERSWITHASAY Thanks for listening

53m
Aug 02, 2020
MY CHILD'S MUM IS DEAD, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

In this episode we discuss how we would be effected if the mother's of our kids passed away and how we would deal with the responsibilities and everything that came with it Condolences to Maya Rivera and Nicole Thea as well as all the other mother's that have unfortunately lost their lives in similar circumstances.

1h 1m
Jul 26, 2020
THE UPS AND DOWNS TO FATHERHOOD

Welcome back to the new and improved podcast! In this episode we touch on our 4 different experiences to fatherhood, taking accountability and more. Enjoy this one and DM us on instagram (@fatherswithasay) if you have any thoughts or questions regarding today's episode.

1h 6m
Jul 19, 2020